While Mr. Swiss has a point,

The other thing about about a “bad girl” is that she’s an enabler. She isn’t the chick to pull off the edge of anger, she’s trying to push you over. In a fight, she does what she can, dukes up throwing like the G’s. She goes ALL OUT for her dude and expects the same in return.

And while that has (had?) it’s place in the oh-so-fondly-recalled “younger days”, it doesn’t fit well after…21. By a certain point, “growing up” is the modus operandi, the word for the day. And that “snap first” attitude is unhealthy and unhelpful.

That isn’t to say that a “bad girl” doesn’t have her place in the “adult” world. A jazzy chick is a jazzy chick and sometimes that’s a good thing for growth as some of us still ride the precipice.

I’ve said it before and I will again, I like a chick that is right jazzy with me (at appropriate times). And there’s nothing like walking in with the baddest chick in the room on your arm. Well armed for discussion and dismissal.

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Ladies, is it true that every woman has at least a little bad girl in her? What brings out your bad girl attitude or edginess? How do men respond to it? Are you a reformed bad girl? Was it difficult to break the bad girl habits?

Mornting blog fam….Yes I do think every woman has a little bad girl in them(some more than others) but whether they’ll reveal it is another matter. Personally my bad girl lurks just below the surface and will show her face at will and randomly….sometimes when I wanna have fun my bad girl comes out and makes it happen with her flirty behavior and the men who like it tend to be the shy type and I don’t really like that b/c they’re boring. Then again there are times where I’ll meet someone who can handle my “wild child” and it’s oooon.

Men seem drawn to it at times b/c they say it’s “mysterious” and I think that’s interesting.

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Good Morning All

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LOL I guess I got caught up in the spam bin. WiseDiva if my comments are in the bin don’t bother posting them. I will go a different route.

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Good morning folks.

Bad girls are lame but easy. Give me an educated, fun, good spirited chick with a sense of adventure and I can manufacture the rest. A bad girl isn’t going to do jack but get you in trouble. Its not even the same attraction level that bad guys have for women. For men its like here comes trouble. Who wants to hang out with a chick like Grace Jones that’ll bite the crap out of you if you order the wrong food?

The closest I’ve ever come to a bad girl was a chick with who was irresponsible on all fronts. Thought it was cool at first but proved to be trouble from day 2.

Every woman has ample wild woman in her if nurtured correctly. Thing is if she’s balanced it’ll come out at the appropriate time. Not when she’s screaming at the 6′5″ 260 pound gym owner while standing behind you screaming “my bf will wup your azz”.

On a sad note this is day 4 of 4 of my days off. I need more time off to determine if the last four days were sufficient for total recovery. I’m thinking no.

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Just call me Bad Girl Gone Good.

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Three Words Daily – Detox your mind.

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Some chicks act bad because they think guys like it. I, for one, don’t like it. Some chicks ARE bad because they just are; I still don’t like it. What’s to like about so-called ‘edge’? All the edge does is make people uncomfortable around you, the opposite of what being a lady or gentleman is all about.

That said, Swiss nailed it: bad girls always have guys around because they figure they’ll be getting laid, and they’re usually right.

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It wasn’t difficult to break what little bad girl habits that I had. I just outgrew a lot of what was simply foolishness. However, I still make it a point to disply just a little bit of that sass (channel my inner Nu-Nu) that men seem to find so irresistible.

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Last week I saw a chick that weighed 120 lbs max, going off on this cat that was 230 easy. She’s calling him a punk and telling him she’ll wup his azz and whatnot. At first it was funny but the chick wouldn’t let it go and everyone started walking off. This chick thinks she’s a bad girl but really she’s an idiot. That cat would have tore her little azz out the frame. Add 30 more desgrees and her azz is wupped. They say this place gets real jumpy when the heat goes up. I saw in that guy eyes he was contemplating slapping the crap out of that chick.

Cool, you’re a good girl with a few socially acceptable bad ways. LOL

Kym, where are you?

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Truth – Very well stated.

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Swiss – Good luck on the interview.

Remember, have at least three questions to ask them about the position and/or the company. And be sure to get the correct spellings of any names and contact information for your follow-up letter.

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There’s a bad girl in every woman. Well, there should be especially in the bedroom. Living life somewhat on the edge (meaning within the confines of the law) and being spontaneous, as Raqi stated, is the ingredients to being a bad girl.

BTW, thank you Bobbie! Good, bad, handicapped, blind…all are getting sexed up.

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Dan, that demur chick isnt the opposite of a bad girl. Women need a different skillset than dudes. A chick that possesses the worst skills associated with a sorry dude isnt cool. Just think if you accidently have a child with said chick.

Most women shine the brightest when they’re in a solid relationship. They’re not bad girls but that inner jazz comes out and they’re a ball to be around. Like me and last gf went to a Braves game. She’s wooping and hollering and we just had a good time. Then she turns back into ex gf and head out. Not a bad girl but a fun chick to hang with.

Cool, I’m putting together a resume as we speak and its challenging trying to structure it for all the jobs I’m applying for. How do you tell a company you’re a job ho willing to do anything except what you’re currently doing? LOL

Swiss, good luck.

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Truth, I see the evolution of the whole “bad girl” thing to adulthood as good thing.

While I worry about the “in the corner” chick, the one that is assertive, confident, contrary and capable would be a “bad chick”.

She don’t deal with dudes on that submissive tip, she speaks her mind, is confident with all aspects of herself, and if a cat/chick don’t like it..”cool”.

I actually kinda like b. itches to be honest with you. But the kind I’m talking about knows when (and with whom) to get that jazzy with.

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*by good girls*

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Bobbie, U R right, been with all kinds, one thing in common, all like the sex when the time gets right . . .

