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Guilty of Illegal Dumping?

I want to address an issue that is rampant on Atlanta’s dating scene. It’s something we have all done at one time or another: illegal dumping. Ruling someone out for a completely frivolous, nonsensical, utterly ridiculous reason. 

For instance, why dump someone for working a retail job when you work in a pharmacy? Why? That doesn’t even make sense! Or how about letting someone go because he has a cat. What’s wrong with a guy owning a cat? Seriously, illegal dumping is actually a symptom of something deeper. Perhaps you should not date anyone for awhile.

I know we all weed out potential dates on things we find personally undesirable, but what happens when these undesirable traits are completely without merit? What if they are just a perception? Why do we bail out so quickly?

Are you guilty of illegal dumping? Are you a victim of it? What is the most frivolous, totally silly reason you dumped someone? What do you think is the dumbest reason you have ever been dumped? Be honest!

325 comments Add your comment

Soulfinger

April 21st, 2009
11:40 am

I am totally guilty of illegal dumping!

The Truth-Wearing a towel on my head and nothingelse while doing dishes

April 21st, 2009
11:44 am

Beautiful, I thought you was in LA. You’re in my neck of the woods. I’m from Oakland. Btw, that wrestling is fake. My ex worked for the TNT/WWE when it was on here and we went to alot of matches. Ric Flair was the big name then. It was all fake but dont tell the little one. It’ll crush him.

Beautiful

April 21st, 2009
11:45 am

@SOULFINGER
honestly, there isn’t anything wrong with that. we have to let go and make way for mr. right, do you agree? i don’t feel guilty. not one bit.

Gus Thornhill (formerly East Point's Own)

April 21st, 2009
11:47 am

Ok, who is posting as Pamela???? this looks like a blatent attempt to start drama… but hey its almost lunch time this may be the shot in the arm the blog need for today…

Josh

April 21st, 2009
11:49 am

I have dump females with ugly toes! Does that count?

i'm swiss

April 21st, 2009
11:50 am

“Were the long butt crack hairs not well within the regulation measurements?”

Slim — Just for clarification, what is the regulation measurement on BCH? :lol: And speaking of, um, intimate grooming… am I the only one who’s over the whole bald kitty trend? A nicely manicured muff, yes please, but totally bald… no thanks. I wanna know you’ve at least hit puberty when I’m licking the kitty…. JMO…. :lol:

DSTSPG06

April 21st, 2009
11:50 am

i am so guilty for illegal dumping. You have to keep me entertained. I feel like it should never be a dull moment. now when a guy gets boring them something has to give. I consider myself to be a great catch. first year grad student, employed, no kids, i have my own so why should i expect less from someone. NOW ive never dumped someone based off of their living situation or their back ground period. it has always been about the “spark” the excitement.. the fun… once the spark leaves.. you DO TOO… :-)

lurker

April 21st, 2009
11:50 am

Nothing illegal about all the aforementioned….if it don’t work for you, do it…small matters to some are large issues to others. Some of the stuff listed ain’t small matters…(i.e. bad breath, poor hygiene, etc.). Now the dumping someone cause they shave even not balding might fit the category. I know a guy that does that. Guess he just like sporting the bald look.

Beautiful

April 21st, 2009
11:51 am

@TRUTH
i’m in the modesto area (valley). and my lil one is 15 yrs old, 6′1, size 15 shoe, lol. i hope he knows it’s fake. hmmm.

i’ll be sitting in the nose bleed seats above him while he’s closer to the ring. we’ll both have our phones so it’ll be cool.

lurker

April 21st, 2009
11:51 am

Pam What planet are you from?

The Truth-Wearing a towel on my head and nothingelse while doing dishes

April 21st, 2009
11:52 am

Pamela, if I buy your friends anything I’m fugging them, and you’re going to watch. You aren’t cut like that so quit acting. Remember, the same thing that makes you moist as a duncan heinz donut, money, makes your girls moist.

