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Keep It Real

I received an email from a reader who has a little dilemma. She says that she has not been “authentic” with her man when it comes to the bedroom stuff. She pretends to be inexperienced and lately she has been pulling a “Meg Ryan” and faking it. (I don’t think Meg Ryan will ever live down that diner scene!).

Since the relationship is pretty serious now, she wants to be more honest with her man. She is concerned about his reaction to the truth: there are times when she has her own tricks that she wants to try. There are also times when she is too tired and doesn’t have the energy.

So how do you keep it real with your mate in the bedroom? Do you prefer full disclosure, tell me every thing approach? Do you want things to be said in the moment or while you two are at brunch?

Guys, do you want your women to be real in the bedroom or are you perfectly fine with the fake out? Ladies, do you find it hard to keep it real with your man when it comes to things like this?

Happy Friday  & Happy Mother’s Day to all the mothers!!

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LIONESS- About to Cook

May 8th, 2009
11:45 am

Sexy- GOOD MORNING VIETNAM!! LMAO!

Dan

May 8th, 2009
11:45 am

@WD

Question: what is/was the point of “porcelain doll”?

SexyCool

May 8th, 2009
11:46 am

Oh my….did I just type THAT?

Yeah…I did.

MELO

May 8th, 2009
11:47 am

You do realize that the human mouth has over 300 germs in it right?

yeah but naaaw.God made those mouth gems harmless.Thats waaay diff to exposing that mouth to some foreign man or woman’s nether with God knows what? std(s) they may be carrying.
I shudder at that bravery.

For Real

May 8th, 2009
11:48 am

“Eat it like it’s a wet, juicy Georgia peach and you will be doing it JUST right.” – You can eat a peach without using your teeth? Dayum!!! Can you suck a golf ball thru a waterhose???

Dan

May 8th, 2009
11:48 am

@Sexy

Slowly killed me…..

LIONESS- About to Cook

May 8th, 2009
11:48 am

Jtj- Mail call

Grace

May 8th, 2009
11:48 am

LOL funny For Real

LIONESS- About to Cook

May 8th, 2009
11:49 am

For REal- LMAO!!

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
11:49 am

put your face in it

:lol:

LMAO @ “hot breath!”

:lol: I have a friend who tried to hook me up with one of her classmates. His breath was kickin! I brought it up to her and she’s like “oh, you noticed it too, I thought it was just me!”

The. worst.

LIONESS- About to Cook

May 8th, 2009
11:50 am

Men PLEASE wash your hand THOROUGHLY before putting the finger in or around the nana..

LIONESS- About to Cook

May 8th, 2009
11:50 am

Ared- She was DEAD WRONG!!

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
11:51 am

I shudder at that bravery.

No one is talking about putting mouths on randoms melo, though plenty of people do it.

My point is that if you’re saving those type of actions for someone special, they should be special enough to be trusted to not give you disease whether orally or va-jay-jayly. :lol:

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
11:52 am

Lioness, and it’s a shame too cuz he’s tall, fit and cute. Just my type.

But the BREATH! Flowers wilted!

JtJ

May 8th, 2009
11:53 am

Thanks Tazzee…..Maybe next time…..I am going somewhere….cause I got to a point to prove with him…..LOL

Sassy Me....I make it do what it do baby :-)

May 8th, 2009
11:54 am

Men PLEASE wash your hand THOROUGHLY before putting the finger in or around the nana..

Okay?!…..my inner scientist will now allow dirty hands or long nasty fingernails anywhere near my cookie.

Sassy Me....I make it do what it do baby :-)

May 8th, 2009
11:54 am

OMG I meant to type NOT allow………

Poppa Grande

May 8th, 2009
11:57 am

Lioness

300 is the normal. Hot breath and early morning breath can easily have more.

I just find it funny because many people are willing to swap spit than the other. The creamosumyungguy is actually not as bad on the germ scale as saliva.

MELO

May 8th, 2009
11:57 am

they should be special enough to be trusted to not give you disease whether orally or va-jay-jayly

Oh yeah!Absolutely!
I eat Queen’s Ga peach,revel in it and lick and chop my lips smetimes I wonder and fear if that nana rubber is really wear and tear resistant.Y
U shld see the shine on ma nose an’ moustache when i put my head up :twisted:

Sybil

May 8th, 2009
11:57 am

The washed hands thought is admirable, but really, how many times in your LIFE have you EVER stopped a dude mid-session and said, “Are your hands clean?”

For Real

May 8th, 2009
11:58 am

Lioness: Oh yeah baby kiss mamma’s neck, yeah squeeze mamma’s breast. What are you doing?

Dude: HUH!! Im tryin to feel how wet da cooda cat is

Lioness: You betta wash yo fuggin fanga first!!

Dude: Sticking his fanga in his mouth

LIONESS- About to Cook

May 8th, 2009
11:58 am

Sassy- LMAO @ the unedited comment!

