The warm weather is on it’s way which means that single women are hitting the gym. We’re in bootcamps, working out with personal trainers, signing up for the classes we have avoided in the past. We want to feel good and look great for summer, and of course turn a couple of heads!
I am sure men are happy that we are peeling away the layers too. They say that men are visual creatures and it’s the woman’s job to appeal to a man. I think a lot of women want to appeal to men but there seems to be a fine line between admiring a woman and objectifying her. This is especially true when it comes to cleavage.
It would be nice to get some male input: Is too much cleavage distracting? Should women use their cleavage as some type of weapon of mass distraction? Which situations call for toning it down and when should women flaunt it a little?
I am asking because I think women know that our bodies are part of our visual allure, but we definitely don’t want to hypnotize men to the point that they check out on us. It’s hard to get men to focus when their eyes are constantly dropping down to chest level.
Ladies, do you ever use your cleavage or body to your advantage? Do you find it difficult to be taken seriously when you do? How do you handle your weapons of mass distraction? What do you do when you are out on the dating scene? Does it at all differ from when you go on a first date?