Beautiful

April 21st, 2009
11:53 am

@C.M. Thornton, III
my ex used to shave me. next time tell her to spread ‘em. great 4play!

dw

April 21st, 2009
11:53 am

When a bow-legged chick and a knock-kneed chick walk next to each other they spell OX.

MELO

April 21st, 2009
11:54 am

A nicely manicured muff, yes please, but totally bald… no thanks. I wanna know you’ve at least hit puberty when I’m licking the kitty

well said Swiss! I like the feel of growing pub hair,ugh,ugh! Im feeling my lower back engage and jerk inwards a lil :lol:

SlimOne

April 21st, 2009
11:55 am

i’m swiss

BCH – anything over half and inch is moving outside regulation. lol And regarding that totally shaved muff, as you call it….i did it once in life and vow to never do it again! When that crap grows back OMGGGG!! Had me putting my hands in my pocket trying to scratch it on the sly.

Leggs

April 21st, 2009
11:55 am

@For Real, thanks for letting me know what happened. I see she stopped after your dedication to her….again Phooey. J/K!

@Beautiful…go ahead mama and continue to pat yourself on the back for being a great mommy! I pat myself all the time. (shssh just between you and me, I signed myself and my daughter up for a “Mommy and Me” belly dancing class this past Saturday). We had fun.

@Truth, never liked wrestling but always thought Rick Flair was an interesting looking white man! Could have been all that blond hair???

Beautiful

April 21st, 2009
11:55 am

@PAM
nrr’mind . . .

The Truth-Wearing a towel on my head and nothingelse while doing dishes

April 21st, 2009
11:56 am

Swiss, I’m with you cracker, I mean dude. That 13 year old look is so wack now. You’re a grown azz woman, show me that fro with the afro puff looks. I got clippers if you need me to line you up or fade you but show me the hairdo. LOL

MELO

April 21st, 2009
11:56 am

Pamela, if I buy your friends anything I’m fugging them

Exactly,me too! If they are admiring and pining for what u got from ur boy,they are prime to be hunted by him too.Fcking a circle of friends is so much fun.

SlimOne

April 21st, 2009
11:56 am

….not to mention my big ole CT looks rather unsightly without the shade of the bush. LMAO!

dw

April 21st, 2009
11:59 am

@ Beautiful–did you just ask Shaq where to find shoes for your son on Twitter?

WTH am I supposed to do now ???

April 21st, 2009
12:01 pm

I recently learned that the guy that I have been dating for the last 11 months used to buy prostitutes and strippers. After listening to his perverted stories and self proclaimed bragging rights for about 10 minutes, I stopped him and made up a lie to get off the phone. I thought that I was going to puke. I will never look at him the same and I’m starting to question my future with him. Right now, I just don’t want to be around him. Am I wrong? Fortunately within the first month of dating, we both got complete STD tests before we engaged in intimate relations.

i'm swiss

April 21st, 2009
12:04 pm

Actually, I should qualify my last statement on puddy-do, just a bit. White chicks & especially Asian chicks can go bald or at least they need to trim that stuff close — otherwise, it’s too long & straight & falls out too easily. I don’t need any dental floss, thank you. :lol: Never had that problem w/ the sistahs, though :-D :lol:

Leggs

April 21st, 2009
12:06 pm

SlimOne, you have me cracking up with the hands in the pocket. Not only that, when getting up from your desk you seem to bump into it intensifying the itch. Now, Spa Sydell’s brazillian wax is off the chain and no itch when it grows back.

@Staceye, thanks for telling me about the class. Not sure if I owe you one or not! We will see, girly girl!

Dee

April 21st, 2009
12:08 pm

What a great Tuesday’s topic! My boyfriend of 4 years dumped me. He said that I had my friends and the church and he had his books and the library!!! He failed to say that aside from his books, he was screwing around with a teacher at the school where he taught and got married seven months later!