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“……Give me an educated, fun, good spirited chick with a sense of adventure” IMO, that’s a partial definition of a Bad Girl. If you add she’s a hustler, survivor, with a style, swag and presence that commands respect, the definition would be complete. From what I’ve read thus far, it seems most commenters are confusing a Bad Girl with a Stupid B*tch. Personally, I’m a proponent of the bad girl. A green, square, debutant chick would bore me to death. A bad girl is like the Bonnie to your Clyde. You could tell a bad girl **“Look here baby, we’re on a paper chase. I need you to take these four machine guns to the pawn shop and bring that money back, I’d do it myself but you know I’m a felon. Imma take that bread, cop a nine pack and start flippin it. In the mean time, I also need you to go to the food stamp office. Tell them I left you and the kids and you lost your job. Get $800 a month in assistance. We could sell $400 worth of groceries and our fridge would still stay on swole. Also you need to start braiding hair again, tell you little homegirls you can hook their Micro’s and Individuals up for the low low; and one last thing, stop by the cleaners and pick up my suits, I got an interview for that CFO position I told you about tomorrow.”** Believe me when I tell you, A Bad Girl will get it. She’s got your back when it’s really going down. If you think the goodie two shoes girls are better, don’t work for six months and let the lights get cut off, watch how quick she leaves your azz because you’re not the man she thought you was.

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@SEXYCOOL
i should have known when i didn’t get a call or text the last part of the w/e. married men seem to disappear when the w/e approaches. spending time with wifey and kids. . . makes sense that they would do the disappearing act.

my best friend went through this in GA. it took her awhile to finally get it. monday through friday they want to see you, call you, text you to death.

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It’s interesting seeing all the different takes on the meaning “bad girl”. What’s bad for one is ideal for another.

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Du…you know your posts take up the whole screen, lol…you must have a real woman on your team at all time…or as my homegirl likes to say, “My Bottem Bish.” She kills me with that line, lol

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Naw, I think Dushawn summed it up

There’s a difference between the “crazy chick” and the “bad girl”

The crazy chick was fun when I was younger and loved to fight, now I can be arrested and sued. And that’s not good

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@Demi..lol, I feel strongly about this subject and had a lot to get off my chest. I can’t sit by and let the bad girls get bashed.

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Dushawn indicates that for a ‘bad boy’, a ‘bad girl’ is a good fit. Difficult to dispute; birds of a feather, and all that.

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Demi – Since you brought up the term from Hustle and Flow, which chick did you think was the REAL bottom b? Nola? or Shug? (Assuming you’ve seen the movie.)

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@abc, “…birds of a feather, and all that” Your posts have somewhat of an elitist tone. I’m trying to determine if your last comment was condescending or complimentary.

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Demi – Exactly. B betta have my money. LOL.

Seriously though, the “Let it lie where it fell.” lesson was a very hard one for me to learn. I beat my head up against THAT wall of stupidity time and time again. Unfortunately, I had a VERY hard head.

These days, I refuse run into situations emotions open, eyes closed. I more apt to stroll looking to discover a person’s character and then judge whether or not an individual is worthy of my emotional energy based on a number of variables.

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Okay now…so I am so openly interpreting what a BAD GIRL is…is she uncouth and classless???…is she vulgar speaking with a rough swagger????…is she one to blatantly dismiss conventional mores for her own preferred agenda????…is she sexually provocative and uninhibited publicly and privately?????….or is she a gun slinging gangbanger????

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@M’K

Put all that in a bowl, mix it up, and class and education and you have the 21st century “ride or die” chick (for those over 30)

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**So just get your nut** i see you still don’t know me. i don’t nut just for anyone.

**I thought employment ho may have sent the wrong message.** too funny.

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**filty mouth or a law breaker or a hoodrat**

when i read the topic, this is what i imagined a bad azz was.

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For a man, bad girls are good to use for sex and to use during a partying/wild phase.
They should only be used for those two purposes.
Any man that is genuinely and consistently attracted to bad girls should seek therapy. =)

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Prof, the skillsets vary widely from job to job. I’m in Kuwait and there are many companies with various openings. I’m trying to come up with something that i can use universally or with slight modifications. Thanks for the input.

Dan, that sums it up best. Just put your head down and get it done. Thats what she does. His girl is about it though. I told him I’ll buy the ring if thats what it takes. She’s a demonstrated winner thats in your corner. You gotta take that deal

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YESFor a man, bad girls are good to use for sex and to use during a partying/wild phase.
They should only be used for those two purposes.
Any man that is genuinely and consistently attracted to bad girls should seek therapy. =)

WOW. I didn’t think the topic was about hookers. A SO would classify as such. No?

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Du…and understand that. I feel VH1, MTV, and BET are ruining young people minds….Mayne, as find are some of those girls on Ray J bullish were…I can’t remember one of those bishes names…lol

ABC…yes and no. I am not a bad boy by a long shot (I just like having women around me), but even I need a strong woman at my back side.

I want a women who has been thru hellz and back…she knows how to appreciate God, herself, and you.

folks losing money in the stock market and think it is time to commit suicide…(naw, the fun is just beginning)

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No such thing as a Bad Girl.. Bank robbers-Men Car Jackers-Men .. Ther are no levels to bad. Either you a bad or you’re not.

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Do only bad girls curse like sailors?

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Live. Love. Laugh. Thats all I can say….Have a great day all! I have to agree with DuShawn, though. But to each is own. Some square guys will respond to this topic with a negative outlook on a “bad girl” and will post some ignorant views as to how they feel about the topic. Be optimistic because you don’t know; you may never know so don’t speak on it. BLESS

**STILL A BAD GIRL….

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I didn’t mean any condescension, DuShawn. Birds of a feather flock together, as in everyone gets in where they fits in. It opens up another conversation, about the effect one’s peers and their behaviors have on one’s own behaviors, attitudes, etc.

My girl is a warrior princess, very very intelligent, loyal to a fault, sophisticated, well-mannered and a Godly woman and lady all at the same time. And beautiful! She’s one in a million, about as close to Proverbs 31 as anyone will ever find. Her goodness would, to my mind, outweigh benefits of perceived strengths of bad girls 10 to 1, at least.

So, I’m biased. Oh well.

