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Guilty of Illegal Dumping?

I want to address an issue that is rampant on Atlanta’s dating scene. It’s something we have all done at one time or another: illegal dumping. Ruling someone out for a completely frivolous, nonsensical, utterly ridiculous reason. 

For instance, why dump someone for working a retail job when you work in a pharmacy? Why? That doesn’t even make sense! Or how about letting someone go because he has a cat. What’s wrong with a guy owning a cat? Seriously, illegal dumping is actually a symptom of something deeper. Perhaps you should not date anyone for awhile.

I know we all weed out potential dates on things we find personally undesirable, but what happens when these undesirable traits are completely without merit? What if they are just a perception? Why do we bail out so quickly?

Are you guilty of illegal dumping? Are you a victim of it? What is the most frivolous, totally silly reason you dumped someone? What do you think is the dumbest reason you have ever been dumped? Be honest!

325 comments Add your comment

MELO

April 21st, 2009
12:47 pm

sorry for the bold,its the power of the python’s jelo!

Beautiful

April 21st, 2009
12:48 pm

can’t wait until the male birth control pill is out!

SlimOne

April 21st, 2009
12:48 pm

i’m swiss…lmao i guess i just associated mine with the catfish since it sort of looks like my cootie has whiskers. LMAO!

Beautiful

April 21st, 2009
12:50 pm

@BEEN THRU IT ALL
i had a friend back in the day who combed her snatch. lol.

SlimOne

April 21st, 2009
12:50 pm

Melo

You don’t have any dayum sense. I don’t have old woman’s puddy. I’ve seen an old womans puddy at the Clairmont Lounge and believe me, mine is a far stretch from being that. YUCK! Gray hair runs in my fam.

The Truth-Wearing a towel on my head and nothingelse while doing dishes

April 21st, 2009
12:51 pm

The Truth now flying around with his arms out and making airplane noises while looking for a landing strip.

Let it grow Lurker, let it grow. LOL

i'm swiss

April 21st, 2009
12:51 pm

Slim — Be proud of those whiskers… I could eat catfish every day… :lol:

Beautiful

April 21st, 2009
12:51 pm

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY MIA! MUAH.

Leggs

April 21st, 2009
12:51 pm

I am so laughing at you SexyCool….”catfish puddy”! You are sick!

C. M. Thornton, III

April 21st, 2009
12:52 pm

SlimOne, doormats belong outside. No hippi chicks for me. The only hair a woman should have on her body belongs on the top of her head.

Tru Southerner...

April 21st, 2009
12:52 pm

I’ve dumped somebody for not liking pork. Everytime I ate they poked fun at my food? I can’t have that at the table….

Lisa

April 21st, 2009
12:53 pm

Hello every one!

This is a good topic…I’ve never dumped anyone, An by reading some
of your comments I’m glad I didn’t. We tend to forget that we all
have flaws and for the most part they are visable for all to see.
Dumping someone because they eat one pea at a time, come on! The dumpping that most people do is really because of the flaw that one has which they may not be able to change but work on. We can’t help them you learn to look beyond them and look for the potiential that could be in that person. (smile)

David Granger

April 21st, 2009
12:55 pm

I dumped a girl once because she ordered pizza with those little dead minnows on it. But I consider that a perfectly logical, valid reason to dump someone.

Leggs

April 21st, 2009
12:55 pm

@Beautiful, have you ever tried braiding it. You’ll wind up looking like Afalpha on the Little Rascals (I know some of you never heard of that show…whatever) :lol:

Raqi

April 21st, 2009
12:55 pm

At lunch at asked one of my friends what is the strangest reason she dumped a guy. She said because she found out he broke up with a lady because of her real name. Everyone called her Trudy but her name was Gertrude. He didn’t like the name so he dumped her. She said that was a dumb reason so she dumped him for being so shallow and stupid.

MELO

April 21st, 2009
12:56 pm

Lisa,we laughing at urselves that we so shallow.
Damn! u so perfect or u got low self esteem? :???:

Beautiful

April 21st, 2009
12:57 pm

@LISA
since AMAZON isn’t present . . . welcome!

yes i have flaws, but an individual knows what they want. wlb doesn’t settle and should never settle for less.

SexyCool

April 21st, 2009
12:57 pm

Leggs – you are typing way too fast over there. That was Slim One with the fishiness. I tend to visualize most of what I read, so I was sitting over there thinking, ” TMI.”

Beautiful

April 21st, 2009
12:59 pm

@LEGGS
what! lol. i should have tried, cause it’s been that long before. lol.

SlimOne

April 21st, 2009
12:59 pm

i’m swiss believe me i’m proud of my catfish. Just like old folks say gray hair is a sign of wisdom, especially on a young person…i just look at it like i have a wise puddy. LMAO :lol:

Staceye AKA Black Mamba

April 21st, 2009
1:00 pm

SLIM… :lol: You are still a crazy woman! Catfish!

