Supremes’ ruling on gay marriage important, not critical

The U.S. Supreme Court announced Friday that it hear arguments in two important but very different cases involving gay marriage, raising the odds that it will soon establish the basic legal architecture for how that issue is handled in the future.

One case, out of New York, addresses how the federal government must handle gay marriages that are conducted in states where such marriages are legal. The second, out of California, raises the more fundamental question of whether gay marriage is a right protected under the Constitution’s promise of equal protection.

Given the range of legal questions at stake in those two cases, the court’s final ruling next June could take any number of turns. And you just know that Justice Antonin Scalia is itching to get his hands on this issue.

However, it is also important to point out that however the nine justices decide, all final decisions on the matter will be made by the American people. And they have already made it clear that we will not be going backward on this issue, and that whatever the Supreme Court’s ruling this year, in time the right to marry will be extended to all Americans, gay or straight.

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Young people support that right overwhelming. Despite the stern opposition of their church, almost 60 percent of Catholics support it. According to a Pew poll in July, political independents support it by an 11-point margin. Black Americans, long dubious of the notion, also support it in increasing numbers.

As recently as 1996, 65 percent of Americans rejected the notion of gay marriage; only 27 percent supported it. Yet in the July Pew poll, 48 percent of Americans supported it and just 44 percent opposed it. That is an extraordinary shift in public opinion in just 16 years, on an issue that that you might think people might be stubborn about.

So do your worst, Justice Scalia. At worst, you and others can temporarily affect the pace of the change that is taking place across this country. But you cannot affect the final outcome.

– Jay Bookman

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stands for decibels

December 9th, 2012
10:38 am

…What are called ‘homosexual unions,’ because they do not express full human complementarity and because they are inherently nonprocreative, cannot be given the status of marriage,” …..

…already covered, earlier.

You lost. Find a way to deal with it, because marriage inequality ain’t coming back.

Brosephus™

December 9th, 2012
10:43 am

Zoophiles???

Welcome to “Slippery Slope Sunday: Bookman Edition”.

:roll:

RF

December 9th, 2012
10:43 am

Pressed: Tim Stanley wrote a biography of Pat Buchanan….and you expect anyone here to take him seriously- NOT!!

If you look, pretty much every state has very specific laws about the whole animal sex thing. They word it differently, and many states rewrote their laws in the last decade to be MORE specific. In the cases your “article” discusses, the laws on the books were unclear and were subsequently rewritten. So, all your “information” does is point out the fact that such behavior, which pretty much every society on the planet doesn’t allow, has been more clearly defined by law and is now more directly punishable.

Anything else, or do you have some sort of particular interest in this subject?

TM

December 9th, 2012
10:47 am

I am glad I get the AJC right there on page A2 a NY Times article that says that families making more than 250K per year will see an average tax increase of $6000 next year to fund Obama care that is before Obama increases the rates on them. I guess we can still pay a little more.

RF

December 9th, 2012
10:48 am

“When it all comes to pass, gays will be held responsible.”

Well, considering we make up about 10% of the population, and our representation in legislative bodies is much less, then it would take a whole lot of heterosexual politicians to pass any vote to make any of the already illegal activities you mention legal. Technically, that would make heterosexuals responsible to a far, far greater degree. Care to check the numbers?

indigo

December 9th, 2012
10:54 am

Brosephus – “zoophiles”

That’s what I was talking about yesterday.

I know it sound absurd now.

But, twenty years ago, how did “gay marriage rights” sound?

Be ready for anything.

indigo

December 9th, 2012
11:01 am

Do your worst – 8:26

We don’t have the slightest clue as to actually wrote Genesis.

In fact, we are clueless as to the true authorship of the entire Old and New Testaments.

Nor do we have any proof whatsover that God even exists.

Therefore, you beliefs about the absolute nature of marriage and God because of what’s written in Genesis is profoundly ignorant almost beyond comprehension.

RF

December 9th, 2012
11:10 am

@indigo: if you had asked sixty years ago, the idea of black children attending school with white children and black people voting in the South would have sounded absolutely absurd…but it happened, and the world hasn’t stopped spinning as a result. Do you realize what it would take to repeal laws against zoophilia? Do you seriously think any legislature in the country would even bring up the idea? To bring that into this discussion is exactly the kind of ignorant fear-mongering that many tried to bring up during the Civil Rights era, and it didn’t work. Perhaps you think we should go back to the “good old days” of the 1950’s to save our world?

