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Guilty of Illegal Dumping?

I want to address an issue that is rampant on Atlanta’s dating scene. It’s something we have all done at one time or another: illegal dumping. Ruling someone out for a completely frivolous, nonsensical, utterly ridiculous reason. 

For instance, why dump someone for working a retail job when you work in a pharmacy? Why? That doesn’t even make sense! Or how about letting someone go because he has a cat. What’s wrong with a guy owning a cat? Seriously, illegal dumping is actually a symptom of something deeper. Perhaps you should not date anyone for awhile.

I know we all weed out potential dates on things we find personally undesirable, but what happens when these undesirable traits are completely without merit? What if they are just a perception? Why do we bail out so quickly?

Are you guilty of illegal dumping? Are you a victim of it? What is the most frivolous, totally silly reason you dumped someone? What do you think is the dumbest reason you have ever been dumped? Be honest!

325 comments Add your comment

SlimOne

April 21st, 2009
1:48 pm

DW that was hilarious!!! I was keeping my ex’s little brother one weekend. I went to check on him because he got too quiet. he was laying on the floor with only his shirt on. Everything below the belt was completely naked. he was laying down watching tv playing with his peter. He wasn’t necesarrily shaking it like a salt shaker…He was more of pushing it down, then let it come back up on his own, then push it down again. I felt so weird, I just turned around before he saw that I saw him. I was embarrassed for him. He was 11yrs old then.

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

April 21st, 2009
1:49 pm

Hi Wise, hello all from DC

Late in this discussion and frankly have very little to say except that a person has the right, privilege, honor of dumping someone for ANY reason, no matter how stupid. If it doesn’t work for someone it doesn’t work.

I remember in high school and college watching a classmate of mine (the “pride of the locker room”…I’ll let you figure that one out ;-) drop some of the greatest gals on Earth. His reasons were 1) “if she doen’t sleep with me she doesn’t love me”, 2) “if she will sleep with me she will sleep with anyone so she must be a slut”, 3) “I can’t touch the back of it so she must have been with someone even bigger than me” …

I swear I heard him use every one of those reasons to end a relationship. It was weird!!! I just wanted his throw aways. But the fact is, he had the right to be as stupid as he wanted. In America stupid is not a crime (although it problem should be).

I can’t say that I have dumped or been dumped for any frivolous reason because I always assumed there was more than I was hearing involved. If a woman wants to throw me out with the trash, it is her loss not mine. That is my philosophy.

SlimOne

April 21st, 2009
1:53 pm

Melo Please dont send me no craigslist personal ad.

Jamoca OMG!! i’m loving the fatty acids…My ex has this thick goatee and sometimes he’ll grow his beard out. but anyway, he always said my juices made his beard softer. I’d come back to bed watching him combing his fingers through his beard. :twisted:

And you had me cracking up at how you reacted…”What happened to your dizzle!!?” :lol:

Wise Diva

April 21st, 2009
1:54 pm

oh CRIKEY, WHO started the pube topic? LOL!!

kevykel2008

April 21st, 2009
1:54 pm

Your exactly right….Ms. Cougar Hunter. Your average person here has a relationship expectancy of a month or two. I am a single father if your every interested in coffee hit me up…

MELO

April 21st, 2009
1:55 pm

Slim,i got an AP job for real,u want it? not a joke!

Wise Diva

April 21st, 2009
1:55 pm

Hey RandyT! Good to see you check in :)

LIONESS- I Just State The FACTS!!

April 21st, 2009
1:55 pm

Randy- I agree! It is their loss not mine :)

SlimOne

April 21st, 2009
1:56 pm

Truth I think you deserve a spanking for that last post….lol

SlimOne

April 21st, 2009
1:56 pm

keasha_96@yahoo

LIONESS- I Just State The FACTS!!

April 21st, 2009
1:57 pm

Jam- I would have wondered that too! I love a pretty dyck! I am a dyck inspector..

MELO

April 21st, 2009
1:59 pm

Beautiful,take ur boy to the nearest drunk/addict shelter and explain to him why some pple are messed up eg,baby mamas,multiple kids,mounting responsibility they cant handle leading to messed up lives abnd druggs etc.Then take him on a tour of the nearest prison/jail.

If he dont take care of what comes of his wang and how he uses it,hizz life is messd up.U gotta shock him for him to get it mentally.
Let him see where some pple sleep!

MightBeTrue

April 21st, 2009
2:00 pm

I was illegally dumped because I talked too much. At first, I was entertaining and intellectual, he loved listening to me talk and I was engaging…but then suddenly I talked too much. I think that was his way of trying to hurt my feelings because I pulled the playa card on him. Either way, he was driving a Hummer and living in a rental, so it was okay, it would have come to that eventually – he just got to me first.

MELO

April 21st, 2009
2:02 pm

I send it slim,jump on it!