The Truth-Wearing a towel on my head and nothingelse while doing dishes

April 21st, 2009
12:10 pm

Swiss, was dating a nurse a few years back and the first time I saw that bush i was hooked. It looked so womanly. We enjoyed many a good meal together. LOL

The flip side was when I was at Tybee Island years ago and a chick had on a swimsuit cut high at the leg. She had some ratty azz hair all down her legs and ish. I spit up in my own mouth. Yuck

Angie, wait til the matches start then walk down to the empty seats.

Soulfinger

April 21st, 2009
12:10 pm

@Beautiful…thanks! I didnt want to list the things I have dumped guys for…didnt want anyone tho think I was shallow…but since you have renewed my confidence…I once dumped a guy because he ate like a bird. I am used to a man who can eat like a man. This dude cant finish a Whopper Jr! That was too much for me…

DB

April 21st, 2009
12:12 pm

Pamela, with an attitude like that (”gimme, gimme, gimme, and give to my friends, too!”), I would suspect that you’ve been the dumpee a lot more often than you’ve been the dumper. I wonder how many of your men have run, not walked, to the nearest exit.

MELO

April 21st, 2009
12:13 pm

I stopped seeing this chic and just went AWOL on her coz my maternal uncle had given her a bad report card!
They worked for the same company,in the same city and he said he had seen her sexxing ways.Looking back in retrospect,she was just more smoother than my uncle and he proly pinied for her too.
But i realised that a long term relatiuosnhip wlkd have neva wrked coz of hw i value my fam.
But her grooving was off tha deck.She was the first woman i ever hit that would make outrageous sounds whenever i got inside and started doing ma thang.First time she did that, i was like WOW,does it really feel that good on you that u have to awaken the neigbhors?! :lol:
But i got used to it.In fact im married to a woman like that now.A dyckmatized squirrel,evertime its on,u hear the eeek,eeek,aaagh,aaaagh,irk,irk ,irk sounds.
KARMA is a byaaatch!

Staceye AKA Black Mamba

April 21st, 2009
12:13 pm

LEGGS…a Brazillian? OUCH :shock: Girl that takes a high pain threshold! My clippers will do just fine. :lol:

I hope you & Lil’ Legs really enjoy the class and bond even more. BTW…you guys should check out the Hafla on Saturday. Who knows..you may see somebody you know dancing. :wink:

East Point's Own

April 21st, 2009
12:16 pm

Poppa Grande

April 21st, 2009
12:19 pm

Truth

Wrestling may be fake, but Vincy McMahon has a gold mine. Monday Night Raw was in Philips Arena last monday (April 13). Marta was packed.

I don’t watch it now. But, I did as a kid.

Terry Bollea aka Hulk Hogan was born in Augusta, GA, and he “totally gets O.J., now.” :shock:

WOA

April 21st, 2009
12:19 pm

The girl I was dating was activly meeting people online and giving out her number over the internet instead of trying to change her and figure out why and so fourth I just kicked her to the curb like she would have done to me lol

The Truth-Wearing a towel on my head and nothingelse while doing dishes

April 21st, 2009
12:19 pm

Staceye, am I right in reading between the lines that you have an old type Janet Jackson fro? Please say its so. LOL

DB, we knew she was trying to get some getback. Some cat dumped her and she cant let it go. Not even a stupid broads sharing her vault with a girlfriend. Talk about opening up the relationship. WOW

i'm swiss

April 21st, 2009
12:20 pm

Truth — LOL, yeah the bush creeping out of the swimsuit (or panties for that matter) is not a good look. Gotta keep a well-maintained lawn. :lol:

Sidebar — Back in my, um, wilder days, a buddy of mine & I were having a little fun with a couple of chicks in his hot tub. I had a good time myself, but the next day, my friend was all pi$$ed ‘cos his girl had nipple hair. :lol: Totally killed it for him… :lol: After that we added a rule that we had to see the chicks topless before calling dibs… :lol:

Leggs

April 21st, 2009
12:21 pm

Damn Dee!!!!