Homosexuality is a fact. It’s also a fact that couples in that lifestyle will still commit to each other regardless of the law. Attempting to deligitimize the commitment by denying them legal marriage rights won’t stop them from being gay and being in long-term, committed relationships. Giving them the right to a legally recognized marital contract won’t suddenly legitimize anything else, and you know it.

Gale

December 9th, 2012
11:17 am

Good morning all. I am always amused at the vitriol displayed by some on this issue. Really? Homosexuals make up 10% (more or less) of the population and of those, how many actually want to marry? Of the couples that want to marry, many are already in long term committed relationships, often with children. That this small population of newlyweds would change the fabric of society is laughable. For the record, I am in a 20 year relationship and want to marry.

Edward

December 9th, 2012
11:18 am

BTW, Paddy O and others, I am a gay white southern male, born and raised in the south, so your ignorant aspersions are inaccurate, at best. Thankfully, people like td and recon are the last of their kind, dying wails that won’t be missed by the rest of the world. The south is their last bastion, but it, too, will eventually be free of the “talibangelical” ignorance.

Brosephus™

December 9th, 2012
11:19 am

indigo

People have been screwing animals for as long as we have recorded history. Same as your other argument, who will be the infamous legislator who introduces the bill to make it legal?

middle of the road

December 9th, 2012
11:29 am

We make laws to protect society as a whole and members of society from certain acts. How does gay marriage threaten either society or members of society? Gays are not hurting anyone else. If they get “married”, either God approves or not – that is between them and God. The other side of marriage is just a legal definition that gives certain rights. The rights of heteroseuals are not infringed by giving those same rights to homosexuals.

Please quote me a quote from Jesus where he addresses gay marriage?

And if you quote Leviticus, please be sure to quote ALL of it – including the lamb sacrifices and kosher eating required.

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December 9th, 2012
12:04 pm

Matthew 19

“Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’ For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’. ”

At that time homosexual acts were an abomination to the Jews and Jesus did nothing to correct that point then nor for future generations.

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December 9th, 2012
12:05 pm

Brosephus:

The next issue will be polygamy.

Common Sense isn't very Common

December 9th, 2012
12:06 pm

indigo

December 9th, 2012
12:06 pm

RF – 11:10

1. I do NOT think zoophilia is a good idea. Nothing I said in my post suggested that.

2. I do NOT think we should go back to the “good old days” of the 50’s. Nothing I said in my post suggested that.

3. You say, correctly, that 60 years ago the ideas of integration and voting rights in the South sounded absolutely absurd. Then you say, correctly, that it actually happened. Then, you turn around and say that an equally absurd idea, zoophillia, could never happen.

4. Then, somehow, you say my simple idea that we just don’t know what lawmakers 40 or 50 years might do is “ignorant fear-mongering”.

You post is one of the worst cases of convoluted thinking and lack of reading comprehinsion I’ve ever seen.

PressedOn

December 9th, 2012
12:10 pm

RF, I’m not arguing against gay marriage. I’m revealing the hypocrisy among leftists like you.

When it comes to income, you leftists argue that you’re entitled to what isn’t yours. If we are to acknowledge alternative lifestyles (sexual in nature) then ALL should be recognized.

With the pursuit of those lifestyles following on the heels of equal rights for gays, are gays going to say “Screw you, we’ve got ours.”

You are equally as guilty of what you accuse conservatives of. It’s that simple.

Selective hypocrites.

indigo

December 9th, 2012
12:30 pm

Brosephus – 11:19

For some reason, you just don’t seem to understand what I’m trying to say.

We take for granted today things like integration, civil rights, women in high political offices and the idea of gay marriage.

50 years ago, this was not the case.

Therefore, we have no way of knowing what lawmakers will decide 50 or 60 years from now.

Why is this so hard for you to understand?

Brosephus™

December 9th, 2012
12:34 pm

Scout

I don’t think we’ll have to worry about that for a long time. Legislators can’t figure out that long term jobs would do more to ease our fiscal issues than any single piece of legislation they could ever write. Congress or any state legislature has about the same chance of successfully legislating polygamy as I have of winning the Dayton 500.

Kamchak ~ Thug from the Steppes

December 9th, 2012
12:45 pm

When it comes to income, you leftists argue that you’re entitled to what isn’t yours.

There’s your sign.

Brosephus™

December 9th, 2012
12:48 pm

We take for granted today things like integration, civil rights, women in high political offices and the idea of gay marriage.

50 years ago, this was not the case.