Jamoca

April 21st, 2009
2:02 pm

LOL Slim! Actually…it was more along the lines of “acchemmm” ….”OH Shyt!…what happened to yo’ dyck” ???!!!…(with the smell of stankin’ ish written on my face – let him tell it)…I was ashamed of myself. He calmed my nerves tho…like a mature, adult, male would. He was so calm with it, he made me feel bad.

I bet I would have got a good cussin’ out had it been with “the right one” and gotten myself kicked out all at once. Lol…

SlimOne

April 21st, 2009
2:05 pm

melo nothing has come in yet.

Jamoca I just pictured you with the OH SNAP look on your face. lmao…sort of reminds of the first time I saw a male anaconda for the first time…”OH SNAP whatchu thank you gonna do with that!!?” lol

MELO

April 21st, 2009
2:08 pm

I can’t touch the back of it so she must have been with someone even bigger than me”

There is truth in that Randy,shes not a virgin and u cant reach her deepest point,u knw,there is sme story there!

MELO

April 21st, 2009
2:09 pm

I send it,lemme know in a few minutes,ill do it again.

MELO

April 21st, 2009
2:09 pm

If u like it,call that mufckka right away Slim!

AmazonRed™

April 21st, 2009
2:10 pm

What in the world is going on up in here…. :?:

*back to work for me* :lol:

The Truth-Wearing a towel on my head and nothingelse while doing dishes

April 21st, 2009
2:12 pm

Hi Jam, whats up babygirl?

Wise Diva

April 21st, 2009
2:14 pm

Please clean up your language, or else I will leave you in the spam filter! LOL

Jamoca

April 21st, 2009
2:15 pm

LOL @ Liones “Inspector Gadget of Dizzles”…I can hear you now…

Sir, step aside please. I’m gonna need you to spread em’…

Dude: Baby, what’s all this about?

Dizzle Inspc: Okay, face front! (dude faces inspector…)

DI: Lift the dizzle to your right, while lifting your left ball…that’s good…

DI: Now lift your dizzle to your left, while lifting your right ball…alright, alright…

DI: Now, let’s check the texture of yo’ “public hairs”…Ooooo, they’re kind of brittle. You need more “Vitamin P”…

Dude goes to visit SlimOne for a few doses of Red Sockeye Salmon juices…

SlimOne: Cum’on in…we’ll soften those herrrs up in no time, while handing dude a pamplet of testimonials.

craig

April 21st, 2009
2:17 pm

where are my posts wise diva?

SlimOne

April 21st, 2009
2:20 pm

:lol: @ Jamoca!!!!

Jamoca

April 21st, 2009
2:22 pm

Truth – Hey there, Cat Daddie! How the heyal are you?

Wise – Clean it up, eyyy? From what time today up until this point?…and why you laughin’ over there? ….lol (while smh)

LIONESS- I Just State The FACTS!!

April 21st, 2009
2:22 pm

Jam- LMAO!!!Hollering

SlimOne

April 21st, 2009
2:23 pm

Slim now reading the first testimonial of an AA dolphin with the worlds softest fro…..lmao!!!

Jamoca

April 21st, 2009
2:25 pm

BAHHAHAHAAAAA…ROTFLMAOfffff!!!! Him say: Eeek, aaacckkk,eeekkkk, eeekkkk!

Fed Up

April 21st, 2009
2:27 pm

Dumped a guy for double biting his sandwich. He could not take just one bite and chew, he had to bite it twice everytime! It was so annoying! Must not have been much there to begin with if that was enough to end it over.

Beautiful

April 21st, 2009
2:32 pm

@MELO
you gave me some great ideas! thanks honey.

@TRUTH
boi you silly.

@DW
thanks. i will buy some and teach myself how to educate him about why mom is giving him these things. ok, i’m nervous and scrrrd. this is serious. i’m calling planned parenthood for advice.

have a good day all!

LIONESS- I Just State The FACTS!!

April 21st, 2009
2:37 pm

I don’t like when people like their fingers at the dinner table..

Escapee

April 21st, 2009
2:37 pm

Hilarious topic.

I don’t know if I can compete. Although I did refuse a second date because the guy seemed like a Momma’s boy. Never lived out of the DC area and never planned on it. I was like ‘CHECK PLEASE!’
Oh, and another guy was too short. Can’t do the shorties.

I was dumped because I didn’t seem ambitious enough ( because 25 with a Master’s from one of the best schools in the WORLD just isn’t quite good enough) although it didn’t break my heart. He was a s* kisser.

The Truth-Wearing a towel on my head and nothingelse while doing dishes

April 21st, 2009
2:47 pm

Escapee, Devry isnt one of the best schools in the world. SMH

Leggs

April 21st, 2009
2:50 pm

@Jamoca, girl you are twisted!

lurker

April 21st, 2009
2:52 pm

I go to lunch and do my walk and I come back…what’s really going on?

