Guilty of Illegal Dumping?
I want to address an issue that is rampant on Atlanta’s dating scene. It’s something we have all done at one time or another: illegal dumping. Ruling someone out for a completely frivolous, nonsensical, utterly ridiculous reason.
For instance, why dump someone for working a retail job when you work in a pharmacy? Why? That doesn’t even make sense! Or how about letting someone go because he has a cat. What’s wrong with a guy owning a cat? Seriously, illegal dumping is actually a symptom of something deeper. Perhaps you should not date anyone for awhile.
I know we all weed out potential dates on things we find personally undesirable, but what happens when these undesirable traits are completely without merit? What if they are just a perception? Why do we bail out so quickly?
Are you guilty of illegal dumping? Are you a victim of it? What is the most frivolous, totally silly reason you dumped someone? What do you think is the dumbest reason you have ever been dumped? Be honest!
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Cougar Hunter ( My, My, My)
April 21st, 2009
4:45 pm
Lioness- You did not mention a fee but will dinner suffice? My Johnson is looking for to this inspection!
MELO
April 21st, 2009
4:46 pm
You have a BUNCH of email addresses
u dnt know takpat by now Cuttie.That vixxen aint mine.
But they dont charge for opening email now do they?
DuShawn
April 21st, 2009
4:47 pm
I remember I used to work with this chick, she was cool, smart, professional, with a little undercover hood in her. We hit it off right away. I was new at the firm, and she made me feel comfortable.We would go to lunch together often. Unbeknownst to me, the other chicks in the office had beef with her.
Baby came by my office one day and was funky as hell. I’m like, dayum is that me? I’m secretly lifting my arms and smelling my armpits. I said to myself, I’m straight. Dayum!, that’s lil mama smelling like that. It was so bad, when she left, her odor remained. I watched as she pranced to different peoples cubicles and then watch their facial expressions change as that funk settled in. She smelled that way for a couple of days. And this was a fly chick, it just didn’t go together. None of the woman in the office pulled her coat. They chose to talk behind her back. I decided to take her to lunch and tell her. Once at the restaurant, I chickened out, I couldn’t find the words without hurting her feelings. Additionally, she was married, her man should’ve straighten that out way before it got to me.
LIONESS- I Just State The FACTS!!
April 21st, 2009
4:48 pm
Cougar- No.. Sorry
Melo- Your wife likes catfish?
Leggs
April 21st, 2009
4:48 pm
“…if you practice good hygiene, all that other stuff ain’t necessary.” That’s it in a nutshell.
Jamoca
April 21st, 2009
4:48 pm
Leggs – I do wonder why Summer’s Eve, etc are on the shelves to this day?! Some folks just haven’t recv’d the memo yet, I guess. So somebody’s buying it AND probably spending a lot in copays to their gyns.
Cougar Hunter ( My, My, My)
April 21st, 2009
4:48 pm
Ladies we do appreciate the easy access to the pudsy! Keep up the good work!
LIONESS- I Just State The FACTS!!
April 21st, 2009
4:49 pm
Du- You are a FOOL too!!
Foots
April 21st, 2009
4:51 pm
Hey Jamoca, yeah it’s me. How you doing?
I actually like sleeping commando, but my mama had me so messed up about it as a teenager, worrying about if there’s a fire and ish and I have to run outside with no underwear/gown on, that I rarely do it (unless me and the man got down). 16 years later, I keep seeing that crazy look on her face when she first found out that I’d rather not wear clothes. LOL!
kimmie
April 21st, 2009
4:55 pm
Du – I wonder how women like that GET & KEEP husbands! Yeah, hubby should have checked her, but maybe he liked that mess! Yuck!
I admit, I’m a little on the paranoid side when it comes to hygeine. Know how some people are “neat-freaks”? I’m like that with respect to hygiene matters! Won’t let my man come near me unless I fresh as a daisy! Even with breath, always gotta be minty-fresh!
Clean clothes are a must too. Why do all that scrubbing, but put on tart clothes? !!
