I bet we all find ourselves in ruts: career, dating, relationship, even sexual ruts. You get used to doing the same old thing and you suddenly realize how dull and uninspiring it becomes. You know what the say, though. Variety is the spice of life!
So what do you do to get out of your ruts? How do you shake things up?
I like to get a change in scenery. A quick trip somewhere out of town. Or perhaps book a room in a fabulous hotel in the city, preferably a sexy one.
Relationships can become mundane if you don’t work at keeping it interesting. I think that both partners should be able to come up with ways to keep things popping. What is the best way to spice up your relationship? What if you just started dating? Do you keep things interesting and spicy to prevent the transition to “comfortable” stage of exclusive dating?
What have you done in the past that really made things spicy?