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City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
City & State or ZIP
City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
City & State or ZIP

Which side are you on?

After I interviewed Abiola of the dating reality show, Tough Love, I made sure to watch the finale of the show to see how the dating boot camp would end. I think my favorite part of the show is when Steve Ward surprised the women with the “Cute or Crazy” game.

The audience was filled with men and Steve read off the list of quirky habits/facts about the women on the show. The guys then informed the ladies how they ranked: was it cute or crazy behavior! I’ve said it before, but women don’t always know how men perceive them and their behaviors. It was shocking to the women how something seemingly so innocent made the men think ca-ra-zy chick alert!

We all have those quirky things that makes us unique. Should we worry about concealing them though? What happens when we have some type of behavior that we think is cute and quirky- but in reality, it makes potential dates cringe, laugh, or seek out therapy for us!

If you are feeling brave, share your odd or quirky habits or quirkyness. Then the readers can respond with cute or crazy and let each other know if this should be revealed to dates sooner or later, much much later.

I think I have a few, ok more than a few but I will start with three:

I avoid men with odd shaped heads. I suppose it’s related to children and our potential to have egg-shaped heads. Who wants to give birth to a bowling ball headed kid?! (Cute or Crazy?)

I don’t trust men who refuse to eat anything exotic. Ok, let’s avoid the double entendre! If you hang out with me, you will get bored ordering bread and water while I sample cuisines of other countries. Live a little! (Cute or Crazy?)

If you don’t embrace technology or utilize it in any way, shape, or form, I consider you a caveman and secretly make fun of you with my friends. (Cute or Crazy?)

I can do this all day! I will add more, but why not weigh in with yours? Please be gentle with the commenters, we can all have opinions, but no need to rake each other over the coals!

HAPPY WEDNESDAY!

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MELO

May 6th, 2009
11:30 am

come in the bathroom without knocking and see me with a hand held mirror checking out my Catfish

Slim,i can understand that,esp if the last guy visitor was kinda chompy and bity bity with his mouth action.
Check it just to make sure he aint uprooted anything :lol: :evil:

Thirdwheelofconfusion

May 6th, 2009
11:31 am

lol ok I should have rephrased that because it sounds crazy…. when I have been drinking I like talking to myself in the car…. werid yes… crazy no…..

DuShawn

May 6th, 2009
11:31 am

I lay on the couch in boxers, scratch my nutz and then smell my finger tips. Afterwards, I grab the remote with the same nutsmelling hand and turn to ESPN.

Grace

May 6th, 2009
11:35 am

DuShawn that’s the main reason why I don’t shake men hands cos yall are always scratching and grabbing ur balls.

Leggs

May 6th, 2009
11:35 am

I unplug my kitchen appliances and plug in only when I need to use something. The only thing plugged in is the refrigerator and the stove.

Raqi

May 6th, 2009
11:37 am

Here is a weird one for me.

I hate for someone to hum while eating. That totally irks me. We are sitting there at the table and someone is humming. I don’t care how good the food is, stop humming.

However, the sound of a distance humming is a major turn on. Especially if it’s a machine or motor of some kind. Like the sound of a washer spinning. The sound of the A/C unit outside the window. The sound of my marido using his clippers/trimmers in the bathroom. Those sounds are major turn ons. But do not hum while eating.

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

May 6th, 2009
11:37 am

I don’t know how men, white or black, think a woman with NO AZZ is attractive..

As a woman lacking in the azz department, I can tell you there are plenty men out there that think I am simply beautiful. My current beau is one of them ;-)

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

May 6th, 2009
11:38 am

Just checking in. There are some weird hangups on line today. I guess I have to admit I like ketchup on my steak and most seafood instead of cocktail sauce. I usually order fries when I order a steak and dip my steak in when no one is looking.

Foots…how can you hate on “chocolate chips”? Now that is strange!!!

DuShawn

May 6th, 2009
11:38 am

@lurker “…WILL NOT DO QUES” you forgot to type “ANYMORE”. Obviously, some bruh got that azz and dogged you out.

MELO

May 6th, 2009
11:40 am

I use my right elbow to flush most times.

Thirdwheelofconfusion

May 6th, 2009
11:40 am

I thought of some more…

I think it’s funny when people pass gas and I am the first to laugh
I can’t stand for my food to touch each other
I can’t drink off brand sodas like Kroger or Check… if it’s not coke or pepsi it’s not for me
You will never catch me in a Food Depot or Ingles because I think their meat is dirty and the store smells
I can’t stand for people to have dirty smelly breathe that brings tears to my eyes

MELO

May 6th, 2009
11:42 am

what is ‘QUES’ lurker/DU??

