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Beside Every Bad Boy

I once read that beside every bad boy is a bad girl. I interpreted this to mean that some men are drawn to the bad girls for the exact same reasons bad boys are so appealing to the ladies: excitement. The allure of excitement translates to passion; and passion can translate to, well a lot of good stuff!

While the excitement can make a bad girl seem intriguing there is a fine line between bad girl and wicked woman. Why are bad girls rarely seen without a man?

Guys, what is your definition of a bad girl? I am not talking about the emotionally unstable creatures or the psycho chicks. The bad girl that I am referring to are the women who have a little edge. How much “bad” can you handle?  Is there a particular edginess that is actually attractive without being a turn off? Have you ever met a woman that just drew you in with her bad girl attitude or behavior? Did you ever have a relationship with a bad girl?

Ladies, is it true that every woman has at least a little bad girl in her? What brings out your bad girl attitude or edginess? How do men respond to it? Are you a reformed bad girl? Was it difficult to break the bad girl habits?

406 comments Add your comment

Dan

April 29th, 2009
3:35 pm

Ms. Jamoca

I know how to do the italics and bold, but my fanga’s hurt doing all that

Alvin

April 29th, 2009
3:35 pm

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2009
3:37 pm

There just seems to ALWAYS be something to be doing. I think I’m soon going to need a vacation, not only from work, but my social life as well.

That’s what makes it all fun to me! But I did have to sit myself down one day just so I could do laundry for a change. :lol:

Looks like the places with the outdoor patios will be getting significant business from me this summer, with my company being dates or my girls. We’re trying to wear the sundresses all the time now!

abc

April 29th, 2009
3:37 pm

Italic
Bold
Italic-Bold
Strike-through

abc

April 29th, 2009
3:38 pm

abc

April 29th, 2009
3:38 pm

Pretty flaky… there aren’t that many HTML tags that will work.

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

April 29th, 2009
3:39 pm

Yeah – I basically plan my lazy days. Like I’ll say ‘on Saturday May 23, I’m going to sleep until I can’t sleep anymore’ or I’m just going to come home and watch a movie on xx day. But usually, I’m watching my movies while working out or sitting under the dryer.

I do need to get back in the gym, last night I got on my elliptical and 20 minutes in the unpacked boxes got to me so I got off and worked on my bathroom more.

abc

April 29th, 2009
3:40 pm

ooO\___________/

Alvin

April 29th, 2009
3:40 pm

abc

April 29th, 2009
3:40 pm

Yeah… most HTML tags are stripped.

Jamoca

April 29th, 2009
3:40 pm

Lol @ Du – I told you it was a little extra…and unfortunately, this method is considered “an upgrade” .

Alvin, not Demi Keep @ it as well, mayne!

LOL @ Dan …while he says: “watch dis Ma…watch dis…no hands!” Alright, I’m done jivin’…I see you.

Alvin

April 29th, 2009
3:41 pm

Now how to do the same function on my PDA?

DuShawn

April 29th, 2009
3:42 pm

“DUSHAWN…you and the wife seem to have a great relationship”. , yeah, we’re alright today. Check with me next week, I’m sure by then she would’ve done something to piss me the f off.

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

April 29th, 2009
3:42 pm

AmRed I need to buy some new sundresses. I gave all mine away last year, but I plan to restock because I need some for this lovely weather.

Being on the go all the time is the fun part about it. I figure I’ll relax when I get to the point that I can’t go like I can now.

Staceye AKA Black Mamba

April 29th, 2009
3:42 pm

CEMEELI…I try to sprinkle the world with Fashionista Pixy dust. But some are just immuned! :lol: Glad to know Lil Cee is not!

DuShawn

April 29th, 2009
3:43 pm

I wasn’t trying to bold the whole thing. I’m getting frustrated with this shyt.

M'

April 29th, 2009
3:44 pm

@Staceye

You in the ATL…some of the sisters needs as much fashionista pixie dust as they can get…truly.

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2009
3:47 pm

I gave all mine away last year

Tazzee – why’d you do that???