I understand exactly what you’re saying. You’ve made that argument more than once on this thread. I’ll reply the same way I did before. There is a difference between legislating things between consenting adults, which is what happened between the 50s, 60s, and today versus attempting to legislate things that will affect kids. Since the child labor laws were repealed, this country has been very protective of it’s children. Look at how we keep registered sex offenders away from areas that MIGHT be frequented by children.

I never say never, but when it comes to legislating something that could potentially be detrimental towards kids, there will have to be epic subterfudge of the likes we have never witnessed before in order to get legislation like that passed.

Does that help you understand why I don’t agree with you? Hopefully, I’ve made it clearer for you to understand.

Keep Up the Good Fight!

December 9th, 2012
12:50 pm

And if lawmakers wish to do something different 50 years from now that is the right of a representative govt. Why I daresay that when the 13th and 14th amendments were passed, the counter argument was “well legislators 50 years from now may allow interracial marriage, so we can’t do this”?

Brosephus™

December 9th, 2012
12:51 pm

It’s almost kickoff time, so I’ll check back later to see how Slippery Slope Sunday: Bookman Edition™ progresses through the day. I imagine there will be everything from Crisco to Baby Oil poured down those slopes to get them nice and slippery…

Keep Up the Good Fight!

December 9th, 2012
12:56 pm

Brosephus, don’t forget your snowboard when you come back. We may even put in a Moral Cliff Jump

John Roberts, fmr. reliable conservative

December 9th, 2012
1:00 pm

I am busy at work reviewing the briefs in this gay marriage case. And when I find the word ‘penalty’ that’ll be all she wrote. My job is so easy now that I know a ‘penalty’ is really a tax.

Common Sense isn't very Common

December 9th, 2012
1:04 pm

Bro

I imagine there will be everything from Crisco to Baby Oil poured down those slopes to get them nice and slippery…
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Are you advocating for the Mazola Oil Party

;-)

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December 9th, 2012
1:05 pm

Brosephus:

“I don’t think we’ll have to worry about that for a long time.”

I hear you but we used to say that about gay marriage.

It’s always just one generation away ………… and the downhill slide continues.

Fred ™

December 9th, 2012
1:05 pm

Damn Bro, we should have met up for the game………. it’s your turn to buy.

getalife

December 9th, 2012
1:07 pm

Pacman got knocked out in the 6th round.

Common Sense isn't very Common

December 9th, 2012
1:08 pm

Fred

That’s why Bro didn’t call you. The cheapskate LOL

j/k

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December 9th, 2012
1:08 pm

Regarding my 12:04 post, it’s amazing to me that people always ask for a verse from Jesus condemning homosexual acts when they wouldn’t believe that anymore than they believe what He said about Himself.

“I am the way the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father but through Me.”

getalife

December 9th, 2012
1:09 pm

scout bends over and slobbers on the wealthy.

Is that a form of homosexuality?

indigo

December 9th, 2012
1:16 pm

Brosephus

It’s taken some time, but now I understand, all too clearly, what you’re really saying.

It’s entirely possible that, if gay marriage becomes the law of the land, a slipery slope really will emerge and things we now consider sexual perversions(as being “queer” was once thought of), will eventually become law. Your ultra liberal heart just won’t allow any acknowledgement of this since saying gay marriage will lead to pedophile marriage and God knows what else is just to much for your liberalism to bear.

I don’t like this possibility any more than you but, unlike you, I’m not just going to ignore it and hope it will go away.

It won’t.

clem

December 9th, 2012
1:24 pm

getalife

December 9th, 2012
1:25 pm

indigo,

Sure, if there is a movement to get the American people to support it.

That will never happen.

Fred ™

December 9th, 2012
1:26 pm

Your ultra liberal heart just won’t allow any acknowledgement of this since saying gay marriage will lead to pedophile marriage and God knows what else is just to much for your liberalism to bear.

Wow, that is stupid, even for you. Less than 100 years ago in THIS Country, what you call “pedophile marriage” was the norm you silly little man. 200 years a go a “woman” of 17 was considered an “old maid” if she was unmarried.

You really don’t possess much in the department of logical thinking and critical writing abilities do you?

middle of the road

December 9th, 2012
1:31 pm

50 years ago it was against the law for a white person and a black person to get married – at least in some states. I guess that was a threat to society.

middle of the road

December 9th, 2012
1:34 pm

As far as I know, Jesus did not comment one way or another about gay marriage. But he was quite specific about divorce. So which one do you think should be a priority. This is if you belive government should legislate theology.

“Render unto Ceasar that which is Ceasar’s and render unto God that which is God’s” (I hope I got that quote right).