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“…..bad girls are good to use for sex” Let me clear up this misconception. Bad chicks are not easy. In fact, they are the most difficult to conquer. They know the game. They are not easily fooled or mislead. For those that prefer the square broads, that’s cool, do you. Bad chicks don’t date nerds anyway.

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sexy cool….I am going to have to go with Nola, the gurl hustled the radio DJays into playing her pimp’s music…

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My boy has a chick that is ride or die but without tattoos. She’s smart, driven, educated, a business owner, attractive and has nuts the size of Bill Gates. When he slipped she didnt ride but carried his azz. He’s doing something right now that in any other situation would be called simpin but in her case I 100% support his actions. She’s the new generation of ride or die chick. Not there to help you endure the bad times but to maintain the good times. She may not know how to pawn shottie’s but she generates a few hundred grand using her mind. And did I say she NEVER waivered, even when he did. When he was going thru it I know it challenged his ego. She probably didnt care because she was too busy doing what she do. She’s bad alright, but not in the old hood way

Truth – That’s the truth right there.

You think of the Obamas – yeah, he’s not going to sell crack on the corner. He’ll outsmart the game another way.

Just cuz folks are square doesn’t mean they aren’t in for the long haul.

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i cursed like a sailor in my 20s. i stopped when a guy told me it didn’t fit me.

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I will tell you one of the top Bad Chick in our nation…Michelle Obama!!

She is telling white folks to kiss her sexy black azz left and right…them bishes don’t even know it!!

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But by Truth’s and Dushawn’s definitions (and mine) tell me that the First Lady ain’t the 21st Century bad girl.

She’s not. At. All. I don’t see why you have to be classified as “bad” by being loyal.

Senator Obama lived in a modest apt when Congress was in session. Michelle got a hotel room when she was in town. She’s paid her dues.

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Now, the Obamas aren’t ‘bad’ in the sense the topic implies. Puh-leeze. That is simply projection.

One could extrapolate that anyone who exhibits toughness, resolve, realized ambition, and so on, is ‘bad’. That simply is not so.

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Thank you abc! I mean really.

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Dan, perfect example. As we as a race get further away from just surviving and on to excelling the skills needed to be bad will change. MO is a perfect example, and she looks like she can put it down in the presidential poon palace. Now, if any chick should be able to ask for half its her. She carried the flag to help him get where he is.

Du, I’m a nerd. When I think of the things I like to do today its borderline Leave it to Beaver. Reading, cooking, chilling, training my dogs. Just enjoying every day. I look back at some of the things I used to enjoy and have done now and realize thats all behind me. I don’t have the heart for it anymore. Now if ol girl wants to bring in a gf I can get up for that but thats it. LOL Even with that a chick is useless if she cant talk about where she’s trying to go in life and more importantly what she’s doing to get there.

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Michelle Obama grew up on the south side of Chicago. If y’all think she ain’t got some ‘bad’ in her, puh-leeze.

Besides, nothing in Wise’s topic indicated that being bad was a bad thing. In fact, she specifically stated that there is a line between a bad girl and a wicked (read: evil) woman.

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I wasn’t speaking on a “bad girl” like that,

Let me rephrase the definition to “the bad Woman”.

Now, MO is notorious for giving the Prez his comeuppance subtley but in earnest. All accounts is that she is a sassy professional that takes no guff.

And in every interview with her and him about them, she put him through the wringer to get at her. But once he won her and she gave herself to him – done deal.

She didn’t lose the attitude professionally or personally, and kept him with enough “ackright” to push him (I would say) to where they are today.

In conclusion, Michelle Obama – wife, mother, First Lady, baaaaaad woman

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I think one’s position on this topic is contingent upon their perception and definition of the word “bad”. Although technically, the word has an obvious negative connotation, in today’s vernacular, it’s actually a compliment. Personally, if I see a beautiful, elegant, regal female, I don’t think to myself there goes a righteous woman. I think “dayum, that’s a bad azz chick.” To me, bad doesn’t mean “lacking social graces” or virtue. It means the ability to walk with queens without losing the common touch. Now that’s bad.

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Michelle Obama grew up on the south side of Chicago. If y’all think she ain’t got some ‘bad’ in her, puh-leeze.

I’m sure she does. But the “bad girls” are the ones that break the rules or think that they don’t apply to her. They blaze their own path and therefore are considered “bad” because they didn’t go the traditional way.

The Obama’s are the examples of what you do when you DO follow the rules.

They’re on the good side.

Truth – I didn’t say or think it was negative to be called bad. But I don’t think that’s what the Obamas are, sorry.

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Projection such as to believe that the Obamas are whatever you think black people are in general is as mistaken as a belief that the Bush family represents what white people are.

I would speculate that on the South Side of Chicago, just as on the South Side of Atlanta, there are all kinds of people, just like everywhere. Why do you assume that a part of town makes you ‘bad’?

Michelle Obama does not invite a bunch of white people, that financed Barack’s campaign, and voted him into office, to kiss her azz. Get over it.

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Michelle Obama does not invite a bunch of white people, that financed Barack’s campaign, and voted him into office, to kiss her azz. Get over it

Exactly.

I guess were in the minority here today, abc.

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That’s just it.

She broke the rules of her enviornment. She went to class, got good grades, excelled at what she aspired to be; while retaining the toughness, security and sense of self that she was raised with in “the hood”.

I know far too many ladies with the capacity to be just like Michelle, but couldn’t break free of home. Still can’t.

So that’s where I come from with it

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one’s position on this topic is contingent upon their perception and definition of the word “bad

Exactly. Just like independent, strong, phat, mad and a bunch of other phrases commonly used these days.

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Foots..abc man…A.red

(said lika li’first grader)

MY PRESADENT WIFE ISA BAD BISH…fuggwititfuggwitit, and I am going to tell y’all’s mammas.

(abc is now beatin Demi with his Callaway 9-iron)

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Beautiful, did I tell you I’m secretly happily married? Come over and make me break my vows.

