Beside Every Bad Boy
I once read that beside every bad boy is a bad girl. I interpreted this to mean that some men are drawn to the bad girls for the exact same reasons bad boys are so appealing to the ladies: excitement. The allure of excitement translates to passion; and passion can translate to, well a lot of good stuff!
While the excitement can make a bad girl seem intriguing there is a fine line between bad girl and wicked woman. Why are bad girls rarely seen without a man?
Guys, what is your definition of a bad girl? I am not talking about the emotionally unstable creatures or the psycho chicks. The bad girl that I am referring to are the women who have a little edge. How much “bad” can you handle? Is there a particular edginess that is actually attractive without being a turn off? Have you ever met a woman that just drew you in with her bad girl attitude or behavior? Did you ever have a relationship with a bad girl?
Ladies, is it true that every woman has at least a little bad girl in her? What brings out your bad girl attitude or edginess? How do men respond to it? Are you a reformed bad girl? Was it difficult to break the bad girl habits?
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Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
April 29th, 2009
2:51 pm
As far as being forgiven – why are you concerned about that when you don’t even believe in God. But if you were serious about your question – you are forgiven for the things that you have seriously repented of. Repentence meaning that your goal is to try with all your heart not to do that thing again. The thing is, the only way to know if you’ve truly repented is when you’re confronted with that temptation again.
abc
April 29th, 2009
2:53 pm
Dan, yes, the difference of being in the world but not of the world; becoming so is a difficult task! It’s especially difficult in our country, where everything of the world is reinforced so constantly and effectively by the media. In areas where survival is more difficult, the *value* of the difference is ever more difficult to discern.
When you’re really hungry, it starts to matter less how you acquire something to eat, or what kind of food you get.
The Truth-Wearing a towel on my head and nothingelse while blogging
April 29th, 2009
2:54 pm
Tazz, my bad. I thought thats what we were talking about. You know I’m one short step away from being an animal. LOL
Really though thats even worse. Anger, greed, jealousy and all the other emotions are part of the human make-up yet someone has told us they’re bad. Sure I’d like to be monk sitting on a hilltop rolling beads but then i’d be hungry and that would be a sin too. My recommendatiion is just do you and quit letting the church do you. That fugging clown in the pulpit has no idea what any god has in store for us. Look at that cat the next time you get a chance. You think an all knowing and powerful god would pick that idiot as a sales and collection rep? GTFOH His one gift in life is he has the balls to ask you for money. Have you noticed all the athletes and celebrities that got into the church got back out? They’re used to fast money and not that slow tithing kind of loot. LOL
You never answered my question. Since i’ve been baptized will i be forgiven for all the bad things i’ve done and thought?
Raqi
April 29th, 2009
2:54 pm
Tazzee Bible Lesson 101. Good job.
Cemeeli
April 29th, 2009
2:54 pm
Super Truth
Being horny, or doing edgy things in bed with a man does not change your spiritual walk with Christ.
The act of hypocrisy does.
I know you didn’t ask me….but please pardon my intent.
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
April 29th, 2009
2:55 pm
They say sin is a barrier to answered prayer, but if that were true (much), there would never be a prayer answered, and that obviously isn’t true.
Can’t be true.
SexyCool
April 29th, 2009
2:55 pm
Being single is HARD WORK! But, I’m loving it.
Always somewhere to go and something to do. It’s really hard for me to get home and JUST sit down. I’m usually walking through my door at 6p. As someone who doesn’t usually go to bed until 11p or so, that gives me 5 hours to fill up with SOMETHING.
I work out nearly every morning before I go to work. I play softball a couple of nights a week. I have been working my part time marketing job at Philips. (Which will end with the end of the Hawks play-off run – whenEVER that will be – LET’S GO HAWKS!) There is the volunteer work that I’ve been doing. I have the occasional date here and there. I hang out with my friends and family.
There just seems to ALWAYS be something to be doing. I think I’m soon going to need a vacation, not only from work, but my social life as well.
LIONESS- I Just State The FACTS!!
April 29th, 2009
3:00 pm
WTH?? How don’t you know a person is married? That question should be the VERY first question you ask a man.. Don’t flirt first ask questions later..
DuShawn
April 29th, 2009
3:00 pm
, I didn’t want to admit I had know idea what the hell she was talking about. Again, How do you work the Bold and Italic fonts. This time make your instruction fool proof.