LIONESS- Need To Start Doing My Billy Blanks Today!

May 6th, 2009
11:43 am

Taz-Someone “lacking” is different from someone with “NO” azz..

Raqi

May 6th, 2009
11:43 am

But Lioness remember not all men naturally grow facial hair either.

LIONESS- Need To Start Doing My Billy Blanks Today!

May 6th, 2009
11:44 am

Melo- Thank you! I was wondering too :)

That “catfish” word for nana is HILARIOUS!! I stay veiwing my “catfish”..

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

May 6th, 2009
11:46 am

This is a bit scary…I may have been guilty of some of the “no no’s” listed above. Hmmm, I need to think about some of these. I knew “farting” was unacceptable, but never realized “military”, or “pointy heads” and I have been accused of “humming” while I eat (sinus condition I think).

I may have to go back to the monastery.

Foots

May 6th, 2009
11:46 am

Lion I can’t sleep while others are driving either.

Leggs I thought I was the only one that rocked or bopped while eating something that makes me happy. :lol:

I don’t usually sleep with the TV on because I know I would bring whatever is going on on TV into the dream. The only time I do that is during a presidential election, because they are counting votes all night, or if there is bad weather coming. Then it’s a blessing to be able to hear it in my dream and wake up to see what’s really going on.

I discovered that I was pretty good at this in middle school. I used to sleep with the radio on very low, to the point where I had to strain to hear it when awake, so that I wouldn’t miss my favorite songs if they happened to play them in the middle of the night.

Grace

May 6th, 2009
11:47 am

Leggshumming and rocking while eating some bomb diggidy fried chicken while Raqi is totally irked :D

Tazzee As a woman lacking in the azz department, I can tell you there are plenty men out there that think I am simply beautiful. My current beau is one of them…..two snaps!

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

May 6th, 2009
11:48 am

OK, my quirks:

– I like to maintain a balance in my denomination of money. If I have two 20’s and a 5, I’ll break the 20 to get a 10 before using the 5 to buy something that costs $3. It’s really frustrating because lately 10 dollar bills are scarce. So I get a little peeved when the cashier gives me three 5’s instead of a 10 and a 5.

– I also make sure all my bills face the same direction when in my wallet or before I hand it to someone to pay for something.

– I balance my bank account to my check register and then my check register to my budget spreadsheet at least once a week and I check my bank accounts online daily.

– I won’t put my feet on a surface that I haven’t cleaned. I used to wear shower shoes ALL the time, but after I almost slipped in a tub, now I put down a towel before I shower some place foreign.

– Because I like the way I smell (and I fear ever having a smell) I smell my panties when I go to the bathroom. Just a quick sniff ;-)

– I refuse to kiss a man after he eats, unless we ate the same thing. Otherwise, he must brush his teeth and tongue. I don’t want to taste what you had….I don’t understand how folks wake up first thing in the morning and kiss, can’t do it.

– I use my signal light ALL THE TIME, in the parking lot, entering and leaving my driveway. If I’m turning, the signal light comes on.

– I don’t like my food to touch and I can’t stand soggy bread either. But certain foods are meant to be together like grits and eggs. Other than that – I have to get my corn muffin separated from my greens, and sweets can’t touch salty.

that’s all for now – gotta go get lunch.

SexyCool

May 6th, 2009
11:50 am

Taz – I too am not as asstatically blessed as I would like to be. However, the @ss that I have looks great in panties and a t-shirt. (I don’t have extra @ss falling all over the place.)

LIONESS- Need To Start Doing My Billy Blanks Today!

May 6th, 2009
11:51 am

I am DEATHLY afraid of people that HUM!!! OMGoodness! I think they are hexing me :(

SexyCool

May 6th, 2009
11:52 am

OMG – TAZ – You brought back mention of the TOS Panty Posse!!! GIRL, I LOVE YOU!!!

Mrs. Aufton Izzabych

May 6th, 2009
11:53 am

Lioness what is the difference in having the genes that produces no @ss and having the genes that gives you darker skin.
Would it not be unfair or just plain ****** for a man to say “I can’t see how any man could find a woman with darker skin attractive”.

I am not lacking in the rear end department but I do have a darker complexion than my sister. Somethings you cannot naturally change. Therefore there is somebody for everybody.

Just like not all men love a “Raqi”, there are some that would drink my bath water.

But yeah back to the oddities.