Welcome to the Occupation

December 9th, 2012
1:37 pm

PressedOn: “When it comes to income, you leftists argue that you’re entitled to what isn’t yours”

No, we leftists point out the ways that capitalists appropriate what isn’t theirs through the exploitation of the labor of others.

By making this charge, you’re no doubt referring to taxation as an illegitimate form of wealth redistribution, but your error is in failing to see that income “earned” (appropriated) through the free market is already redistributed, namely through the asymmetry in wealth between those who benefit from state protection (owners, capitalists) and those who have to rely on selling their labor to eat (the vast majority, the 99%, the workers, etc.).

middle of the road

December 9th, 2012
1:37 pm

My point about the Bible is that people quote only the parts they want to in order to support what they want to support. If they want to support war (or revenge) they quote the Old Testament “an eye for an eye” rather than the New Testament “if a man should strike you on one cheek, then turn and offer the other cheek ” (again, I apologize if the quote is not exact).

They BOTH suck

December 9th, 2012
1:46 pm

Scout
and you have yet to post a direct quote from Jesus regarding homosexuality?

So why would it “amaze” you?

All the inference and intrepreation( which you do on a frequent basis to meet your narrative) doesn’t make something so?

Have you been able to provide a reasoned answer as to why and your your personal life would change if gays were able to marry? Of course that is without your never ending slippery slopes and deflections.

They BOTH suck

December 9th, 2012
1:50 pm

indigo and scout

Can you provide stats and studies for countries that have legalized gay marriage that have went down all the slippery slopes you project?

Brosephus™

December 9th, 2012
1:58 pm

Scout: I hear you but we used to say that about gay marriage.

It’s always just one generation away ………… and the downhill slide continues.

Well, by the time the next generation is here, you’ll be gone. You won’t have to witness whether it happens or not.

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Fred

Consider it an open invitation on Sunday. My in-laws are always over to watch Washington whenever they play on Sunday. You’re more than welcome to come and join us.

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indigo: It’s taken some time, but now I understand, all too clearly, what you’re really saying.

[...] Your ultra liberal heart just won’t allow any acknowledgement of this since saying gay marriage will lead to pedophile marriage and God knows what else is just to much for your liberalism to bear.

Why is it that, whenever someone challenges your thinking, people like you have to resort to trying to label people? You don’t know enough about me to know whether I am liberal, conservative, or just don’t give a f**kative

You obviously DON’T understand what I’m saying by trying to cheapen your argument like that. Let me break it down to you so that even my 4 year old would understand.

Americans will not let anything bad happen to children on purpose. Do you understand that much so far? As such, any attempt to legislate anything that may have a negative effect on kids would not pass muster with the American people. It has nothing to do with being heterosexual, homosexual, gay, straight, Black, White, Native, natural born citizen, or even a naturalized citizen.

We protect kids in this country. You can choose to wallow in your cesspool of fear worrying about “what if’s”. I choose to live my life daily protecting those who need protecting to ensure “fears” don’t happen. And, if that makes me have an “ultra liberal heart”, then I will take having that 10 times out of 10 if your heart is representative of the conservative heart.

Now I know why I loathe “Conservatives” so damned much. When they can’t debate points, they have to label people to belittle them in order to make their microscopic selves feel better.

Oh well…. Back to football.

They BOTH suck

December 9th, 2012
1:59 pm

Kamchak ~ Thug from the Steppes

December 9th, 2012
2:10 pm

indigo

December 9th, 2012
2:10 pm

Brosephus

I am talking about whay MAY happen many years from now.

You may wax as eloquently as possible about how we “protect kids in this country”, conviently ignoring the thousands of cases of child abuse that occur every year here. “Americans will never let anything bad happen to children on purpose”. I dare you to go face to face with a DEFAX worker and say that. He/she will set you straight in a hurry about how politicians don’t even halfway give them the funding they need to do even a barely adequate job.

America is going downhill. Any fool can see that.

I expect the worse to happen, because it usually does.

indigo

December 9th, 2012
2:16 pm

Fred – 1:26 “You really don’t posess much in the department of logical thinking”

This from the dork that can’t even answer a simple question – namely, provide scientific proof that your God exists.

It is spoiled snot-nosed brats like you that, trying to play grown-up here, only succeed in showing how ignorant they are.

Please take your childish foolishness somewhere else, and stop bothering intelligent people, you little pencil neck geek.

Kamchak ~ Thug from the Steppes

December 9th, 2012
2:17 pm

Tick…tick…tick….

Just sayin’.