Raqi
April 29th, 2009
3:00 pm
“Being married is HARD WORK! But, I’m loving it.
Always somewhere to go and something to do. It’s really
hardimpossible for me to get home and JUST sit down…”Really not that much different than my life with the exception of having the XY factor sleeping next to me. LOL
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
April 29th, 2009
3:02 pm
The Truth The church does not ‘do me’ – there are things that the church shuns that I do. I base my walk on the WWJD principle because I know that the man in the pulpit will fail me every time. Oh and check my 2:51 for the answer to your other question.
Baptism is only an outward expression of what you’ve already experienced internally – kind of like wearing a wedding band when you’re married.
Jamoca
April 29th, 2009
3:03 pm
@ Du and Demi -
For italics:
greater than sign
the letter “I”
less than sign
“text to be posted”
greater than sign
backslash sign
the letter “I”
less than sign
In order to bold:
Simply replace the letter “I” with the word “strong”
….whew! To much dayum work simply for the effects, but there it is. lol
SexyCool
April 29th, 2009
3:03 pm
Raqi – Girl, you know!!!
Raqi
April 29th, 2009
3:03 pm
DuShawn here’s a link to help you out.
http://www.w3schools.com/html/html_formatting.asp
Cemeeli
April 29th, 2009
3:04 pm
is just do you and quit letting the church do you.
It should never be about church or your attendence/standing with the preacher. IT’s all about if you wanna go to heaven.
____
Dushawn – I thought that someone would post the link to the cheat sheet. Let’s try again, shall we.
abc
April 29th, 2009
3:05 pm
yall sayin this thing takes HTML input in the textbox?!
ItalicBoldLargesmall
Foots
April 29th, 2009
3:05 pm
DuShawn This link will help…http://www.web-source.net/html_codes_chart.htm
abc
April 29th, 2009
3:05 pm
Hm… not much… some tags, apparently.
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
April 29th, 2009
3:05 pm
SexyCool tell me about it. I’m not playing softball but I’m always doing something. Something’s gotta give. I guess that’s why I’m still ’sort of’ all moved in.
Dan
April 29th, 2009
3:06 pm
Let me try this
** at the beginning of the phrase ** at the end of phrase – italics
** beginning ** end – bold
** Delete, strikethrough**** end
Raqi
April 29th, 2009
3:10 pm
SexyCool don’t nobody I said this but God, but some days single looks mighty nice. Mainly when the XY factor is getting on my last damn nerve with wanting things done instantaneously. Can a sister have a minute please?
Jamoca
April 29th, 2009
3:12 pm
Du, Demi, Dan n’ abc…I see ya’ll missed the “first day of school” in the ville. Lol… I think most of us (who were present) spent all day trying to work this dayum thing…with the help of Swiss, Dreams (where are you, btw? lol)…and Blue (thx man).
Raqi
April 29th, 2009
3:13 pm
Dan “******”s as so 2008ish. It the ” ” in the 09.
Raqi
April 29th, 2009
3:14 pm
LOL It didn’t work. You cannot put together. They cancel each other out.
Dan use the greater than and less than signs. Maybe that will help.
SexyCool
April 29th, 2009
3:15 pm
Taz – so you feel me, huh? lol
And you would think that being single with no kinds and having the luxury of being able to come home and sit down and do nothing, this would be the exact time that we sit down and do nothing. About 80% of the time, though, when I do that, I feel like I’m wasting my life.
Make sense?
Raqi
April 29th, 2009
3:15 pm
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Raqi
April 29th, 2009
3:15 pm
SexyCool
April 29th, 2009
3:16 pm
no kids – not no kinds, lol
Jamoca
April 29th, 2009
3:16 pm
LOL @ Raqi…leave ‘em ‘lone…hahahaaa
Cemeeli
April 29th, 2009
3:17 pm
And there’s links…and some extra snuff.
lmnop(s), and somewhere over the rainbow. There’s o
Here i is…That cat ‘tol me bout ‘em. Lol…
Jamoca
April 29th, 2009
3:17 pm
Alright Demi and Du – let’s whatcha got? lol
Jamoca
April 29th, 2009
3:18 pm
I meant let’s see whatcha got?
Raqi
April 29th, 2009
3:18 pm
LOL Jamoca Yeah I give up. Maybe the link I posted will help him.
M'
April 29th, 2009
3:18 pm
Say what…we still got some folx that ain’t with the style sheet???