ABC, the Obamas aren’t a projection of what black people are but what they can be. We’ve got enough images of pimps, rappers and misguided athletes to last us a lifetime. Lets enjoy a new picture.

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Beautiful – Your second statement proves my ‘incomplete thought’ theory. Your first statement read as if you changed because HE told you to – not because he introduced a new thought or outlook to you. Can you see the difference that I am talking about?

As to the Michelle Obama of it all, may I again point out that MOST of what has been defined as ‘Bad Girl’ behaviour in THIS forum TODAY is simply about SURVIVAL. And again, if Mrs. Obama is not a SURVIVOR, then just what is she?

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haha… I have a set of Callaways and I ain’t wastin em on your big ol’ head, Demi!

Dan, I would submit that good or bad, smart or stupid, right or wrong, know no neighborhood.

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Bad: not good; not as it should be a bad attitude, a bad deal
defective in quality; below standard; inadequate bad plumbing

OR

Bad: dope, good, tight

OR

Bad: adjective used to describe a trendy woman. Good looking or attractive. Envied and wanted by many

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“To characterize everything you like as ‘bad’ is, in itself, something of an indication of your value system. Sometimes, bad is used to mean good as a colloquillism (who knows how that ever got started); but sometimes (most of the time) bad is just bad.”

@abc, I have to admit, that was well f$%kin put….lol

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She broke the rules of her enviornment.

And furthermore, what an insult to all of us who grew up in the “hood” and didn’t fall victim to their “environment” which is a whole LOT of people.

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Staceye I co-sign on your 12:11 100%. People used to call me mean b/c I’m like that til this day but I don’t beat people over the head with it ’cause that’s just me and who I am. I’m not rude with it(most of the times) and I can transcend any conversational topic from politics,world issues,sports,to the other end of the spectrum like ghetto ish and who I saw in the strip club last weekend. I think a bad girl can handle herself with decorum when need be and get knee deep in you shyt when you’ve phucked up.

Dan This swine flu has got the CDC crazy right now…they’re pulling people off of other stuff to work on this and they’ve had me in the lab all morning and I know this will be a hell.a.long day. This strain is a mixture of human,bird and swine flu and scientist are trying to figure out how/where/when they all zoonotically converged geographically. Gotta go now they workin’e like a Hebrew slave…….

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@abc

Does it take more energy to run from second base to third base?

or

Does it take more energy to run from first base to third base?

or

Does is take more energy to leg out a triple (from 1st to third)?

or (in this case)

an inside the park homerun?

I submit that being born in an environment, where the easiest thing to do is the wrong thing. Having the fortitude and skill to navigate your from from that world, to a larger world, and keep going….

Has nothing to do with “just” smart, “just” will, “just” determination, my boy, to find all three and use them appropriately is a skill in and of itself.

But that “talent will succeed despite its surroundings” doesn’t play when you from the southside. Everybody has talent – and never made past 10th grade.

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@Sassy

It would make sense, the “target” farm is a commercial meat farm in Mexico (owned and operated by an American company).

So that the virus would mutate across so many specie that are housed together is, while insane, not completely unforeseen. Especially with the commercial standards in Mexico.

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Ok flock, lets go back to Wise’s original meaning of bad girl/boy. Seems she was referring to folks that operate outside of the rules and the mainstream. Fonzi wearing leather and riding a motorcycle vs everyone else wearing a sweater and driving dads station wagon. In that sense women outside of the lines are less attractive than a guy in the same situation. Even a bad boy would be hesitant to hang with an equally bad girl. She just doesn’t hold value because of the things society values in a woman, though they are changing. Why is she always with a man? She is, its just a different man each time. Very few men would feel comfortable hanging with a woman that lived that far outside the mainstream, though most would love to knock her off for a night. Most men are trained that the only softness they’ll receive in life comes from a woman. The woman I believe Wise is referring to isnt going to provide that kind of warmth

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On the surface you think that a “bad girl” is all about confidence in herself and her abilities, but this couldn’t be further from the truth. Bad girls are nothing but drama. At first, the allure is fresh because you have this woman who has sass and what you think might be class, but as time goes on you see the facade fall like a house of cards. These women only “think” they’re confident, but in reality they are small, shallow irrelevant creatures.The older I get, the less I was to be around, much less be associated with this ilk of losers.

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Thank you Foots.

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Bad girlz hang with bad guys and they both,at one point or another,always have somebody on their arm.
Simple,str8 forward,church chics envy bad girlz but they cant pull it off the way bad girlz do.When a bad girl/boy is educated,she/he can be alluring but when ghetto,are really trashy.But in every class,elite or hood,there are bad girlz/boys!
Hw dee folks!!??.
Back to class,Miss uall!
Footsie,u bad?????.I knw u got class tho….

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i’m just thinking out loud and being real with how i’m feeling.

maybe if i got my hair pulled by TRUTH i’ll feel better. giggle.

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@AMAZON aka shiit starter
nrr’mind. keep doing you girlie.

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I bet Michelle’ll cut a bytch.

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Angie –

Really? I started it? I’m the one who put it out there that i’m attracted to unavailable men? I don’t think so.

If you don’t want people to respond to the things you say. Don’t say it. Not like it was on topic or anything.

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Afternoon Folks!

Barry love your comment.

melo as a church girl I have no reason to envy any ‘bad’ girls. The fun thing about being a good girl with a few bad tendencies is that they never see it coming…

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The information I found out didn’t make him more attractive, it made him LESS attractive.

The word I like to use is repulsive.

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melo as a church girl I have no reason to envy any ‘bad’ girls. The fun thing about being a good girl with a few bad tendencies is that they never see it coming…

Get it said Tazzee!

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Angie…I know you are just typing how you feel…but gurl, can we get a break on hump day?

Melo…sup

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What it do good people. Truthy, Demi, Raqi, AR,Bootiful, Dan

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Hi Melo, hi Tazzee!

Sup Jamoca?

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Hola 6′1 – Where you been?!

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I have been off in the cut!!!!