SlimOne

April 21st, 2009
1:02 pm

SexyCool HOLE UP ShAWTY, you maybe typing too fast…ain’t no fishiness over here. I think you had your head facing down when you typed that.

Leggs

April 21st, 2009
1:04 pm

I thought most tried braiding it. I know my gfs did (LOL). Mentally, I tend to get you and SlimOne mixed up.

“a wise puddy”….knows when to…..(For Real, start a skit).

LIONESS- I Just State The FACTS!!

April 21st, 2009
1:04 pm

Yall dudes like hair on the Na Na? WOW!! Yall must like hair in the teef too..

Beautiful

April 21st, 2009
1:04 pm

lmao at *hands in pockets*.

Beautiful

April 21st, 2009
1:07 pm

**Yall must like hair in the teef too..**

comin’ up to pick hair out of his teef . . . memories. sigh.

LIONESS- I Just State The FACTS!!

April 21st, 2009
1:07 pm

I won’t date a man that has a roommate..

Slim- You are HILARIOUS!!

Hair on the na na makes the na na HOT!

i'm swiss

April 21st, 2009
1:09 pm

“Yall dudes like hair on the Na Na? WOW!! Yall must like hair in the teef too..”

Lioness — Nah, no hair in the teeth. :lol: Check my 12:04 for clarification. ;-)

Been Thru It All

April 21st, 2009
1:10 pm

@Lisa

just having fun…I think we were all shallow, silly, stupid when we were young….but to be 30+ and dumping a girl over her “cankles” would be foolish…”girl just wear some jeans, I like the way they look on ya”…lol

MELO

April 21st, 2009
1:11 pm

It took me a long long time(2 yrs) to get the panties,with this one chic,in an off-on,friend/girlfriend kinda relationship.
She was phine,from a good fam,well spoken and a good dresser.Evething on point,untill i got her to undress so we cld share her niceness,this one time.
Uggggh! Her belly,all the way dwon to the nether regions was all swamped with black marks/spots from some scabbies or sme like that, i guess,she had when she was younger.All healed up but for me and my visuals? ughhhhh.
2 years of my DAMN! time,wasted!
My dyckk cant handle heavy stuff like that!

Beautiful

April 21st, 2009
1:17 pm

@MELO
awww. sometimes you gotta look past stuff like that. she has no control over her scars. but a nicca has control over stank breaf, ya feel me?

dw

April 21st, 2009
1:17 pm

@beautiful–It’s better that those grandkids go into the napkin than into ur house if u know what I mean, talk to him about those sites. Chances are if he knows you know about it then he be too embarrassed to visit on a regular basis.

MELO

April 21st, 2009
1:24 pm

she has no control over her scars. but a nicca has control over stank breaf, ya feel me?

I Feel u but thats a problem ‘tween her and God! Im out of it!
Im not gonna play Jesus/Mohammed to make some happy.If our interests collide/merge,GOOD,if not coz of some God given unlucky charm/calamity,thats tween u,ur ancestors and Yahweh.

LIONESS- I Just State The FACTS!!

April 21st, 2009
1:25 pm

Stinking breath is RETARDED!!! Brush your tongue twice a day! I know they can smell it! So inconsiderate of others!

Swiss- I got you ;)

Beautiful

April 21st, 2009
1:26 pm

@DW
yea, i know what you mean. i will talk to him again. i take advantage of the time we have in the car. i will die if that happened to him. i need that pill to be approved!!! i want him to take advantage of everything that life throws his way.

jay

April 21st, 2009
1:26 pm

I had a chick tell me that I wasn’t HOOD or STREET enough. Needless to say it wasn’t her who did the dumping.

LIONESS- I Just State The FACTS!!

April 21st, 2009
1:29 pm

I can’t date a person who has cold sores.. Pimples around the mouth or anything! Too risky!

Melo- I don’t blame you! If she told you beforehand, would you have smashed that?

dw

April 21st, 2009
1:32 pm

@beautiful–I can dig it, but its natural for them to explore. When we were younger we had magazines, that we got lucky and found after some guys wife on the block threw them in the trash, but after a while the pages were all sticky, oops my bad had a flashback… Now young men like your son have extreme access to this kind of thing so its much more imperative that you talk with him about it.
On a side note, I caught my nephew yanking is chain so hard and fast once I thought he was having a seizure. LOL

GG

April 21st, 2009
1:33 pm

A guy dumped me because he said I had too many jobs. Said he needed someone with a stable work history, as if he were hiring me for a job. In my opinion I think he just wasn’t interested, I told him he could of came up with something better than that.

Fresh

April 21st, 2009
1:33 pm

I’m reformed now, but I had some classics!!