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December 9th, 2012
2:21 pm

Middle of the Road:

“As far as I know, Jesus did not comment one way or another about gay marriage. But he was quite specific about divorce. So which one do you think should be a priority. This is if you belive government should legislate theology.”

1) Jesus may have commented about a lot of things that we do not have a record of.

“Jesus did many other things as well. If every one of them were written down, I suppose that even the whole world would not have room for the books that would be written.” John 21:25

2) Many things He did not comment about probably because they were so accepted in His day that there was no need. For example, we have no record of His commenting on pedophilia.

3) Government does regulate divorce/theology. Every state has multiple laws and regulations regarding divorce including grounds and time frames before one can divorce.

Why can’t people just go out and divorce? If marriage is just a “moral” thing then so should divorce be ………. but the state realizes for the good of both parties, the public and the state that it must be regulated.

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December 9th, 2012
2:23 pm

Brosephus:

“Well, by the time the next generation is here, you’ll be gone. You won’t have to witness whether it happens or not.”

I’m sure you also have children and grandchildren. The type of society we leave to them is important to me.

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December 9th, 2012
2:25 pm

Middle of the Road:

Regarding my 2:21 post, item #2, by “accepted” I mean so generally accepted as totally immoral that there was no need to specifically mention it.

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December 9th, 2012
2:25 pm

Time to watch the Falcons game.

Everyone be nice.

getalife

December 9th, 2012
2:29 pm

Falcons are getting beat.

The newt said if Hillary runs in 16, she will win.

He finally got something right.

TaxPayer

December 9th, 2012
2:31 pm

Jesus may have commented about a lot of things that we do not have a record of.

Jesus was overheard in one of his exchanges:

“Gay marriage you ask. Well, judge not lest ye be judged and if that still isn’t good enough for you then let thee who is without sin cast the first stone given the fact that I said you are all sinners. Go for it. Make my day.”

getalife

December 9th, 2012
2:34 pm

Tax,

No, I heard Jesus say, “Front and back, 20 dollars”

He does a heck of a job too.

Brosephus™

December 9th, 2012
2:40 pm

indigo

I have friends and family members who work for DFACS. Where is the legislation that makes that abuse legal? You’re completely naive and clueless if you think we can stop all abuse. This country is too vast and too protective of our individual freedoms to be able to police away ALL abuse.

You will worry yourself sick by focusing on what MAY happen. If that’s what makes you feel better, then you do what you feel is necessary. I tend to train my focus on what’s LIKELY to happen instead.

getalife

December 9th, 2012
2:40 pm

I am going to call out the cons on morals like Vice President Biden called out the gop on doing something for the middle class.

Show us.

Talk is cheap.

DebbieDoRight - A Do Right Woman

December 9th, 2012
2:43 pm

W.A.M.: Your ignorance of Justice Scalia’s judicial philosophy is overwhelming. He sits on the bench and (over and over) rules that it is not the role of 9 judges to make laws, it is the peoples’ right and duty (why should nine people determine law in this country, we’ll leave that to countries run by dictators, mullahs, etc.).

I only have two things to say to your above misinformed comment: Civics 101.

Thanks!

Welcome to the Occupation

December 9th, 2012
2:46 pm

indigo: “It’s entirely possible that, if gay marriage becomes the law of the land, a slipery slope really will emerge and things we now consider sexual perversions(as being “queer” was once thought of), will eventually become law”

But what exactly is the “perversion” here, if it becomes the norm? In one sense one could say that as it becomes the norm it by definition ceases to become a perversion, does it not? (one of the definitions of a perversion being something that violates a socially established taboo)

But that in and of itself does not mean that the practice should not become normalized. After all, there are plenty of examples of them, starting with the racist taboos that entrenched a system of injustice in the 19th C, just to name one example.

getalife

December 9th, 2012
2:48 pm

So, I challenge you cons on morals to address income inequality. I expect you to take the moral high ground and call greed a sin and fight to lower the gap.

Also, when your party and media tell you a blatant lie, call them out.

If your party tries to cheat, call them out.

Lets see you cons prove you have any morals.

DannyX

December 9th, 2012
2:51 pm

indigo and scout

Can you provide stats and studies for countries that have legalized gay marriage that have went down all the slippery slopes you project?
_____________________

Scout didn’t get one thing right when the debate was about gays serving openly in the military.

He said it wouldn’t happen, of course it did.
He said most in the military wouldn’t accept it, most do.
He said there would be a mass exodus, there wasn’t.
He said it would hurt recruiting, it didn’t.
He said it would hurt morale, it didn’t.