Ared- The cute ones tend to be the ones with the hottest dragon breath EVER!!

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
12:01 pm

Lawd, why do I even post to melo? :lol:

TMI!!!!

LIONESS- About to Cook

May 8th, 2009
12:01 pm

Sybil- MANY times!!! My nana is prone to yeast when the PH is off by the slightest little bit! My ex KNEW, don’t EVEN think about it :evil:

LIONESS- About to Cook

May 8th, 2009
12:01 pm

For Real- Dude in your skit would get kicked in his chest!

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
12:02 pm

TMI abound. Thank you Lioness. :lol:

LIONESS- About to Cook

May 8th, 2009
12:03 pm

Poppa Grande

May 8th, 2009
12:03 pm

Melo

God made those mouth gems harmless.

Not totally true. There are recent studies that link mouth germs to heart attacks.

http://www.thaindian.com/newsportal/health1/more-mouth-germs-increase-risk-of-heart-attack_100174376.html

JtJ

May 8th, 2009
12:03 pm

Leggs…..Mail Call!

Grace

May 8th, 2009
12:04 pm

how many times in your LIFE have you EVER stopped a dude mid-session and said, “Are your hands clean?” Sybil my hand is raised up high on that one.

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
12:04 pm

Lioness – What you cooking today? You didn’t save me any oxtails last week!

Grace

May 8th, 2009
12:07 pm

sorry bout my computer frozed up on me…Sybil ALL the time. No dirty hands or dirty wang allowed.

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
12:09 pm

It’s lunchtime and I’m no longer hungry. :lol:

MELO

May 8th, 2009
12:10 pm

Cuttie,the problem with For Real,after hes done washing his hands and getting u Os worked up,as u take that deep breath,lying side by side and talking sweet nothings,u bound to go like:

Cuttie: So For Real,when u cming to see my mom and dad?
For Real: For What????? :grin:

Cuttie: my mom likes u, i thoght we taking this to the next level baby..(with ur sweet voice)

For Real: baby gerl,look at me and look at my mouth,i told u i dont want a relationship and i dont want a girl friend..now get outta my bed.
Biaatches….!! :grin:

JtJ

May 8th, 2009
12:13 pm

Lioness…..mail call back to you!

You hanging out Sat ARED???

lurker

May 8th, 2009
12:14 pm

Ared whatchu know bout oxtails?

LIONESS- About to Cook

May 8th, 2009
12:16 pm

Ared- I am baking chicken, saute’ing some lentils & making white rice.. Girl, you are BUSY AS HEYELL on the weekend. Hw were you supposed to get any?

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
12:17 pm

lurker, I’on know jack about oxtails, but Lioness was putting her foot all up in em last week!

JtJ – I am hanging on Saturday, but I have a date, so I’m giving that precedence.

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
12:19 pm

Girl, you are BUSY AS HEYELL on the weekend. Hw were you supposed to get any?

Couldn’t I have wrapped it to go? :lol:

LIONESS- About to Cook

May 8th, 2009
12:19 pm

I sent Ared my recipe.. She is going to know all about them when she cooks them :)

Sybil

May 8th, 2009
12:20 pm

Surveying the men on the board, has a chick ever stopped you when things were heating up and asked you if your hands were clean?

LIONESS- About to Cook

May 8th, 2009
12:22 pm

Ared- LMAO!! Yeah you could have :)

Cemeeli

May 8th, 2009
12:24 pm

Just came back from lunch and the restaurants are not packed. I know by Sunday there will be a line as long as I-20 to get in these places.

….before i forget….

Happy Mother’s Day!

To all the ladies…

DJ Sniper

May 8th, 2009
12:29 pm

Sybil, I’ve never had a chick ask me that. I’ve been with a few who said that they didn’t like a finger down in that area, so I complied with that request. Can’t remember ever having to get up to wash my hands in the heat of the moment.

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
12:29 pm

Happy Mother’s Day!

To all the ladies…

:shock:

Don’t you put that stuff on me Ricky Bobby!

(Just joking around Ceemeeli, I know who you were directing it to. :lol: )

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

May 8th, 2009
12:32 pm

Sybil I love looking at a man’s hands, so I’ll notice if his hands are dirty before things ever start to heat up. But I’ve never stopped and asked if his hands were clean.

Now I will stop a kissing session and ask him to go brush his teeth and tongue.

JtJ

May 8th, 2009
12:33 pm

Get yo date on then girl!!! It is supposed to be nice Saturday.

Cemeeli

May 8th, 2009
12:34 pm

where is everyone? helloooo, hellooo…

Am i the only fool working after lunch? The Holiday started early for everyone ‘cept me?

:cry:sniffs

Cemeeli

May 8th, 2009
12:36 pm

ARed – You have ovaries. That includes you too!

For those that had ‘em, and removed em for whatever reason….the same.

lurker

May 8th, 2009
12:36 pm

Cemeeli You are not alone…I’m here and working all day at that…