Poppa Grande

April 21st, 2009
12:22 pm

On Topic

I’m guilty of illegal dumping. I once dumped a female because of the shape of her nose. It looked kinda like the nose on a pug (dog).

Staceye AKA Black Mamba

April 21st, 2009
12:26 pm

TRUTH….now you know I am mohawked….landing strip. etc… :lol:

Leggs

April 21st, 2009
12:26 pm

@Staceye, when I got my brazillian wax, I had no earthly idea what I was getting into. A girlfriend and I went together and she had a lot of Spa Sydell certificates. You could hear me screaming in the hallways. At one point I had to grit my teeth and say, ok, I’m going to finish this even if I pass out! Goodness gracious that was painful But it was so pretty looking when all was done (ROFLMAO). Doubt that I’ll do it again. I satisified my curiousity. Sometimes you only have to do things once to get it out of your system!

Leggs

April 21st, 2009
12:29 pm

I too asked for a “landing strip”. It makes it look puuurrrtyy!

Staceye AKA Black Mamba

April 21st, 2009
12:31 pm

POPPA…wow that is sad. Her nose? :lol:

The Truth-Wearing a towel on my head and nothingelse while doing dishes

April 21st, 2009
12:31 pm

Poppa, wasnt going to say anything but since you brought him up twice in a row I guess I’ll comment. I really dont see anything wrong with what OJ supposedly did. Alot of cats would want to ax that broad in the same situation. Just saying.

SlimOne

April 21st, 2009
12:34 pm

Leggs

The day I tried to pull what looked like was just a random string from my towel but was actually a gray hair, outta my coochie mane was the day I learned I’d never be able to stomach a waxing down there of any kind. I’ll have to stick to shaving every few days and tweezer out any razor bumps. LMAOOO!!

I know i told yall i have on gray hair on each lip so i call it a Catfish Puddy!!!

i'm swiss

April 21st, 2009
12:38 pm

“I know i told yall i have on gray hair on each lip so i call it a Catfish Puddy!!!”

Slim — Funny, I always thought it was a big mouth bass:lol: (just playing…) ;-)

kg

April 21st, 2009
12:39 pm

i have for passing gas….

Beautiful

April 21st, 2009
12:44 pm

@DW
nope. i have to order his shoes from footlocker.com or visit the store and order over the phone. $80 and up!!! his grades are awesome, so i don’t mind paying so much. if anyone has any other websites i can hit up . . . holla at me please.

this is the third time that i had to hide the internet cord while i’m at work. he visits the nasty porn sites. why am i NOT mad? it’s natural to wonder and explore, right? he’s curious my sis told me. wwjd? looking into some kind of internet blocker to purchase.

@TRUTH
imma wait till the day to tell him. i may crack between now and then. i’m bad with stuff like this especially xmas.

@SOULFINGER
a man who can finish the plate i make for him and ask for more is alright wit me.

@STAC, LEGGS
^5 to clippers.

Been Thru It All

April 21st, 2009
12:45 pm

…I was 19 when I first seen a girl with the shaved kitty…freaked me out…I thought she had the clap or something…I think I was scarred for life…smh…

MELO

April 21st, 2009
12:46 pm

I know i told yall i have on gray hair on each lip so i call it a Catfish Puddy!!!

u have what they call,old woman’s pudsy! That explains ur solo status.Guys go there for the curiosity but bail out when they feel the scratch of the older,stronger,gray hair.U may need to go back to that palm reader so she can prescribe whats called,python’s jelo,which u rub on ur slit.Its a zulu herb concoation :lol:
When guys see ur couchie,they’re smitten and wont want to leave it alone!! :grin:

Lisa

April 21st, 2009
12:46 pm

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lurker

April 21st, 2009
12:47 pm

I like all my feminity….not removing anything.