It is always so interesting to people watch on any given weekend in Atlanta’s social scene. If you pay attention to how we engage each other, you will realize singles sure have a way of getting a message across. The problem is getting the “right” message to the “right” people. I heard a Kelly Clarkson song on the radio the other day called I Do Not Hook Up. Now there’s a message for you!
I think that a lot of times our conversation, flirt techniques, and how we approach a prospect, convey “messages” all the time. Now, the “I do not hook up” message is important to a single woman seeking an actual relationship. A man can be talking to a total vixen and not know it because she is not going to send her vixen signal out to him. We know men desire us. We get it. We desire you too! We just aren’t always down for the hooking up.
Ladies, do you have challenges with sending a “I do not hook up” message to men that you meet? What if you are just looking for the casual thing? Do you let this be known straight away or wait until you observe more?
Guys, how do you send your “I do not hook up” message to women? Do you find that women are surprised when you do? If you are looking for hooking up only, do you actually communicate this? Do you pretend you are interested in the woman?
How can we improve our techniques of sending the “right” message to someone we are interested in? Is it hard to do without appearing to be playing games?