When the playoffs get underway and the Super Bowl build-up is full-tilt, David Heaton might feel the pain.
For right now, he’s good.
The “sports nut,” as he called himself, pulled the plug on his family’s cable television about two months ago, and with that move he turned away from the bells-and-whistles package that afforded him Sunday afternoon bliss — every game he wanted to see at the touch of the remote.
That was before he lost his job and couldn’t find another steady one for almost a year. In those leaner times, Heaton cut the fat, eventually including cable television. He’s saving about $100 a month, he said.
“I’ve been able to spend more quality time with my family,” Heaton said. “I watch too much TV anyway.”
When times get tough, consumers buckle down. It isn’t easy to stop costly habits or behaviors, though. Doing so, however, could put you on the road to financial freedom. At the very least, it can give you a little breathing room from suffocating, often-unnecessary bills.
“We’re creating some awareness there that may not have been there before, particularly if it’s very casual spending” said Mary Ellen Nicol, a foreclosure prevention counselor with Consumer Credit Counseling Service of Greater Atlanta.
A smoker may spend $5.50 a day on a pack of cigarettes. When Nicol points out that’s $165 a month — money that could help reduce credit card debt, for instance — it hits home.
“I want them to see what effect that’s really having on their budget,” she said.
Stan Nation and his wife worked together and ate late lunch out every day, he said. Then, they’d stop and have dinner on the way home from work. That alone didn’t lead to the couple filing for bankruptcy. But even after managing to repair their credit and being issued a credit card six months later, they fell back into bad habits and more debt.
“We got one get-out-of-jail-free card,” he said. “We were headed there again, and I said, ‘Let’s stop and think about what we’re doing.’ I didn’t want to make the same mistakes again. I heard Dave Ramsey on the radio say how much eating out will burn through your budget.”
The Nations were spending about $160 a week on eating out, he said. That’s more than $8,000 a year.
Today, the couple cooks most of the week’s meals on the weekends. In 11 months, after selling a truck and cutting costs in other areas, they are debt-free.
Whether it’s small items every day, like coffee, sodas and snacks, or big spending habits like clothes shopping, expenditures add up fast.
Nicol said she counseled one homeowner who, along with her daughter, spent $800-$900 a month on clothes and dry cleaning. Others spend as much as $50 a month at coffee shops. Some consumers spend money each month on gym memberships they never use, on magazine subscriptions that are never read or produce that goes bad in the refrigerator.
“Even though things have changed financially, they still want to feel the same way, and that includes [small] spending,” Nicol said. “Some people are not at the point to see where cutting down is really a way to increase their income. We’ll hear from them later on. It’s a process. Some will get it right away; others come to it slowly.”
Heaton has taken his lumps, going to sports bars or the homes of friends to watch football. Still, he doesn’t plan on going back to cable anytime soon.
“It’s all going toward debt,” he said. “We just paid off one card, and we’re working hard to get rid of another one. It has worked.”
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7 comments Add your comment
Becky
October 13th, 2009
8:42 am
Congratulaions to Stan and his wife..Also to Mr. Heaton for spending more time with his kids instead of in front of the TV..
Stan
October 13th, 2009
9:01 am
Thanks Becky, and thank you Rana.
Good luck Mr Heaton, stick with it and you can get out of debt forever.
realist
October 13th, 2009
9:49 am
Getting out of debt is really hard work. It takes true commitment. I’ve been working hard on clearing mine, I keep making the same stupid mistake. I’ll pay card off so that the balance is less than $100 than I stupidly go charge soemthing else. What is wrong with me. I cleared my Macy’s card so that I owed less than $55 (down from over $500) than what did I do. I needed a new hat and scarf and now the balance is $150 again. I recognize that it’s all my fault, and I am trying so hard to change. I have gotten 4 other cards to that under $100 balance and I am determined to win this war, even if it is only a war with myself.
Stan
October 13th, 2009
10:02 am
The solution to your problem is simple. Destroy the cards. If it make you feel better then keep 1 major card and get rid of the others.
My wife is currently unemployed, and I will be next month. I thought long and hard about keeping a few cards “just in case” when I realized that the CCs will NOT help me. They can only delay my making a hard choice and getting on with it. If I have to cut my lifestyle to the bone to keep out of debt I will.
Kat
October 13th, 2009
10:30 am
realist: Do the pay off one and pay the minimums on all the others. Then, pay off the next one with the minimums on all the others and so on. Get them out of your life – I’m trying to do the same!
Jeff in Roswell
October 13th, 2009
10:34 am
My wife and I have been down this road so many times. We have more debt than we would like on our credit cards. Last year, I destroyed mine and have since paid off that debt. Just a few months ago, with my wife’s card reaching close to $3500, we said, enough was enough. I was paying $750 to $1000 dollars a month on the card and the balance was still rising. We had a big blow out (discussion) and it was not pretty – but we’ve worked out a plan. IT REALLY SUCKS, but WE ARE TIRED OF GIVING MONEY TO THE CREDIT CARD COMPANIES for having the privilege to buy on credit. I work out a monthly budget at the beginning of the month – my wife and I sit down and discuss it and make changes if neccesary, then we stick to it. We have cut all the cards up except one. I took that card and stuck it in two ziplock bags, within a tightly sealed coffee can. I then buried it in the back yard – about a foot down. It’s there if we absolutely need it for an emergency, otherwise it stays buried. Our budget and bills our paid out of our checking account online. Every Sunday night I update our bill paying and post it on the refrigerator to show us where we are at. The biggest thing for us is we’ve gone to a cash allowance for the two of us. I distribute $40 to each of us on Monday morning. That’s it until the next Monday. This is our blow money. Movies, clothes, eating out, – non essentials. When it is gone, it is gone. No more credit cards at restaurants. We like to go out to eat on Friday nights. If we don’t have enough cash, we stay home. We are on track to have the remaining credit card paid off in three months. The next thing we are going to attack it our Home Equity line, which isn’t really all that much. Some may say that the $40 is not enough a week. You would be surprised. It will work for us until our debts are paid off (excluding our mortgage) and then we will see that we have a lot more money in our monthly budget. We may decide at that time to increase our weekly allowance.
Rana Cash
October 13th, 2009
12:10 pm
To everyone digging in — literally for Jeff in Roswell — congratulations on finding the grit and determination to change your spending habits. Sacrifice now will reap tremendous rewards in your future.
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