As for scheduling lazy time, this is the first weekend I’m in totally in town for like a month. I soooo plan to enjoy sleeping in. Though I never sleep past 9:30 anyway.

I think I’m enjoying the single life even more now because I’m not dealing with any guys that are leading me nowhere, so it’s just fun to chill out and not have to worry about anything. And because I have a good group of girlfriends too.

Demigod...via PDA

April 29th, 2009
3:47 pm

this is some bullish

Jamoca

April 29th, 2009
3:47 pm

LOL… is the backslash in the front or back of the word “strong” …or it could be that you’re using the wrong one. Try the one (/) that shares the same key as your question mark symbol.

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

April 29th, 2009
3:50 pm

AmRed I lost weight and they started to look like tents on me :lol: I used to have a bunch of sundresses, now I have none :-(

Having a good group of girlfriends is a blessing for real!

Raqi

April 29th, 2009
3:50 pm

Do you ever wonder how it is that some folks don’t know that their breath smells like fried horse crap? I mean if you live with yourself how can you not know. Heck if you have a s/o and friends how can they not tell you?

This UPS carrier that just left here…gawd awful stinch coming from his throat. Just awful.

I suggest everybody take this test. While in your car roll up all the windows turn off the air and sing as loud as you can for 2 minutes. If you feel yourself getting light headed or it smells like a hamster crawled into your vents and died your breath probably reeks. Just try it. Do it for your neighbors. Do it for the sanity of your co-workers. Just do it for your country. The red, white and the blue…

Alvin

April 29th, 2009
3:51 pm

hope this work…this is a lot of work mayne…abc, can’t you write a code for these folks?

Staceye AKA Black Mamba

April 29th, 2009
3:51 pm

M’….”You in the ATL…some of the sisters needs as much fashionista pixie dust as they can get…truly.” I have seen with mine own eyes that thou in ATL is dire need of it! :lol:

Raqi

April 29th, 2009
3:54 pm

And no Beautiful my 3:50 was not a stone throw at you.

Demigod...via PDA

April 29th, 2009
3:54 pm

hope I can save this crap

Jamoca

April 29th, 2009
3:56 pm

Raqi – Lmao! So why didn’t you just tell him?…or better yet, EVERY TIME…and I mean EVERY…offer buddy some gum, a breath mint, etc. Some folks will then say: “What are you trying to say?…my “breaf stank”? Me: That’s exactly what I’m sayin. Lol Well then again, it depends on the person at times…some are very sensitive, especially if THEY ALREADY KNOW this about themselves.

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2009
3:56 pm

Having a good group of girlfriends is a blessing for real!

Tazzee, are you and WiseDiva friends in real life?

M'

April 29th, 2009
3:58 pm

<strong.@Staceye

An expressive and strong fashion sense was the staus quo in my upbrining…throw into that my ability to sew and design, my ability to spot the highest end textiles at the lowest prices…and POW!!!…I work it, hard…spent more years than I care to remember being dissed for how well my fashionista put it on…truly, it seems that how well one dresses in the ATL is about “who GOT money” or “who ain’t GOT money”…and I have honestly never seen so many raggedy fressed porch simians in my life until I moved to the ATL…like they still dressing in the day of slave owenr cast offs.

Demigod...via PDA

April 29th, 2009
3:59 pm

Heeeeeey M’…I will hit you up later if I can.

Jamoca this mess feels like pc basic, lol

M'

April 29th, 2009
4:01 pm

dressed porch simians…lol…ain’t that almost a nice way to say it

M'

April 29th, 2009
4:02 pm

coo runnin Demi

dan

April 29th, 2009
4:02 pm

First off let me stay that the whole ” Bad Girl/Bad Guy” thing is WAY played out. To me it’s more important to be someone that is “self-expressed” or who is passionate about life. Someone who is not afraid to take risks but also someone who cares about others and will risk their lives if necessary to protect the ones they love. “Bad Girls/Guys” provide the risks and are engaged in life which is what add’s to the attraction. But the problem with “Bad Girls/Guys” is that they don’t usually care about something bigger than themselves. They aren’t safe/ boring, which again is attractive to some. But after a while there’s only so much entertainment you can take. And that’
s all Bad Girls/Bad Boys really offer when you get right down to it. To me love goes much deeper than that.

