Variety is the Spice
I bet we all find ourselves in ruts: career, dating, relationship, even sexual ruts. You get used to doing the same old thing and you suddenly realize how dull and uninspiring it becomes. You know what the say, though. Variety is the spice of life!
So what do you do to get out of your ruts? How do you shake things up?
I like to get a change in scenery. A quick trip somewhere out of town. Or perhaps book a room in a fabulous hotel in the city, preferably a sexy one.
Relationships can become mundane if you don’t work at keeping it interesting. I think that both partners should be able to come up with ways to keep things popping. What is the best way to spice up your relationship? What if you just started dating? Do you keep things interesting and spicy to prevent the transition to “comfortable” stage of exclusive dating?
What have you done in the past that really made things spicy?
Happy Friday!
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fee
March 13th, 2009
4:02 pm
Amazon… I thought you left. you have been quiet…
Cemeeli
March 13th, 2009
4:02 pm
kinderbabe – Hey. Where you come from? Are the kiddies gone home?
Cemeeli
March 13th, 2009
4:03 pm
Fee – We got the same daddy! <— Don’t for get that now.
The Truth-Wearing a towel on my head
March 13th, 2009
4:03 pm
Whats up poppa/ Skype is illegal in this country.
Leggs
March 13th, 2009
4:03 pm
Hey can’t knock it if that stank looking booty is what you like
You can see the same thing on a crack head walking down street, guess the plumpness will take away, but the crack will still be since that’s what you like.
Tazzee
March 13th, 2009
4:04 pm
Kym Thanks for the book suggestions. I like DeBerry and Grant.
Have you ever read Tananarive Due?
fee
March 13th, 2009
4:04 pm
I wont Cee…
AmazonRed
March 13th, 2009
4:05 pm
Amazon… I thought you left. you have been quiet…
Hey fee, I did leave. I’m just checking in with email and such. Bout to get my weekend started… off to buy the wine!
fee
March 13th, 2009
4:11 pm
Well Amazon have an Awesome weekend alright!!!
lurker
March 13th, 2009
4:11 pm
Boom-a-loom-doom-boom-bump – the sound of SexyCool falling out in the floor LOL
kinderbabe
March 13th, 2009
4:11 pm
stormy
yeah, didn’t it just seem like it. i think sistah souljah is going international with the next one.:) i really enjoyed the book. what will your book club be reading next?
cemeeli
girl, this was a planning day. thank you, lord! got a lot of paper work done. it’s amazing how much you can get done minus 14 children asking you a million questions…lol.
Cemeeli
March 13th, 2009
4:11 pm
Swiss….T2 it for the not so serious. I’m a straight 15 yeara ago wannabe. Now i go for it again. So Miss is as i on the court? Not so serious.
Poppa Grande
March 13th, 2009
4:11 pm
AR
In other news, the ACC Tournament blows!
I’ve been home all day.
They all blow except the Syracuse and UConn game last night. That one game has been better than most of these tournament. I will say that the Big 12 tourney has been pretty good unless you are a Kansas fan.
My prediction about the SEC and Tampa is correct. The officials aren’t happy. They are having trouble filling the place. It has been a disaster from a financial stand point for the conference. 790 the zone has been talking about it some. More people are just going to the beach and not the games. SEC wants that money. The can’t even count on Kentucky this year due to the economy and their lackluster record.
Next week I will probably go to the Cheetah for the annual March Madness viewing.
Cemeeli
March 13th, 2009
4:13 pm
kinderteach Today was a 1/2 day AND the school is closed Monday. There Teacher Day is Mon.
Poppa Grande
March 13th, 2009
4:13 pm
Truth
Skype is illegal in this country.
Well, that sux.
fee
March 13th, 2009
4:14 pm
See ya folks on Monday.. Peace and Gods blessings over the weekend.. and remember Show God some love, and Go to church… Smile…
Tazzee
March 13th, 2009
4:15 pm
fee Just send that list of books to me at Tazzee@gmail.com I’ll be sure to post it for you on Monday
fee
March 13th, 2009
4:16 pm
Taz you mean the edited version huh… LOL
M'Karyl
March 13th, 2009
4:17 pm
LMAO @Cee
You ain’t right…gonna through in my krytonite…play fair
The Truth-Wearing a towel on my head
March 13th, 2009
4:17 pm
Poppa-lmao true, no liquor, corrupt cops, and thats just the beginning
Cemeeli
March 13th, 2009
4:18 pm
I’m so glad Tazz is my friend. Good job.
M’Karyl – What you say about baking me a cake? Lol
I wubb yall.
i'm swiss
March 13th, 2009
4:18 pm
Cee — Well, Swiss Miss plays to win when she plays, don’t get me wrong… She just gets bored with it & moves on to other things.
Now me — well, I’m a different story.
I’m pretty much on the court year round.
Mo (aka Moeisha)
March 13th, 2009
4:18 pm
Fee – I’d like to get some of those books! I love to read!
