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City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
City & State or ZIP
City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
City & State or ZIP

Which side are you on?

After I interviewed Abiola of the dating reality show, Tough Love, I made sure to watch the finale of the show to see how the dating boot camp would end. I think my favorite part of the show is when Steve Ward surprised the women with the “Cute or Crazy” game.

The audience was filled with men and Steve read off the list of quirky habits/facts about the women on the show. The guys then informed the ladies how they ranked: was it cute or crazy behavior! I’ve said it before, but women don’t always know how men perceive them and their behaviors. It was shocking to the women how something seemingly so innocent made the men think ca-ra-zy chick alert!

We all have those quirky things that makes us unique. Should we worry about concealing them though? What happens when we have some type of behavior that we think is cute and quirky- but in reality, it makes potential dates cringe, laugh, or seek out therapy for us!

If you are feeling brave, share your odd or quirky habits or quirkyness. Then the readers can respond with cute or crazy and let each other know if this should be revealed to dates sooner or later, much much later.

I think I have a few, ok more than a few but I will start with three:

I avoid men with odd shaped heads. I suppose it’s related to children and our potential to have egg-shaped heads. Who wants to give birth to a bowling ball headed kid?! (Cute or Crazy?)

I don’t trust men who refuse to eat anything exotic. Ok, let’s avoid the double entendre! If you hang out with me, you will get bored ordering bread and water while I sample cuisines of other countries. Live a little! (Cute or Crazy?)

If you don’t embrace technology or utilize it in any way, shape, or form, I consider you a caveman and secretly make fun of you with my friends. (Cute or Crazy?)

I can do this all day! I will add more, but why not weigh in with yours? Please be gentle with the commenters, we can all have opinions, but no need to rake each other over the coals!

HAPPY WEDNESDAY!

421 comments Add your comment

lurker

May 6th, 2009
4:47 pm

WD Wait, this opinionated bunch has yet to ID who is cute or crazy

I guess it’s safe to say we’ve got more crazy than cute happening huh?

Jamoca

May 6th, 2009
4:47 pm

Cee – Isn’t that what I said? LOL…I just like to get a real good taste of the alcohol in the actual flavor of the rum. Ice Cream and rum sauce, just means more alcohol to me. LOL Like lovin’ the hotness of eating a whole pepper (jalapeno or greek doesn’t really matter)…just for my nose to run and my eyes to water. If there is no effect, then I don’t think it’s hot enough. But I met my match, trying to eat a few raw jamaican scotch bonnett peppers over smoked snapper…while trying to look cute at the same time or crab shulah, spicy enough to make your eyeballs pop out of your head. Not cute, but those were good, fun times! LOL

Leggs- I’m not even gonna try it today! lol

i'm swiss

May 6th, 2009
4:48 pm

Cee — I’ve actually only played Wii twice in my life (both times Wii tennis, of course), but I must warn you — I’m a natural & I have no mercy! This past weekend I made an 8-yr-old girl cry by whooping that azz at Wii tennis! :lol: (Hey, she was talking sh!t… she had it coming) :lol:

Leggs

May 6th, 2009
4:49 pm

@ lurker = Pretty Much!

Wise Diva

May 6th, 2009
4:49 pm

@Blow Me, I was too through with her, Brock WAS a hottie and appeared to really dig her! I told Abiola that she was the first brown girl on Vh1 reality show that I actually watched without throwing my shoe at the tv, LOL. She represented really well, I related to her a lot on there. Blow me, you should try out for season 2, they are casting right now! LOL

Jamoca

May 6th, 2009
4:51 pm

LOL – WiseD …see, I was trying to give you the benefit of the doubt! I figured that too, but I was told by “sumbody” that I’m too “suspect of folks”…so I’ll stick with my paranoia!…hahahaa So is it also, yours truly eatin’ up my posts….this is the third time maaan….I mean, ma’am LOL (but n/r)!

MELO

May 6th, 2009
4:53 pm

‘it’s a joke…can you answer it’

i got an R-rated answer so lets wait untill the kids go to sleep,unless u want me over at the crib!

Leggs

May 6th, 2009
4:53 pm

Here’s a newfound quirk of mine. Was about to put my half bottle of juice back in the fridge here at work. Looked at it and immediately thought, naw, anybody can drop something down in my drink. I’ll take it home!

Blow Me

May 6th, 2009
4:53 pm

WISE DIVA….Wow! I actually LOL on that one! NO thanks! I think I’ll past the torch to Beautiful! lmao! Yeah Abiola…dang I spelled her name wrong early was such a cutie…I really liked her. Now the other girl he kicked off was a bit crazy and her mother was (nah I won’t say it…I might get the post trapped in spam!!) but yeah real low class…She needed MAJOR help. I kind of thought the host was pretty hot myself to be honest…extremely cocky but attractive nonetheless.

Good night all!

Leggs

May 6th, 2009
4:54 pm

Jamoca, you of all people, why you igging my jokes?

Leggs

May 6th, 2009
4:55 pm

Is that a quirk or is that paranoia? :lol:

Jamoca

May 6th, 2009
4:55 pm

Leggs – I tend to think that on the regular of co-workers…I’d bring some flavored creams for coffee or danishes, but won’t touch them again myself. Keep a tote bag at my desk and everything…just don’t want no one touching my things at all! Yep, that’s me.

Wise Diva

May 6th, 2009
4:57 pm

Nooo Jamoca, I SWEAR, I haven’t zapped ANY of your posts. EVER (I don’t think?), nah girl, I wouldn’t do that to YOU. *smile*

MELO

May 6th, 2009
4:57 pm

I think its neither.

Its a quickie!

good nite..
its raining and my lap top crashed.
The gods must be craaaaazy mad at me!

Cemeeli

May 6th, 2009
4:57 pm

“This past weekend I made an 8-yr-old girl cry by whooping that azz at Wii tennis! (Hey, she was talking sh!t… she had it coming. :lol:

Swiss – I like your GAME STYLE! I make my 10year old son upset aaaaalll the time when whoppin’ up that butt on the Wii or even in some boardgames.

I have NO mercy!

Jamoca

May 6th, 2009
4:58 pm

Leggs- you tole’ me that I could no longer play…next time I’mma google the answer…there is nothing you can’t find on the “innanet”. LOL

I did answer you and Cee btw,…WiseD provoked all three posts! …even now I’m typing 60wpm trying to cram all that’s spewing off the top of my head before this dayum thang closes on time…said a bunch of ish to a whole lotta folks to include MS. DIVA herself!…bossy behind!!! LMAO…but it’s true anyhow!

Jamoca

May 6th, 2009
4:59 pm

meant revoked all three posts!!!

Leggs

May 6th, 2009
5:01 pm

Answer: When it’s ajar…get it’s a jar!

Goodnight everyone!

SexyCool

May 6th, 2009
5:01 pm

All of a sudden, I am just exHAUSTED. Alas, I look at the time and see that is 5p. That’s why. Time to bounce!!!

Jamoca

May 6th, 2009
5:02 pm

LOL @ WiseD!!!…that’s alright though…from this day forward, copy n’ paste will be mandatory!!!

…now let’s see if this gets through…bet yeen closing it on time today! HA!…g’nite you all.

LIONESS- Going to SCREAM If I Get ONE More Email About A Free KFC Meal!

May 6th, 2009
5:02 pm

I almost forgot, I am ADDICTED to paper towels..