Jamoca the truth right here ——> Alright, Raqi, there’s your signed blog confession. It was me. And I’ll venture to say, it may have been purposely. I know…I know

It’s alright though….you’re entitled.

I couldn’t get with this guy….too short. I’m not tall but if putting your arms around my shoulders is literally a stretch and strain on your collar bone or you have to tip toe…..ummm, ain’t happening.

MELO

April 21st, 2009
2:58 pm

Slim,U u get it yet?

DuShawn

April 21st, 2009
3:02 pm

When I was much younger, I’ve dumped a few chicks that I really liked, to save them from the inevitable heartbreak and despair. At the point I was in life, I would’ve never committed to them, surrounded them with negative influences, kept them on an emotional rollercoaster, f#^k the shyt of them, and drained them financially. That was a disturbing pattern with me and females. Some chicks were so gullible. They wouldn’t have seen what was happening until they were too far gone. As I began to evolve as a man, I would let some off the hook by dumping them early on. They never understood when I told them they deserved better than me.

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

April 21st, 2009
3:05 pm

someone on my floor burned popcorn…at first I thought there might be an electrical fire.

Cougar Hunter ( My, My, My)

April 21st, 2009
3:09 pm

Jam- I would have wondered that too! I love a pretty dyck! I am a dyck inspector!

Lioness you are off le chain! C’mon on over here I have something for you to inspect and report on! :wink:

DuShawn

April 21st, 2009
3:10 pm

And another thing, I think the word dumped is being misused. One has to be in a relationship (i.e. Scooped up) before they can be dumped. If you’re just dating and decide to stop calling, that’s just “keeping it moving.”

LIONESS- I Just State The FACTS!!

April 21st, 2009
3:12 pm

Cougar- How so? I am just a grown woman that likes what I like! A man is DEFINITELY blessed if he has a pretty johnson..

Du- I would totally respect a dude if he told me that!

Taz- That is one of the worst smells EVER!! It lingers too :( Burnt hair is another smell that is awful..

lurker

April 21st, 2009
3:22 pm

They never understood when I told them they deserved better than me

Maybe if you would have phrased as such: At the point I was in life, I would’ve never committed to them, surrounded them with negative influences, kept them on an emotional rollercoaster, f#^k the shyt of them, and drained them financially.

maybe for someone gullible they should have heard it spelled out like this^^^straight to it. I know that would have brought me to my senses, knowing I was in for that kind of ride…whew

lurker

April 21st, 2009
3:23 pm

then again….for chicks….maybe not

lurker

April 21st, 2009
3:23 pm

for “some” chicks is what I meant

MELO

April 21st, 2009
3:27 pm

Burnt hair is another smell that is awful..

I wld say a stinking,awful smelling pudsy! Some females just cant get it right.I thogt mothers hand out “how to notes” to their daughters,early in the game.Thats what Queen is doing.

Another thing,sme females just arent warm enough dwn there.I been sme females whose pudsy were stone cold, when i slipped lil judas in dere, like u at the north pole or smething. :grin:
Absolutely not worth a second visit!

Leggs

April 21st, 2009
3:28 pm

Isn’t the word “some” powerful? :lol:

SlimOne

April 21st, 2009
3:36 pm

melo yeah i got it, i emailed you back a confirmation. And you trippin with that North Pole Puddy.

LIONESS- I Just State The FACTS!!

April 21st, 2009
3:37 pm

Melo- YOU ARE A DAMN FOOL!!! Women that don’t know their na na is rotten MUST have stank breath!

Jamoca

April 21st, 2009
3:38 pm

LOL @ Truth! Everybody can’t go to Georgetown, my albino guerilla in this political warfare…

Leggs – I can’t disagree with you there. Lol…and Tatas, you call ME jaded?!?! Btw, are you still steppin’ to those beats, I know I am. Anthony Hamilton- Track 5 I Did It Fo Sho’…my ish right there!

Lurker – Girl, you crazy…tippy toes?!?! Most of the time, from what approaches, I’m like Jack and the Beanstalk. Lol…But then, I’ve always liked looking up at a man…plus, the easier it is for him to toss me, without slapping him in the face…and the easier it is for me to enjoy a piggyback ride without my feet dragging the ground. Lmao…

Well, let me think about it…my oldest can’t be taller than the BOTH of us now!…be round here double-teamin’ that chile,just to give her a whuppin’…hahahaaa j/k…I haven’t any height issues…nor give the beatdown till the whitemeat, if that child even thinks about growing a brain just to defy me.

Btw, Lurker, that little sidenote to Mrs. Aufton was just a little deposit on my end, in case she starts playing devil’s advocate again…lol…everytime she says that, it sort of reminds me of that old movie Rosemary’s Baby or something like that…Lol (kiddin’ around…)

Cougar – That better be grade! LOL…I know you’ve followed along enough to know the disadvantages of campaigning too hard for the masses…just a heads up.