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(a.red the ish starta)

A.red….what you do? lol

Angie…honestly, you know the rules..no romancing with co-workers…but it seem like you have a lot of time on your hand…why not just go with the flow. I feel it is ok to break the rules now and then.

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Sybil – you can drink and not be a drunk. There are many sides to one’s personality. Just because you partake in certain behaviors doesn’t mean that’s all you are. In my opinion.

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Tazzee I love Vinings. Hadn’t gone in a while. I used to go a lot when they had the Pappagallo Shoe Store. I also shopped a lot at Talbots and Banana Republic. My date would take me to Johnny’s and the Orient Express. I recently went back while shopping during the Easter season. Just so nice down there…love it.

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Sybil, how dare you come in here calling these good church folks sinners. They’re not fugging, they give up holy booty. LOL But people please do answer her her question because I’d like to know too.

6′1 whats up woman? Hope all is well. Whose had you all tied up where you cant even come in and say hi.

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**You do not want bad karma coming back to you** even though he is going thru a divorce, i still knew to keep it movin’.

**I bet Michelle’ll cut a bytch** in a heartbeat!

**I’m the one who put it out there that i’m attracted to unavailable men? I don’t think so.** instead of looking at my comments, READ THEM! i didn’t know he was unavail till two days later.

**Once I found out the information that would not allow any involvement to move forward, I abandoned the whole idea** you don’t have the whole story. (1) all flirting has stopped (2) i was attracted to him waaaaaay before i knew. so your post is inaccurate.

@ALVIN
skip me if you don’t likey.

@6′1
hey you!

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Lol @ Demi!…baybeh, you better get somewhere and slap some moisturizer on those knees…lookin’ like you’ve been playin’ with that sidewalk chalk. Hahahaaa! (I’m kidding)…looks like the old DemSumm’s back…new and improved! (well sorta…) lol

Cee – what up, chick? Me? I’m just swell…and understanding that everyone views the term “bad” differently. You think maybe if there was a better example given or more examples that were consistent or rather a similar tone in each scenario, then more folks would be on the same page?

But then, I’d only expect to find some opposing arguments, but hey, that’s cool too. Different perspectives, bring various viewpoints and interesting debates. In that respect, I’m all for it.

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Dan Yes you’re right> The same thing happened on “some” chicken farm in China when the whole Avian flu went around.

Staceye yes there was an outbreak of the Swine flu in the early 70’s and there was a vaccine but it jacked some people up and gave them a disease called Guillain-Barré syndrome. Guillian-Barre is a syndrome in which the body’s immune system launches an attack against an antigen but some how wires get crossed and instead of attacking the antigen it misfires and attacks the body’s CNS causing paralysis. “The Fridge”(William Perry) was just hospitalized for this….I think last week or the week before.

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instead of looking at my comments, READ THEM! i didn’t know he was unavail till two days later.

And he’s still on your mind, more so than the guys who actually are available.

Go somewhere with that Angie. Really. Now you’re on here backpedalling. Face it, you sound silly azz hell. Especially to be as old as you are.

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Truthy, I need your help with this new dog, she is a real bad little bish! Cee can I get a pepsi girl. Bootiful, told you last year that you need to let me do more than kiss u on ur 4head. AR and Raqi, quit preaching girls, some things never change. Demi, what it do big dawg?

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to be fair….they were both some cool cougars

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@6′1

What up? How you hanging in?

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The Truth and Sybil Everyone sins – that’s a fact. The difference is do you have any remorse for your sin and trying your best not to sin. So yes, I sin – daily. But I don’t sin because I know grace is there, I’m thankful for the grace when I do sin. There’s a difference.

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It might have been well put, but it was a whole lotta of words that didn’t say a damn thing. LMAO

Hey 6′1 haven’t read you in a while.

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Beautiful…simply said….why entertain that sort of situation knowing it will go nowhere before it began? To subsequently blog and comment and jokie joke after knowing all you need to know, sounds more like contemplation. I think that’s all people are trying to relay. Are you looking for the go ahead? If you go through though and make mention, you’re gonna get slayed on this mug…and somehow, from your posts, I think you’d divulge if you went there.

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I’m the type that will get you ‘told’ but you won’t realize it until 30 minutes after the fact LOL

Tazzee I bet you have people waking at 2am in the morning saying “oh no that b!tch didn’t what I think she said!!!!”.

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and yes he’s on my mind and will be for a min.

It’s your funeral, girlfriend. Don’t ever be mad if all you attract is drama in your life.

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I understand your point, Dan, I think… but even in the case of not making it through 10th grade, well, neither did my brother, he got a GED eventually, started out driving a truck and now is President of the same company, just from working hard, and not being ‘bad’. He’s not really even that smart (he’d probably not even disagree with my saying so), he’s just a good, straight-up, no BS, hard working man. To him, resorting to other methods for temporal or lasting results would have been unsatisfying — a cop out.

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Are you looking for the go ahead?

Lurker Imma give her the go ahead.

Go right ahead Beautiful. Jump in with both hands and feet…and hang yourself.

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My bad girl just called me braggin about how she put it on me last night. It got me to thinking, admittedly I’m a bad boy, but at the risk of sounding arrogant, Imma helluva man. I woke up this morning and got lil man together. Today is picture day, so I put him on his fly Steve Harvey suit, took him to the barbershop at 8:00 am, so he’d be super fresh. Wifey, wakes up an hour earlier, gets both girls together and then wakes us up as she’s walking out the door. When I get home this evening, dinner will be prepared and the kids will be doing their homework. Like clockwork every Saturday night she does the girls hair, so they will be fresh for church Sunday Morning. I ferociously grind every day so my family can maintain the lifestyle to which they’ve become accustomed. She has two jobs and is still a student. This is the chick that literally, at one point, did what I described in my first post of the day. What I value about our thing, is that we’re not pretentious. Occasionally, we orchestrate some time to indulge in vices that we enjoy. If I decide to take the kids to my mothers house and transform my crib into a strip joint with multiple dancers and a lot of Patron, its on. We’re a bad couple, but in a good way.