- Girl couldn’t read directions coming back from vacation and didn’t think the decimal between the 2.5 mile turn was relevant, that was a 20 mile waste, broke it off with a 5 hour car ride to sit through!
- First date, had some drinks at the bar, girl wanted to go to Krystals – cool I haven’t eaten there in awhile… Me: You go first Girl: I’ll have 6 Krystal Chicks… Me: I’m not hungry anymore…SIX? I understand the freshman 15, but she was tracking a lot more. Good looking girl though.
- Broke up with a girl because she asked for a ride home from a bar and I expressed specifically “Just you and one other friend, right?” Yes dear. “Good because my buddy is coming too and we only have room for two extras” Yes dear. Showed up at the bar and she had three other friends. Gave her the ride home – fit as many of the girls in the back as we could. Broke it off as soon as we got back to the parking lot.
- Girl couldn’t kiss. I’m not saying I’m an expert, but this wasn’t even close. I figured there was no potential if we can’t even get down the basics.
- Girl told me she wanted to marry a rich guy and stay at home and do nothing all day – she was dead serious.

I’m reformed now though, but thought I’d add a couple funny one’s!

The Truth-Wearing a towel on my head and nothingelse while doing dishes

April 21st, 2009
1:35 pm

DW, lmao.

Angie, take your son to the bunny ranch and break him in right. A good teacher can help him down the road to a healthy understanding of the power of the nut.

Beautiful

April 21st, 2009
1:37 pm

@GG
i agree.

@DW
that’s why i knock before entering.

MELO

April 21st, 2009
1:38 pm

Slim, i got a job that i want to fward ur way.
Whats ur email add?

MELO

April 21st, 2009
1:41 pm

Melo- I don’t blame you! If she told you beforehand, would you have smashed that?

U damn right,yeah? That wld have hightened my curiosity to see her in all natural.

Beautiful

April 21st, 2009
1:42 pm

@TRUTH
if i didn’t have any morals, i would in a heartbeat. should i buy him some condoms? what i’m sayin’ is i’d rather be safe than sorry.

ok this is heavy on my mind now.

Cori

April 21st, 2009
1:43 pm

The women I’ve met so far in Atlanta are notorious for making up these kind of things. I’m 29 yrs old and have no kids, but I girl stopped talking to me because I didn’t have any kids she doesn’t know if I would make a good father. She had a million other excuses also. She thinks men that have kids and take care of his kids are sexy. Duummbb! She could have started a family with me instead of dating baby daddies. I wish I could find a attractive woman with no kids who really wants a man in their life. I’ll let you know how it goes after all there is a recession now…LoL (anchorman1980@yahoo.com)

dw

April 21st, 2009
1:44 pm

@Beautiful–LOL, that’s good because it’s one thing to get caught by your uncle, but by your mom, OMG! That would definitely stop the visits but it might traumatize him too. LMAO!

sharon

April 21st, 2009
1:46 pm

I’ve never been dumped, but my sister was dumped by a guy who got angry because she asked for a to go box in a pricey restaurant. We all have a list of what we are willing to put up with so there’s no such thing as “illegal dumping”.

Jamoca

April 21st, 2009
1:46 pm

LMAO @ Slimone! An ‘ol wise catfish puddy?!?! Okay, so are we comparing ourselves to fish now? How about Red Sockeye Salmon:

-Pinkish color
-Thick
-and rich in Omega3 fatty amino acids…eat up! lol

LOL @ Lurker…I hear you, I hear you…trimmed up and edged nicely but ultimately let it do what it do. I just wondered about dudes getting fur balls caught in their throats from time to time…hahahaaa

Okay real quick…I was spending time with this guy. Stopped by to visit him for a few moments. He had just come from the gym…wanted to take a shower, but put something on stove before jumping in and left unattended, nor did he tell me, since I would have kept an eye on it for him. Well anyway, he springs from the bathroom with his towel on, cutting across the hardwood floors in an attempt turn the stove off to keep it from boiling over.

As he rushes back my way, to finish showering…his towel unravels. It happened so quickly. And since we had not been intimate, I was caught off guard…esp since his one eyed snake was the color/pattern of cow’s skin! Except white patches were substituted for pink (and dark brown) patches on his wanga-lang!!!

And without catching myself, I blurted out: “Oh shyt, what happened to your d_ck?!?! He later explained that it was a mark since birth. I felt kind of bad for being so insensitive, but even he could not deny that incident was pretty funny. He’s like, “if you could only see the expression on your face?…” I’m like: “it looks painful almost like the aftermath of burn marks on dark skin or someone took a potatoe peeler and skinned ya…!” We laughed so hard! Embarassing situation turned into humor. Love to make a man laugh.

And know I did not dump him…but our schedules began to get in the way after a while…okay, okay it was MY schedule! Alright, Raqi, there’s your signed blog confession. It was me. And I’ll venture to say, it may have been purposely. I know…I know…

dw

April 21st, 2009
1:47 pm

@beautiful–He definitely needs condoms, but you have to stress that your buying them is not an invitation to go out and use them. Rather, if he does happen to find himself in a situation where he could engage in intercourse then he needs to use them. Tell him that they are like a sex seatbelt. Cars come with seatbelts not because the makers expect you to go out and have a wreck, but just in case you do have one you are protected.