Staceye AKA Black Mamba

May 6th, 2009
11:58 am

KYM….”I am convince that a person with no butt is missing a genetic marker.” Girl me too. Could it be because I have a Gluteus MAXIMUS that I think this is normal….can’t say. But a flat azz…just as a small peter should get a disablity goverment check! :lol: Last night where my home girl and I went was so crowded that people were standing around…and this guy had his azz like right in our faces. If it were a nice one..I would not mind…but it was flat. UGH! :roll: So we had this guy take picture of us pointing and laughing at his azz. Dide didn’t even notice. See my Facebook later today….I shall post it. I will title it….”Lackofassitis”…assolutely atrocious! :lol:

3RDWHEEL…” have to sleep with the TV on and I program it before I go to sleep on shows I want to watch and when the TV should go off… Yes, I am sleep during this but I must know the TV is on with something I would like to watch just in case I wake up”…Story of my life. I can not sleep in silence or a radio. I watch cartoons until I fall asleep.

MELO….you chatted with me all night at that party and I have 2 tattoos. Granted they were not on my breasts. :wink:

MO…can you send the 8′10 men to me….the shorties will not leave me alone. :lol:

SLIM…I close my BR door too. My active imagination goes wild! Not to mention my ghosts like to stand in the doorway! :lol:
Oh and I check the choc often too….gotta make sure to keep up the shaving and make sure I did not develop an ingrown. But thanks to the guys of the MLB I have not gotten clippers and rarely get them anymore.

I too scream a loud sigh of relief when sitting on the can….doing any action that I have been holding! :lol:

MO…I like to drive alone so I can play the music I want to and I do not have to talk to anyone. I can rewind the same part of a song 50 times if I want to.

GRACE…I hate to see guys ball scratching. I start thinking he didn’t wash his azz! EWWW!

LIONESS….girl I will go to sleep when somebody else is driving because if we crash I don’t want to see it coming. So you do not sleep on planes?

Oh an my mami hums a lot…so you’d be scared of her! LOL She is not the one in the family who does practice Santeria or Voo-Doo. :But those other locas in my family do! I avoid them.

LIONESS- Need To Start Doing My Billy Blanks Today!

May 6th, 2009
11:59 am

Mrs- Good for you BUT that is getting a bit deep there! Carryon :)

Mrs. Aufton Izzabych

May 6th, 2009
11:59 am

I also make sure all my bills face the same direction when in my wallet or before I hand it to someone to pay for something

Tazzee that is my dad right there. His money has to be organized with the smallest denom on top and the largest in the middle when he folds them in half.

Sassy Me....I make it do what it do baby :-)

May 6th, 2009
12:00 pm

I too am not as asstatically blessed as I would like to be. However, the @ss that I have looks great in panties and a t-shirt. (I don’t have extra @ss falling all over the place.)

Sexy and Taz I kind of had that affliction but I started walking up hill and doing a shyt load of squats and BAM…booty,booty,booty rockin errwhere! :)

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

May 6th, 2009
12:01 pm

I like ketchup on my steak (when no one is watching)..I put mayo on pork and beans (when no one is looking). I like Mayo but my favorite is JFG, which is being phased out…hate Dukes with a passion which was all my ex in laws ate and that got me on their ’shyte’ list from the first visit.

Could be worse though, I knew a guy who used to chew his toenails (not fingernails, toenails!!!). Now that was really wierd.

LIONESS- Need To Start Doing My Billy Blanks Today!

May 6th, 2009
12:01 pm

Staceye- I sleep on planes cause if anything there is nothing that I could do to prevent it. In a car, there is a difference. If the person driving is tired & nods off, I am awake to see that :)

MELO

May 6th, 2009
12:01 pm

Raqi?? i mean bytch, hw can u be a bytch but have no AZZ??

I find that most if not all bytches have out-size Azzes.Thats one of the qualifiying criteria any way :grin: :evil:
When younger i used to associate a big azz with some form of STD affliction.

LIONESS- Need To Start Doing My Billy Blanks Today!

May 6th, 2009
12:02 pm

Sassy- You are too funny!

SexyCool

May 6th, 2009
12:04 pm

My favorite food in the world is a beef hot dog. (I don’t like telling anybody that because it seems so unsophisticated. LOL)

LIONESS- Need To Start Doing My Billy Blanks Today!

May 6th, 2009
12:05 pm

Randy- Did he spit them out? I see with your weird eating habits, you are never constipated :evil: LOL

MELO

May 6th, 2009
12:05 pm

MELO….you chatted with me all night at that party and I have 2 tattoos. Granted they were not on my breasts

You got such strong redeeming qualities Staceye
And ur Azz is certified DANG-DAMN-IT-PLATINUM….. :lol:

Mrs. Aufton Izzabych

May 6th, 2009
12:10 pm

I like ketchup on my steak

Randy I know a man that will have you tarred and feathered for that statement. LOL Nothing but A1 steak sauce…if anything.