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Tazz, I wonder if that defense would hold up in court. I knew killing that cat was wrong but I feel remorse for his azz. Whatever you FEEL is irrelevant to what you DID. You ultimately did it because you wanted to and felt the remorse afterwards. When you get to the point where you dont sin then I’ll give you your props. Til then your just like me, except I dont feel much remorse. Hell I did it so why should I?

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Tazzee Text me your color scheme at your new crib, sis.

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Jamoca, your brother can’t stay down forever…( now come over here and give me a big ‘ol sloppy kiss…on second thought, with this newly engineered flu, a digital fist bump will do)

Lets see, we have the sexy cougars…tazz, side, cool…all we need is jazz and leggs to spice this bish up.

lioness…the coolness of your posts, you are near cougar, no?

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**Don’t ever be mad if all you attract is drama in your life.**

we just blogged about this . . . wasn’t it yesterday? i didn’t see the signs. but i’m grateful that he told me himself before it got way too deep. there’s no drama, just a misunderstanding on his part.

**Get off, Beautiful** make me! this is my house.

**why entertain that sort of situation knowing it will go nowhere before it began?** who said i did? where did i say i was entertaining this mess?

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(I’m ‘nice/nasty’)

Awwwwwwww…Dayum, Tazz!!! Are into S&M now?!?

(How do I make an appointment?)

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i didn’t see the signs. but i’m grateful that he told me himself before it got way too deep. there’s no drama, just a misunderstanding on his part.

Sure it is. Cuz I bet you’re still going to be nice to his married azz. You’re still thinking about him, crushing on him, which is why jerks like him think it’s okay to hit on women outside his marriage.

His azz would fear me. I hate dudes like that. Making it worse for everyone and I hate the chicks who enable that type of behavior.

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Raqi – It is the sign of too much time on my hands this afternoon.

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Du – The lil boys suit for Steve are “Young Kings”….us it wisely. My son loves when i tell him he’s a King in his suit.

I jus’ stayed out his space and smile with him.

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the bold tag is contagious….

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Angiewhere did i say i was entertaining this mess?

You’re still talking and wondering and wishing…that’s how we know. Oh and Angie, married men aren’t married because they said so (if that’s the case, they wouldn’t), married men are married because they are. It don’t take one “telling” you…somehow you can extract that information, even if he ain’t forthcoming with it, from actions alone and if not that your gut/intuition. All the time you may not get it off the rip but more often than not he ain’t gonna tell….right away, but somehow if you want to do the right thing, you’ll find out before hitting the sheets.

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Desperation is a biyatch!

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Du – You know my lil man is already peepin’ some more suits for this summer. It’s the boom! That linen on him was CRAZY!!!

Dude don’t have job, to first!

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@Du…your 2:02post, ^5!

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SexyCool Love the cake piece. Shoot that can apply to anything that’s not good for us, LOL.

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Dan, I think people are definitely a product of their environment. My brother succeeded in large part due to family environment, in spite of geographical one. Resisting negative aspects of social behaviors specific to our geographic location and environment worked heavily in his favor.

A lot of it has to do with who you associate with. Peers are a strong, strong influence. Positive influences divert one from doing bad things. Choosing peers in a vitally important issue, and avoiding bad ones is as vital.

I understand the importance of it from personal experience. I had to go through it; I wasn’t as resolute as my brother was. I had to gain such resolution through learning first-hand what some of the alternatives were.

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Cemeeli Girl, it would be quicker for you to come by and see the house than for me to text it to you, LOL. You know I can’t stand the text – its a necessary evil.

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My brother succeeded in large part due to family environment, in spite of geographical one.

A lot of it has to do with who you associate with. Peers are a strong, strong influence. Positive influences divert one from doing bad things. Choosing peers in a vitally important issue, and avoiding bad ones is as vital.

Imagine that.

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The Truth What bad things am I doing? When I say I sin, I’m talking about when my little sister twerked my nerves the other week to the point where I went off on her. Or when I riding down the highway and someone cuts me off and I call them a dumbazz out of anger. Those are the things I’m talking about that happen daily that I repent of.

It’s a shame that you’re limited mindset only goes to sex when I talk about sin.

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@abc

I hear you. But there is a difference between being “in” an environment and “of” it.

There are some choices that you can make and some beyond your control.

In the end, we all live with ‘em (the good and the bad), I’m referring only to the depth of the hole somma us have to crawl from – even if we helped with the digging.

Valid points from your end.

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Truth, it’s a sin if you even THINK about beating or killing that MF that just did whatever, or even THINK about screwing that chick you’re not married to. You don’t have to actually do it. You just have to think about how much it appeals to you, and you’ve sinned.

Everyone sins, every day. They say sin is a barrier to answered prayer, but if that were true (much), there would never be a prayer answered, and that obviously isn’t true.

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How do you work the bold and Italic fonts on this new blog?

I just would a the answer in english…not in machine languages,
thanks

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Dan, yes, the difference of being in the world but not of the world; becoming so is a difficult task! It’s especially difficult in our country, where everything of the world is reinforced so constantly and effectively by the media. In areas where survival is more difficult, the *value* of the difference is ever more difficult to discern.

When you’re really hungry, it starts to matter less how you acquire something to eat, or what kind of food you get.

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Tazzee Bible Lesson 101. Good job.

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They say sin is a barrier to answered prayer, but if that were true (much), there would never be a prayer answered, and that obviously isn’t true.

Can’t be true.

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WTH?? How don’t you know a person is married? That question should be the VERY first question you ask a man.. Don’t flirt first ask questions later..

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“Being married is HARD WORK! But, I’m loving it.

Always somewhere to go and something to do. It’s really hard impossible for me to get home and JUST sit down…”

Really not that much different than my life with the exception of having the XY factor sleeping next to me. LOL

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@ Du and Demi -

For italics:

greater than sign

the letter “I”

less than sign

“text to be posted”

greater than sign

backslash sign

the letter “I”

less than sign

In order to bold:

Simply replace the letter “I” with the word “strong”

….whew! To much dayum work simply for the effects, but there it is. lol

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DuShawn here’s a link to help you out.

http://www.w3schools.com/html/html_formatting.asp

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yall sayin this thing takes HTML input in the textbox?!