Brosephus™

December 9th, 2012
2:51 pm

Scout

I have a daughter, and my job is to prepare her to deal with whatever issues she faces. I don’t have the hubris to think I can foresee every possible problem. Therefore, I feel better at teaching her about decision making. She will have the skills and ability to deal with whatever she faces.

indigo

December 9th, 2012
2:53 pm

Brosephus

I try to focus, like you, on what’s likely to happen now and in the more or less immediate future.

Actually, I don’t worry too much about what might be 50 or 100 years from now.

The only point I’m trying to make is that the dim and distant future is utterly unknown to us.

DebbieDoRight - A Do Right Woman

December 9th, 2012
2:56 pm

Scout: 3) Government does regulate divorce/theology. Every state has multiple laws and regulations regarding divorce including grounds and time frames before one can divorce.

OUR government does NOT regulate religion and it STOPPED regulating divorces, (meaning the types of ways you can sue for divorce), a couple of decades back. Now we just have a one size fits all “no fault” divorce. No matter if your husband was a bigamist, (which is a LEGAL matter), your divorce is still “no fault”.

Why can’t people just go out and divorce? If marriage is just a “moral” thing then so should divorce be ………. but the state realizes for the good of both parties, the public and the state that it must be regulated.

Divorces aren’t regulated — where are you getting that from?

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Indigo — I love to help people, and when i was young and naive, i was a social worker. I LOVED my job, up until a client was killed when i told my supervisor if they sent her back to that abusive home she would be. No one listened; the child died and my supervisor was given a “demotion” and was allowed to retire with her full benefits.

There are plenty of cracks in our social service system — but here’s the kicker, there aren’t enough people to fill in those cracks. there aren’t enough people who care enough, who are willing to take a sh##t job, for sh$$##5t pay, and sh@*8!!@#$%ty hours. If we have 2K children in trouble, but only 10 people to help them, there aren’t that many hours in a day that those 10 people can work to meet the needs of every one of those children.

Our society, mostly, looks down on people who go into Social Service Careers, yet uphold people who are bankers, brokers, and wall street execs. So, it easy to see why a lot of Teachers, Social Service Workers, etc. quit their jobs or are burned out within a few years.

They’re over worked, under paid, and vastly unappreciated.

indigo

December 9th, 2012
2:57 pm

Welcome – 2:46

That’s quite right. What’s “perverse” today may become accepted behavior tommorow.

I think the problem is in how fast these things change. Many people in their 70’s and 80’s think America has changed so much as to make them feel they’re living in another country.

Adjustments can be hard.

getalife

December 9th, 2012
2:59 pm

Lets count how many time our cons have been right in the last decade.

indigo

December 9th, 2012
3:00 pm

Debbie

100% correct about social workers and all the sh*t they have to put up with. I honestly don’t know how they cope. I think a job like that would make me eventually just go jump off a cliff.

The chickens have long since come back to roost on this but those in charge just don’t seem to care.

DebbieDoRight - A Do Right Woman

December 9th, 2012
3:08 pm

getalife – two. They were right about electing and re-electing Dumbya. I honestly didn’t think that people would be fooled by him twice; but who woulda thunk it?

indigo — not so much that the bosses don’t care, it’s that they STOPPED caring for their own sanity. a job like that is something that, for your own survival, you have to learn to disassociate yourself from a lot of things, (sorta like an emergency room surgeon who knows that she’ll probably loose 25% of her patients before months end); if you don’t learn to do that you can drive yourself crazy.

I COULDN’T do it. I still grieve for the ONE CHILD that i lost who was in my care. I still try to find and/or keep in contact with the ones who have since “aged out” of the system. I’ve managed to find a few, 2 of them are dead, (1 from an overdose, 1 from prostitution); 4 of them are in school (either college, JC, or JobCorps); and 5 joined the military. The others i have not found yet.

Ive tried to channel my “Helpful” gene into things that i can do for my community or things that I can do for veterans or homeless single mothers; stuff like that. Thats the best that i can do, i can NEVER, for my own sanity, work for DFACS again.

Welcome to the Occupation

December 9th, 2012
3:10 pm

indigo: “Many people in their 70’s and 80’s think America has changed so much as to make them feel they’re living in another country.”

And not just people in their 70s-80s either. :) But yeah, no doubt, and for good reason, both for the better and worse.

Doggone/GA

December 9th, 2012
3:34 pm

“indigo: “Many people in their 70’s and 80’s think America has changed so much as to make them feel they’re living in another country.” ”

Of course they feel that way. It has changed. It will change. It always has, and it always will.

