There were some really interesting comments made yesterday about “bad girls” and their appeal, or lack thereof. I started to think about how so many of us single people often end up dating people who are good for us. What happens when they are not though? Do you think that it is best to date someone who is good for you or someone who is good to you. Of course, we would want both all rolled in one person, right?
When someone is good for you, they are good for your personal growth. They challenge and encourage you because they want to see you fulfill your potential. When someone is good to you, they nurture and protect you. You feel cared for because your role in their life is prominent.
Do you prefer dating someone who is good for you or good to you? Do you think you need both in a relationship? Which is more important?
Have you ever dated someone who was not good for you, but they were good to you? How did that work out?