1)
Place text
4)
makes a bold text
“em” in place of the word strong makes the text italic
M'
April 29th, 2009
3:19 pm
oops will not take the shyte
Dan
April 29th, 2009
3:19 pm
An embarassing story
For the first few days after the switch I couldn’t get on the blog,
then one day, one try and it worked.
I blame WD. She was trying to keep the naughty man out.
@Raqi
I did use the signs, I used the dots to seperate ‘em thinking that’d be enough.
Admittedly, I need to step my software game up.
M'
April 29th, 2009
3:20 pm
greater than arrow
the word strong
lesser than arrow
place text
greater than arrow
front slash
the word strong
lesser than arrow
this does a bold text
DuShawn
April 29th, 2009
3:21 pm
testing
DuShawn
April 29th, 2009
3:23 pm
testing
Cemeeli
April 29th, 2009
3:23 pm
Tazzee – Sis, pls stop.
We are now playing word search, switch word find, multi search word, and whatnot up in this piece.
It’s right there ^^^.
Lemme go to this hospital before i get someone in trouble. My girl friend from church just delivered.
~Ya’ll have a good one.
DuShawn
April 29th, 2009
3:24 pm
dayum that’s a lot of work. This is the upgrade?
Staceye AKA Black Mamba
April 29th, 2009
3:27 pm
6′1….Que pasa Mamita? I thought you backslid to Balck I was gonna have to come find you and beat you…wait you are 5 inches taller than me. Make that Tazer you!
SASSY…”Guillain-Barré syndrome” I heard of that. I just never knew what caused it. So is that the only cause….if that is the case…the Frig had that vaccine years ago and now it comes back to haunt him?
ARED…”I think Staceye is a bad girl. Not that she’s a bad person. But she’s indicated she’s not one to do things traditionally just because you were told to do something.”
Ya d*mn straight girl! I hate being told what to do….especially if I do not agree with it. I was the child who could not wait to be grown so I could tell people where to kiss for trying to make me conform. I do it on a need be bases. Most of the time…it needs NOT to be…so I don’t do it! LOL Rebel till death baby! (Staceye now hoping on the back of 6′1’s or For Real’s bikes and riding off givin’ the finga’ to the world) 
DUSHAWN…you and the wife seem to have a great relationship/
CEMEELI…”A brown skin, sporting off-white, oatmeal linen, and a peach and oatmeal colored sweater vest. Make a 10 year old walk with a swag like an old man.” I am getting a visual of lil dude doing his George Jefferson Strut!
But I knwo he was cute and had the lil girls grinnin’! Now wtach how his Chritsmas & birthday lists turn from toys and games to Swag Suits and new shoes to match! 
Cemeeli
April 29th, 2009
3:28 pm
Good job Du. You have taken up 1/4 of the space on this page. practicing.
@ – SexyCool and Raqi ya’ll sisters be cool. Hol’ it down.
Jamoca
April 29th, 2009
3:28 pm
Gon’ head, Du! …while whistling with two fingers …okay now, Demi…your turn…keep @ it Dan…hehehe
LMAO @ it will not take the shyt M’karyl!!! Yeah, big sis…we still got em strollin’ on in here tombout: “how ya’ll do dis herrr?”….hahahaaaa! (j/k)
Alvin
April 29th, 2009
3:30 pm
Cemeeli
April 29th, 2009
3:30 pm
Thanks Staceye….you are the fashionist…maybe something rub off from you. Did you throw some fashion-who-dust in the Universe?
Raqi
April 29th, 2009
3:32 pm
SexyCool and Tazzee a few Saturdays ago after Mason and the knucklehead left the house I decided I would go take a nice afternoon bubble. Perfect time. All chores and shopping done. Bills paid. Yada, yada, yada. I wasn’t in there 3 good minutes before I started feeling guilty. Like I should be doing something. I was like this ain’t right. Why am I feeling guilty. I deserve this.
But you know ladies I guess that is a good thing. Better to feel like you are wasting good quality time than to be a lazy couch potato with a ton of crap to be done but you just ain’t doing it.
Alvin
April 29th, 2009
3:33 pm
testing
Alvin
April 29th, 2009
3:34 pm
Demi
cash money
April 29th, 2009
3:35 pm
Dammn? Hammer don’t hurt ‘em.
Mrs. Cee sista . I want to read you tomorrow.