Brosephus™

December 9th, 2012
3:44 pm

The only point I’m trying to make is that the dim and distant future is utterly unknown to us.

It’s not completely unknown. We shape the future based on the actions we take now. We also have history on our side as we can learn from past mistakes to avoid doing the same thing over and over. We might not accurately be able to predict specific events our changes, but our actions now will determine things in the future.

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DDR

I’ve heard some stories from people I know with DFACS that have left me speechless. I don’t know if I have the temperament necessary to do that job. I tip my hat to those who put in the hours doing that as well as those who’ve spent time doing it.

Cherokee

December 9th, 2012
3:44 pm

Kind of hard to believe that someone who is a Christian would bring up divorce. Jesus specifically condemned divorce and remarriage, calling it adultery. Paul later said that adulterers would not enter the Kingdom of Heaven.

On the other hand, Jesus said nothing about gay marriage.

Yet the rosters of evangelical churches are filled with those who have divorced and remarried – even as they condemn the relationships of their gay brothers and sisters and children.

So, Scout, and Recon, and whoever, don’t toss out prohibitions from Leviticus when you’re unwilling to listen to Jesus Christ.

indigo

December 9th, 2012
4:09 pm

Brosephus

That’s exactly correct.

However, the question is – will we learn from our mistakes or be like the philosopher who said “those who do not learn from history are doomed to repeat it”?

indigo

December 9th, 2012
4:11 pm

Cherokee

Jesus did condemn divorce, except for adultery.

josef

December 9th, 2012
4:25 pm

Wow! Here we are at nearly 1000 and still pretty much on topic…funny what will grab and hold the attention of the social malcontents and curmudgeons of the Imam’s front verandah…

Anyway…scanning back over, I DO have one comment. What for some is a downhill slide is for others an uphill climb…looks like we’re sorta meeting in passing here…

indigo

December 9th, 2012
4:35 pm

Debbie – 3:08

I hope you’re not carrying around any guilt for what happned in your social services career. Working for DFACS is like jumping into a large briar patch. No matter how careful you are, painful wounds are bound to happen. I know you did everything humanily possible to help those in your care and I personally thank you for doing the kind of work I could never do.

God bless.

Common Sense isn't very Common

December 9th, 2012
4:36 pm

Josef

As long as those on their downhill slide don’t grab onto those who are on the uphill climb.

:-)

RF

December 9th, 2012
4:39 pm

“When it comes to income, you leftists argue that you’re entitled to what isn’t yours.”

Prove any “leftie” on here has ever argued for income they didn’t earn. Many of us do believe in helping those with the least, and that includes helping them learn to provide for themselves. Personally I believe wholeheartedly in the power of capitalism, but I also believe in the rights of workers to expect reasonable compensation and benefits. I also believe than any “handout” without some requirement for work is useless. I applaud the welfare to work laws and don’t think anyone who is physically able should be given a free ride. Help along the way until they can earn it on their own…absolutely.

As to the issue at hand, we’re talking about the right of two consenting ADULTS to enter into a legal contract of marriage. That simply cannot be connected in any way to crimes against children or animals, and you know it. There is simply no logical progression from one to the other, and you know as well as I do that no legislature in the forseeable future will change that. It is a desperate attempt by those who just can’t accept homosexuality as a lifestyle who would consider it a positive step for this country to deny them that one basic right as LEGAL ADULTS. You can try to dispute that all day long, and all you achieve is appearing to be much, much more narrow-minded and hypocritical than we ever could be. The whole notion of “liberty and justice for ALL” for many on your side means “all who we consider worthy”.

Kamchak ~ Thug from the Steppes

December 9th, 2012
4:44 pm

That simply cannot be connected in any way to crimes against children or animals, and you know it.

All available evidence suggests otherwise.

RF

December 9th, 2012
4:45 pm

“I think the problem is in how fast these things change. Many people in their 70’s and 80’s think America has changed so much as to make them feel they’re living in another country.

Adjustments can be hard.”

I remember my grandparents saying the same thing back in the 60’s, and I hear my dad saying it now in his 70’s. Every generation feels left behind in some way by the technology and social patterns of the one following it. My parents lived in a generation where a woman wore her hat and gloves to town and wouldn’t be caught dead in public in pants. I’ve seen some in my generation go to a show at the Fox in shorts and flip-flops. My mother was aghast at that in her dress and pearls. Adjustments are hard, but we make them and the basic foundation of the country survives. I think we’ll continue that positive momentum going forward, and we might just survive some minor changes like marriage equality without falling into anarchy and chaos.