ItalicBoldLargesmall

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Hm… not much… some tags, apparently.

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Let me try this

** at the beginning of the phrase ** at the end of phrase – italics

** beginning ** end – bold

** Delete, strikethrough**** end

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Du, Demi, Dan n’ abc…I see ya’ll missed the “first day of school” in the ville. Lol… I think most of us (who were present) spent all day trying to work this dayum thing…with the help of Swiss, Dreams (where are you, btw? lol)…and Blue (thx man).

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LOL It didn’t work. You cannot put together. They cancel each other out.

Dan use the greater than and less than signs. Maybe that will help.

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no kids – not no kinds, lol

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And there’s links…and some extra snuff.

lmnop(s), and somewhere over the rainbow. There’s o

Here i is…That cat ‘tol me bout ‘em. Lol…

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I meant let’s see whatcha got?

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Say what…we still got some folx that ain’t with the style sheet???

1)

Place text

4)

makes a bold text

“em” in place of the word strong makes the text italic

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An embarassing story

For the first few days after the switch I couldn’t get on the blog,
then one day, one try and it worked.

I blame WD. She was trying to keep the naughty man out.

@Raqi

I did use the signs, I used the dots to seperate ‘em thinking that’d be enough.

Admittedly, I need to step my software game up.

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testing

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Tazzee – Sis, pls stop.

We are now playing word search, switch word find, multi search word, and whatnot up in this piece.

~Ya’ll have a good one.

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6′1….Que pasa Mamita? I thought you backslid to Balck I was gonna have to come find you and beat you…wait you are 5 inches taller than me. Make that Tazer you!

SASSY…”Guillain-Barré syndrome” I heard of that. I just never knew what caused it. So is that the only cause….if that is the case…the Frig had that vaccine years ago and now it comes back to haunt him?

ARED…”I think Staceye is a bad girl. Not that she’s a bad person. But she’s indicated she’s not one to do things traditionally just because you were told to do something.” Ya d*mn straight girl! I hate being told what to do….especially if I do not agree with it. I was the child who could not wait to be grown so I could tell people where to kiss for trying to make me conform. I do it on a need be bases. Most of the time…it needs NOT to be…so I don’t do it! LOL Rebel till death baby! (Staceye now hoping on the back of 6′1’s or For Real’s bikes and riding off givin’ the finga’ to the world)

DUSHAWN…you and the wife seem to have a great relationship/

CEMEELI…”A brown skin, sporting off-white, oatmeal linen, and a peach and oatmeal colored sweater vest. Make a 10 year old walk with a swag like an old man.” I am getting a visual of lil dude doing his George Jefferson Strut! But I knwo he was cute and had the lil girls grinnin’! Now wtach how his Chritsmas & birthday lists turn from toys and games to Swag Suits and new shoes to match!

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Gon’ head, Du! …while whistling with two fingers …okay now, Demi…your turn…keep @ it Dan…hehehe

LMAO @ it will not take the shyt M’karyl!!! Yeah, big sis…we still got em strollin’ on in here tombout: “how ya’ll do dis herrr?”….hahahaaaa! (j/k)

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Thanks Staceye….you are the fashionist…maybe something rub off from you. Did you throw some fashion-who-dust in the Universe?

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testing

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Dammn? Hammer don’t hurt ‘em.

Mrs. Cee sista . I want to read you tomorrow.

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huh

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Italic
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Pretty flaky… there aren’t that many HTML tags that will work.

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ooO\___________/

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Yeah… most HTML tags are stripped.

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Now how to do the same function on my PDA?

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AmRed I need to buy some new sundresses. I gave all mine away last year, but I plan to restock because I need some for this lovely weather.

Being on the go all the time is the fun part about it. I figure I’ll relax when I get to the point that I can’t go like I can now.

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I wasn’t trying to bold the whole thing. I’m getting frustrated with this shyt.

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I gave all mine away last year

Tazzee – why’d you do that???

As for scheduling lazy time, this is the first weekend I’m in totally in town for like a month. I soooo plan to enjoy sleeping in. Though I never sleep past 9:30 anyway.

I think I’m enjoying the single life even more now because I’m not dealing with any guys that are leading me nowhere, so it’s just fun to chill out and not have to worry about anything. And because I have a good group of girlfriends too.

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LOL… is the backslash in the front or back of the word “strong” …or it could be that you’re using the wrong one. Try the one (/) that shares the same key as your question mark symbol.

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Do you ever wonder how it is that some folks don’t know that their breath smells like fried horse crap? I mean if you live with yourself how can you not know. Heck if you have a s/o and friends how can they not tell you?

This UPS carrier that just left here…gawd awful stinch coming from his throat. Just awful.

I suggest everybody take this test. While in your car roll up all the windows turn off the air and sing as loud as you can for 2 minutes. If you feel yourself getting light headed or it smells like a hamster crawled into your vents and died your breath probably reeks. Just try it. Do it for your neighbors. Do it for the sanity of your co-workers. Just do it for your country. The red, white and the blue…

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M’….”You in the ATL…some of the sisters needs as much fashionista pixie dust as they can get…truly.” I have seen with mine own eyes that thou in ATL is dire need of it!

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hope I can save this crap

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Having a good group of girlfriends is a blessing for real!

Tazzee, are you and WiseDiva friends in real life?

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Heeeeeey M’…I will hit you up later if I can.

Jamoca this mess feels like pc basic, lol

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coo runnin Demi

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porch simians

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Wonder if age plays a part. It usually doesn’t.

Staceye, u haven’t put Demi on you hip in a minute. Please do so that my lurk buddy will know how to laugh at folk.

I do.

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But the problem with “Bad Girls/Guys” is that they don’t usually care about something bigger than themselves
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True that, true that.