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2009
4:04 pm

porch simians

:lol:

Alvin

April 29th, 2009
4:04 pm

abc…you know I am slow, how do you do that line through the word thingy?

Cemeeli

April 29th, 2009
4:04 pm

Wonder if age plays a part. It usually doesn’t.

Staceye, u haven’t put Demi on you hip in a minute. Please do so that my lurk buddy will know how to laugh at folk.

I do.

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2009
4:05 pm

And no Beautiful my 3:50 was not a stone throw at you.

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Alvin

April 29th, 2009
4:07 pm

But the problem with “Bad Girls/Guys” is that they don’t usually care about something bigger than themselves
.
True that, true that.

Raqi

April 29th, 2009
4:08 pm

“who GOT money” or “who ain’t GOT money”

That’s crazy ’cause I am the Queen of the clearance and sale racks. High quality, low prices. And the fact that I don’t do fads makes is fantastical. I can buy winter items on clearance now for next year.

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

April 29th, 2009
4:09 pm

AmRed Yes, Wise Diva is a buddy of mine. Believe it or not, I’ve met some really good girlfriends here on MIA. Some of my ‘traditional’ girlfriends thought it was weird at first but when I introduced my ‘online’ girlfriends to my ‘traditional’ girlfriends they realized that folks online weren’t crazy :lol:

hmm, does that mean they thought I was crazy too?

Beautiful

April 29th, 2009
4:10 pm

**how long have the two of you worked together?** since august.

@FOOTS
the flirting was never personal, just playful. i was never interested in knowing his status until saturday.

Raqi

April 29th, 2009
4:10 pm

Amazon you never know. I don’t want her to get her panties in wad over a statement that has nothing to do with her. Just being cautious.

Jamoca

April 29th, 2009
4:12 pm

Demi Yes sir, it is EXTREMELY basic…like I said before, elementary even. But this is it. We can either get with it or get the heyal on. I’ll even admit myself, I don’t care too much for the “extra” it takes, with every post. But every now and then, I don’t mind as much.

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2009
4:13 pm

they realized that folks online weren’t crazy

Some of em aren’t. :lol:

Raqi

April 29th, 2009
4:14 pm

“they realized that folks online weren’t crazy”

Tazzee that’s why my marido is against me throwing or attending a blog party. But he has to know that I must be crazy too. LOL He knows that I read and comment on a blog. LOL

AmazonRed™

April 29th, 2009
4:14 pm

Amazon you never know. I don’t want her to get her panties in wad over a statement that has nothing to do with her. Just being cautious.

:lol: :lol: :lol:

So sorry you have to do such a thing in the first place.

:lol: :lol: :lol:

lurker

April 29th, 2009
4:14 pm

You guys are a lot smarter, or should I say more patient than me. The only thing I have down to a science is “bold”…other than that, forget it. Too much work. Most times folks are going to read down anyway…whether they agree or not, most posts get read.

M'

April 29th, 2009
4:15 pm

@Raqi

Right…that is how I was taught to do it…but the culture is so different…at least for me it was…mainly because how I could “carry” myself did not match up with what I appeared to earn…go figure…having money is not about squandering money…it is about how you spend it for a good quality.

I will give the sisters in the VA their props…they roll and it ain’t nobody’s business how they do.

@ARED

Yeah, I said is PORCH SIMIANS :lol: and I meant it…tobacco road address to boot.

lurker

April 29th, 2009
4:16 pm

Okay, let me restate that…because there are some posts that I NEVER read, depending on the topic. Additionally, if there are a gazillion, I skip to the folks I really get a kick out of….as I’m sure someone does with mine but I can’t do italics and whatnots…heck, forget that

Demigod...via PDA

April 29th, 2009
4:17 pm

cee, that because Stacye, has grown tired of me attacking her “twins” and asking for milk’n'ish, lol

staceye is now beating Demi down with her bully club