MELO
April 21st, 2009
4:55 pm
Melo- Your wife likes catfish
Nope,unless its fresh water fish.Seventh day Adventist pple are sme of the most messed up and high horse kinda pple,they dont like murk eating stuff!
LIONESS- I Just State The FACTS!!
April 21st, 2009
4:55 pm
Foots- LMAO!! My mom used to tell me don’t wear panties with holes in them in case I got hurt and had to be taken to the hospital.. LOL!
For Real
April 21st, 2009
4:56 pm
Lets see what happening on the blog…..
STANKIN COO-DA CATS AND FUNKY BALLZ. – Sounds like an Outkast song..
LIONESS HAS A MEMBER WASHING SERVICE FOR THE BUSY MAN. – Dayum I just don’t seem to have enough time to wash deses ballz of mine. What’s a man to do?
lurker
April 21st, 2009
4:58 pm
JamoThose boy undies aka hipsters remind me of the 70’s when the women wore the really short shorts with just a little of cheeks showing
My favorites.
Kimmie Won’t let my man come near me unless I fresh as a daisy! Even with breath, always gotta be minty-fresh! Clean clothes are a must too. Why do all that scrubbing, but put on tart clothes? !!
Igg zackly
Jamoca
April 21st, 2009
4:59 pm
LoL…I’m good, Foots, you too?!?! Lmao. Btw, how’s school?
Honestly, I sleep so much better at night when lying in my birthday suit. Windows up, nice breeze, and blinds lightly tilted.
My mom was the same way, but more along the lines of…”Girl, you so hard-headed (funny coming from her)…sleeping butt naked straight from the shower?…Don’t you know yo’ pores are open? So when yo’ behind wake up sick, I don’t want to hear yo’ mouth either”? LOL
And just so I didn’t have to hear it, I suffered in silence on the mornings I woke up with a scratchy throat. But over the years, my body must’ve gotten used to it. So buckkit nakked it is! Lmao
LIONESS- I Just State The FACTS!!
April 21st, 2009
5:00 pm
For REal- LMAO!! I ain’t washing nothing.. Just inspecting..
For Real
April 21st, 2009
5:01 pm
For Real now standing in Jam’s shower with his waterproof cellphone.
Foots
April 21st, 2009
5:02 pm
Jamoca I’m cool and school is fine. I just had a final last night, and my next class doesn’t start until Monday, so I’m RELIEVED!! I will sleep well tonight without worrying about that test. Thanks for asking!
Foots
April 21st, 2009
5:04 pm
And yeah, that’s the other reason why I don’t do it more often. She used to warn me about “catching my death a’ cold” and she was right. I end up like the Nyquil commercial: sniffling, sneezing, coughing, aching, stuffy head AND fever.
Jamoca
April 21st, 2009
5:08 pm
Du – Yeah, that was really messed up. Wonder if he stopped sleeping with her…being that he may not have brought this to her attention.
…and Cougar, stank stuff should not even get the fanga dude. LOL Watcha self now, some nasty things get caught underneath a person’s finger nails. Ewww…somebody pass Cougar some Clorox bleach. hahahaaa
Lioness – My grandmother used to say that too! LOL
Jamoca
April 21st, 2009
5:13 pm
LOL @ For Real – and thank you for yo’ testimony Deacon Black Cake. Lmao
Lioness – For Real’s almost ready for inspection and SlimOne – he’ll be on his way shortly for some deep Sockeye conditioning…makes the hair so much more manageable, doesn’t it. Lmao!
Cougar Hunter ( My, My, My)
April 21st, 2009
5:18 pm
Jamoca that is the pretend finger I do not enter the stank area!
Ladies keep it fresh all the time!
LIONESS- I Just State The FACTS!!
April 21st, 2009
5:19 pm
Jam- LMAO!
Leggs
April 21st, 2009
5:21 pm
Goodnight everyone!
Keep smiling!
Blow Me
April 21st, 2009
5:27 pm
Wow…I missed it today. What was the TOPICS?