Hey Kinderbabe, how goes it!
AmazonRed
March 13th, 2009
4:19 pm
PG,
I was speaking from an attendee standpoint. I’ve been to the Big East Tournament several times. It’s electricfying from the first tip. And they have the tournament down to a science, so they know how to put on a good show. Madison Square Garden is too small for the tournament, so folks actually use their tickets and fill the seats.
The Dome was half empty last night and had too many empty seats today. In a smaller venue, it would have worked. I’m glad the SEC moved this year, it would have been in an embarrassment.
The ACC Tournament blows because the whole thing is just vanilla and lame. The UNC game was exciting, because it came down to the wire, but the tournament just has no “oomph”
fee, thank you girl. You have a fabulous weekend as well.
*smooches* All.
Leggs
March 13th, 2009
4:19 pm
Got to finish this work…Good night everyone. Enjoy this rainy weekend.
“Even the smallest effort can have a huge ripple effect – all u need to do is throw the stone!” ~ dedicated to Stormy
Kym
March 13th, 2009
4:23 pm
@Tazzee -No I have not but I will check her out. I am planning to have my Kindle by the end of April.
I think most readers know about Victoria Christopher Murray(sp) she is our next bookclub selection. “The Ex-Files”.
@Truth..okay I will give you a pass on the reading but I think you are going to love this guy’s books and characters.
@kimmie Nothing better on a rainy Saturday than a good book.
@ Poppa G..Cookie Monster stays. It is GLover who is the lightweight. I may have to protest if they ever do anything to Big Bird or Elmo.
i'm swiss
March 13th, 2009
4:28 pm
Leggs — LMAO… Seriously, I wouldn’t want Swiss Miss running ’round w/ half her a$$ hanging out like that, but I have to admit, if I saw that walking down the street, I wouldn’t be able to look away…
And, no, swiss isn’t out for any stank booty… I’ll stick to Swiss Miss’s booty… DEEEEE-licious
PG — Could be photoshop, I have no idea. It looks pretty real, but you never know these days. Like Dave Chappelle says, “that pi$$ could be digital!”
kinderbabe
March 13th, 2009
4:30 pm
cemeeli
that’s cool that they have their day on monday. however it’s a 4 day week w/the kids is fine w/me…lol. it’s getting to be about that time of year for teachers. we are pulling our hair out in patches…lol.
mo
hey, lady! i’m fine. glad to be at home.:) how are you?
Tazzee
March 13th, 2009
4:33 pm
Kym I read Ex-Files. I have all VC-M’s books. But Due is a different type of author. Her books deal a lot with death, ghosts/spirits, voodoo. Creepy but I haven’t had any nightmares yet, LOL. Good writing. She and her husband co-authored Blair Underwood’s two books.
Cemeeli
March 13th, 2009
4:43 pm
Kinderteach – I’ve been puling my hair all year with this fourth grade independance! a 9-10 year old kid is not going to remember his agenda for the week unless you remind him! Ugh.
Kinderteach/PoppaG – I know you’ cain’t wait to see May get here!
We have a biology/science project over the weekend. It’s due when they go back to school Tuesday. Do you know that boy wanna go to the beach and get some real sea-goods instead of the pictures. WE laughed so hard lastnight at that.
I guess being a Ga. Aquarium member/volunteer is not enough? Po’ thang.
Poppa Grande
March 13th, 2009
4:44 pm
Truth
My cousin was stationed in that area near Dubai and he talked about how they outlawed Lingerie. So, I understand.
I loved it over there except for sandstorms. He said that they were brutal if you didn’t take cover or prepared. He said that he was reminded what makes up glass.
Poppa Grande
March 13th, 2009
4:47 pm
Kym
I thought about Grover but he is versatile. I remember him as the waiter when the green man had a fly in his soup. He has been a number of things including a fireman & police officer. Therefore, he could be of some use.
You just never know when Cookie Monster is gonna start feenin’ for some cookies. That could get us all off track. Lay him off, send him to Charter, and if things pick up again, he can come back better than before.
Poppa Grande
March 13th, 2009
4:49 pm
Cee
I got summer school. So all that May means to me is Spring Exams and the start of Summer Semester. There is only one week in between the two. I get four weeks after Summer Semester ends. Summer Semester lasts on 7 weeks. A lot of material in a shorter time.
Dee
March 13th, 2009
5:00 pm
For those who are financially challenged, a nice romantic meal at home with an inexpensive bottle of wine would be nice. Put on some oldies and have a good time!
Cemeeli
March 13th, 2009
5:01 pm
PoppaG – I understand! You are on a roll to get this thing done.
Kym
March 13th, 2009
5:01 pm
Tazzee Ohhh I read that book. Some how I was not feeling the love for that guy in Casanegra (sp). I don’t know about the voodoo hoodoo..but I will give her a try. Thanks!!