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AmRed Yes, Wise Diva is a buddy of mine. Believe it or not, I’ve met some really good girlfriends here on MIA. Some of my ‘traditional’ girlfriends thought it was weird at first but when I introduced my ‘online’ girlfriends to my ‘traditional’ girlfriends they realized that folks online weren’t crazy

hmm, does that mean they thought I was crazy too?

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Amazon you never know. I don’t want her to get her panties in wad over a statement that has nothing to do with her. Just being cautious.

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they realized that folks online weren’t crazy

Some of em aren’t.

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Amazon you never know. I don’t want her to get her panties in wad over a statement that has nothing to do with her. Just being cautious.

So sorry you have to do such a thing in the first place.

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@Raqi

Right…that is how I was taught to do it…but the culture is so different…at least for me it was…mainly because how I could “carry” myself did not match up with what I appeared to earn…go figure…having money is not about squandering money…it is about how you spend it for a good quality.

I will give the sisters in the VA their props…they roll and it ain’t nobody’s business how they do.

@ARED

Yeah, I said is PORCH SIMIANS and I meant it…tobacco road address to boot.

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cee, that because Stacye, has grown tired of me attacking her “twins” and asking for milk’n'ish, lol

staceye is now beating Demi down with her bully club

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Alvin, replace LT with a less-than sign and GT with a greater-than sign, and a slash sign for the word slash.

LTstrikeGT text for strike-through LTslashstrikeGT

For others that will work:

LTboldGT BOLD LTslashboldGT
LTiGT ITALIC LTslashiGT

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instead of the word ‘bold’ or letter ‘b’, put the word ’strong’ between LT and GT for bold text, my mistake.

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LTboldGT BOLD LTslashboldGT
LTiGT ITALIC LTslashiGT

OMG…see…too much thinking

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Lol @ Main_Lurker…I hear you gurl. Now just wait until you have your post awaiting moderation. Personally, I’d rather the blog monster eat up the entire post (providing that I have copied and pasted)…rather than decide to release my 11:08 post, by the time we’re all on the 3rd page by 3:08pm! That can be exhausting as well. smh

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M’…I see so many what I like to call Label H*es! They will not wear anything unless it has a high price tag and a designer name across it. Trying to dress like the rich and famous. Newsflash… those folks get that stuff for free because it is good advertisement for perpertrating fools who spend their bill money on these ridiculously priced garments. Those $150 kicks with Jordan’s name on them only cost maybe $10 to make. When I was in colledge and learned how the whole fashion biz works it was crazy to me how this could be legal. But I guess stupidity never goes out of style nor is it a crime! Like you, I made a lot of my clothing. My wardrobe is different and I prefer it that way. I like weraing what others are too afraid to wear. But there is a difference in Tacky Authenticness, meaning just horrid taste…and those who just dare to be different.

DEMI…climb on up on mami’s hip! Come on….CEMEELI told me you missed it!

ARED…”they realized that folks online weren’t crazy”. I’m not..well at least not today!

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Amazon I wish there were more emoticons available. My son gave me a list of about hundred but only those that you just posted work. And mayone two or 3 others.

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bold vs. bold?

strike vs. strike?

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images restricted too, hm

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My son gave me a list of about hundred but only those that you just posted work

Yes, I noticed. This site is now hosted by wordpress that only activates certain emoticons. The ones we have access to are good enuf for me for this blog which is basic.

You can use “del” instead of “strike” and still get the strikethru too Raqi.

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abc…I just had to ask, lol

I am now practing.

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Raqi Perhaps I’m a little too trusting but I never thought I’d run across a crazy the times I’ve met folks from the blog.

Cemeeli You’re no more crazy than me, LOL!

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Look chile, pls stop. I aint got the energy.

It sad.

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the emoticon codes of a word between colons expand into a pretty long argument to an image tag. The code words to use between colons are:

lol

cry

???

roll

[colon and pipe symbol, no encapsulating colons]

evil

[colon and capital D, no encapsulating colons]

twisted

[semi-colon and right-paran, no encapsulating colons]

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Now Mytwo She is just a much handful as she is on here.

I know she says the same about me.

….babies are so cute…

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@Cee

I get in between noon thirty and one Saturday.

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ABC is on a roll

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M’Karyl – I want your business to boom. I would like for you to meet Andre’ asap! HE’s the guy that manages the events we mentioned.

Anything to support my look-like folk.

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Jamoca – When are we going to meet? At the weddingmoon? <— lauff wit me now.

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Have a great evening all!

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It’s funny how folks try to figure out but don’g really know…

I bet he’s a nicer spirit outside this blog element

I think that can be said for all of us. I know I don’t stomp around verbally beating down everyone in my path.

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Amazon – I have a cousin with the exact SAME personality as you, and she is even more exhalted when she is on a roll with herself.

But that does not mean jus’ cuase we don’t chit chat (on phone and such) as much, that i don’t love and wouldn’t miss her being around.

Actually we are a riot when we are together! Talkabout laughing so hard at how one reacts to the other’s banter.

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@ SexyCool – May i give you an “inside tip” about Karaoke Contest without….well you know.

…i am anyway…—> smile here.

Go to the white folks club/venues (their contest prizes are usually cash money). Be a naive “non-singer” on your first attempt to not-win. Then go back and do your next BEST song you can perform….blow the crowd, judges AWAY – ….and win. Take you winning money on home, and proceed to the next venue that gives good prizes.

That wont cost you nothing.

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I have a cousin with the exact SAME personality as you, and she is even more exhalted when she is on a roll with herself.

You don’t know me or my personality Cee. You see one aspect of it, so you can’t compare me to a cousin who you know on a personal level.

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“You see one aspect of it, so you can’t compare me to a cousin who you know on a personal level.”

Amazon – See that’s what i’m talking about!The exact same as she would have answered.

I am so laughing at this.hahahahah – I thank you for that.

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No Amazon- You are correct. In my 4.57 I was doing/pulling at cha’, as i do her.

Hope it’s all good.

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It’s always good, Cee.

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