Leggs

May 6th, 2009
12:12 pm

Yes, all money must be in order. I have a gf that stuffs all her bills in her wallet all willy nilly. I cannot do that!

@RandyT, ketchup and steak go together (at least in my house).

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

May 6th, 2009
12:12 pm

Lioness – I guess you’re right, ‘lacking’ and ‘no’ are two different things, but I’ve had my fair share of ribbing for lacking. That’s why I ask guys ‘are you a butt man or a breast man?’ :lol:

On driving – I can’t stay awake when someone else is driving. Must be the control freak in me but if I’m not driving, I’m sleeping.

Mo (aka Moeisha- looking for a new haircut)

May 6th, 2009
12:13 pm

Staceye – you get the short dudes and I get the Shaquille O’Neals of the world! I sure will send them to you! Dont send me dudes that are too short though. I have a rule that both of us cant have feet that swing from the bar stool and its cuter when I do it. :0) And I love a road trip alone!!

Sexy & Tazzee – if there were a way for me to give ya’ll some azz I would cause I have always had a lil more “junk in my trunk”.

Raqi

May 6th, 2009
12:15 pm

SexyCool At least you didn’t just say hot dogs. Those other hotdogs are just meat. Now the mystery is what kinds and how much of each. LOL

The best beef hot dogs that I have tasted in a long time are the ones you get at Universal Studios in Fla. Man those things are good. And the ones you get at Target’s food court is the next best. Yep I said Target’s. Now that would be considered unsophisticated if anything.

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

May 6th, 2009
12:16 pm

SexyCool – I almost didn’t mention the panty sniffing but all my other quirks were so ‘vanilla’, LOL – yes the Panty Posse. And yes, I can rock the panty/t-shirt combo very well.

Sassy – step-ups, lunges, squats – you name it, I’ve tried it. No boom, but it’s not flat as a pancake either.

lurker

May 6th, 2009
12:17 pm

DuShawn that’s the main reason why I don’t shake men hands cos yall are always scratching and grabbing ur balls.

That’s why I wouldn’t let the dude at the Varsity take my order…for this reason alone.

Dushawn@lurker “…WILL NOT DO QUES” you forgot to type “ANYMORE”. Obviously, some bruh got that azz and dogged you out.

If you say so. Pay attention….I’ve never done a Que…remember I said I’m best friend with one….and the stories he’s told. Don’t be so quick to judge and think everybody has been a victim…gheesh. Not that I know or owe you an explanation.

Raqi

May 6th, 2009
12:18 pm

I cannot sleep riding in the car with someone I don’t know well or trust.

MELO

May 6th, 2009
12:20 pm

That’s why I ask guys ‘are you a butt man or a breast man?

Tazzee?? Got Milk!?? (see my moustache)I can work with and cling to that breast :lol:
But at least when u slip off the clothing,the cleavage is tantalizing, right? scratch marks,the choco skin…ughhhhhhhhhh :lol: :twisted:

Grace

May 6th, 2009
12:20 pm

Raqi/SexyCool the only hot dog I will eat is Nathan’s hot dog, if it’s not Nathan’s I’ll pass.

Raqi

May 6th, 2009
12:21 pm

Sometimes the rear end is more fat than muscle. Or neither. If you have very little muscle there then no matter how much exercise you do to plump it, it ain’t happening. If the person’s is more fat, not every one’s fat cells gather in the same regions.

lurker

May 6th, 2009
12:21 pm

Dushawn in addition to the fact that I was a finalist for a dual degree scholarship and was invited to the AU Center for lunch and a tour and had etched in my virtous (at that time) brain what I’ll never forget. “Que dogs” I believe was/is the term, running amuck half naked and OUT OF CONTROL. I vowed then bruh. Just having a close friend that’s one keeps me as far away as I can run…not the mention the horrific things you’ve mentioned you’ve done. So, sorry not everybody play Willy lump lump

MELO

May 6th, 2009
12:24 pm

lurker,whats a QUE?

Grace

May 6th, 2009
12:25 pm

If you have very little muscle there then no matter how much exercise you do to plump it, it ain’t happening. Raqi There are some men out there that swear they can make a woman grow some @ss, isn’t that right Melo?

Raqi

May 6th, 2009
12:27 pm

Grace prime example of a man that thinks more of himself than is proven fact. LOL

lurker

May 6th, 2009
12:27 pm

Melo infamous Omega Psi Phi man