The other half of your brain.

December 9th, 2012
4:45 pm

getalife

December 9th, 2012
2:59 pm

Lets count how many time our cons have been right in the last decade.

What will you do when you get to 10.

RF

December 9th, 2012
4:46 pm

“All available evidence suggests otherwise.”

Wanna ’splain that one to me?

Kamchak ~ Thug from the Steppes

December 9th, 2012
4:52 pm

RF

Four years of posting here and at the now defunct Cynthia Tucker’s next door and every time this subject has come up, the zoophilia and pedophilia card are invariably played.

No matter how many times it has been pointed out that neither animals nor minor children can enter into a legal contract (which is what marriage is), they always exclaim that allowing teh gheys to marry will lead to zoophilia and pedophilia.

Common Sense isn't very Common

December 9th, 2012
4:53 pm

The other half of your brain.

Lets count how many time our cons have been right in the last decade.

What will you do when you get to 10.
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Considering we haven’t got to 1 yet, no worries

:-)

The other half of your brain.

December 9th, 2012
4:56 pm

RF

December 9th, 2012
4:45 pm

“I think the problem is in how fast these things change. Many people in their 70’s and 80’s think America has changed so much as to make them feel they’re living in another country.

Adjustments can be hard.”

I remember my grandparents saying the same thing back in the 60’s, and I hear my dad saying it now in his 70’s. Every generation feels left behind in some way by the technology and social patterns of the one following it. My parents lived in a generation where a woman wore her hat and gloves to town and wouldn’t be caught dead in public in pants. I’ve seen some in my generation go to a show at the Fox in shorts and flip-flops. My mother was aghast at that in her dress and pearls. Adjustments are hard, but we make them and the basic foundation of the country survives. I think we’ll continue that positive momentum going forward, and we might just survive some minor changes like marriage equality without falling into anarchy and chaos.

RF, If you do a search on crime stats from the 60’s to 2011, which I just did, you may realize why people of my age group feel the way we do.

If you haven’t lived in the 50’s till now then you won’t realize what we are talking about.

getalife

December 9th, 2012
4:58 pm

“What will you do when you get to 10.”

List them con.

josef

December 9th, 2012
5:15 pm

Just an observation, but whatever the Supremes do decide, it won’t be based on theological dogma. So, much of what the zealots have had to say here is just so much background noise. Entertaining and even somewhat informative, but not very pertinent to the actual matter at hand.

The other half of your brain.

December 9th, 2012
5:20 pm

getalife

December 9th, 2012
4:58 pm

“What will you do when you get to 10.”

List them con.

GetaClue, I was refering to the number of digits that you have on your hands, guess it flew over your little head.

Brosephus™

December 9th, 2012
5:24 pm

However, the question is – will we learn from our mistakes or be like the philosopher who said “those who do not learn from history are doomed to repeat it”?

Only time will tell. I’d suggest everyone brush up on their Gibbon as a starter.

getalife

December 9th, 2012
5:25 pm

The cons exist to fight change because change scares the old poor things.

I would like to see change in the job sector.

Lets get back to full employment .

getalife

December 9th, 2012
5:26 pm

half brain,

List them or zip it.

josef

December 9th, 2012
5:27 pm

BROSEPHUS

Gibbon. Yep.

Kamchak ~ Thug from the Steppes

December 9th, 2012
5:33 pm

GetaClue, I was refering to the number of digits that you have on your hands, guess it flew over your little head.

When you got nuthin’, deflect.

Morality?

December 9th, 2012
5:40 pm

Jay takes our mind off of the fact that we are going over the fiscal cliff with this tripe.

Welcome to the Occupation

December 9th, 2012
5:41 pm

Morality? “Jay takes our mind off of the fact that we are going over the fiscal cliff with this tripe.”

We’re not going over any fiscal “cliff”.

josef

December 9th, 2012
5:43 pm

Morality

Tripe? I guess we can call this a gut issue, then? :-)

getalife

December 9th, 2012
5:49 pm

“When you got nuthin’, deflect.”

Yep.

Welcome to the Occupation

December 9th, 2012
5:51 pm

By the way, it’s not just here in the states that this issue is controversial. It’s in the UK, too. Cameron is all in, but he has critics.

http://twitpic.com/bkl92k

Plus in France, there have been anti-gay marriage demonstrations.

josef

December 9th, 2012
5:56 pm

Tundra Dude

December 9th, 2012
5:59 pm

Holy Cow…1000 comments…
Time to start exchanging recipes…